For me, it was at my grandpa's funeral.
I honestly have no idea the last time I cried, publicly or private. Hopefully not anytime soon.
11 years and months ago.
Unoriginal
I genuinely can't remember.
F**k, I'm dead inside.
Holy sh*t, when other people were around?
Wow....probably 8 years or so.
I havent really cried in 6 years though.
A week ago on sunday.
I imagine the next time I cry will be tomorrow, f**k funerals, man.
I once realized that I don't remember the last time I cried. I think this might be true for a good number of males.
Maybe a month ago, due to depression, was ofcourse alone.
Today. F**k pollen. F**k Spring.
A few weeks ago, on the train.
I believe it was when I shat my pants in elementary school.
>wearing father's old jacket
>look through pockets, all empty
>suddenly find a toothpick, lightly bent at the tip
>he always used to keep a fresh toothpick in that jacket each day
>realize the one I found was the last one he ever used
>cry like a bitch at work
;_;
2 days ago, for the most part.
But it was just tering up and staying all watery for a while. Was at work, too.
feels bad man.
A month ago when my father died.
about 6 months ago when my girlfriend broke up with me. I bawwed like a baby in front of her. ;_;
ITT: the majority forgetting to add why they cried
i cried on the phone to my friend when i was in the hospital. actually i cried a lot in the hospital, but then again, it was the hospital.
It was today. Got into a car accident and trashed my car.
And before you tell me to suck it up, I had that car for 2 weeks before it died. TWO WEEKS. Now I have to continue paying $6000 to the loaner even though the car I got is now completely dead.
FML.
with other people around
my sister's funeral
When I was 4 I fell out our tree and shattered my leg. My father came out to see what was happenning and asked why I was crying. I told him I hurt my leg and he told me something I will never forget. "Son, men don't cry" and it was the last time I did.
Must have been a very long time ago, because I don't remember crying around others.
I can't cry even when I'm alone and sad as a motherf**ker, which just makes me sadder that I can't even express my sadness.
Around a month ago. Had three friends over, the were watching me play quake live. It was clan arena 5v5 and it was me vs the 4 left on the other team. I managed to kill 3 of them and was in the process of killing the last one, but my browser crashed. I cried out in rage, tears started flowing, i threw an old beer bottle against the wall and told my friends to get the f**k out. i spent the next hour on the couch, crying my eyes out.
A couple months, during a movie that I won't name
it's funny because I rarely cry, and certainly not during movies.
Protip: not crying doesnt make you "tough". Im a guy and I cry at least once a week.
A couple months, during a movie that I won't name
it's funny because I rarely cry, and certainly not during movies.
*a couple months ago
Protip: not crying doesnt make you "tough". Im a guy and I cry at least once a week.
I agree, but unfortunately I just CAN'T cry. It's a once every other year thing, but I wish I could do it weekly
I don't trust a man completely, until I've seen him cry in front of me. He is genuine then.
We've had "when was the last time you cried" threads.
But when was the last time you cried where other people were nearby? Why?
For me, it was at my grandpa's funeral.
Me too, I hadn't cried in front of people (apart from my shrink... Once) for like 6 years. But after lowering him into the grave and just standing over it in the rain I broke down completely.
Protip: not crying doesnt make you "tough". Im a guy and I cry at least once a week.
>Im a pu**y and I cry at least once a week.
When I was 4 I fell out our tree and shattered my leg. My father came out to see what was happenning and asked why I was crying. I told him I hurt my leg and he told me something I will never forget. "Son, men don't cry" and it was the last time I did.
Ni**er, I fell far as f**k on this playground when I was four and broke my right arm. I was hospitalized 1 hour later when my family and I were driving home because my parents noticed that my arm looked f**ked up. They picked me up when I fell, I just didn't cry. AT ALL.
REAL MEN DON'T CRY BITCHES
2 years ago.
Hadn't talked to dad in years (bastard just sort of up and left), was with long term girlfriend at the time, suddenly the thought of me wondering if he was dead/alive and if he ever really gave a sh*t came into my head.
No idea why that got me, I view it all with all complete indifference otherwise.
Protip: not crying doesnt make you "tough". Im a guy and I cry at least once a week.
AT LEAST once a week? What the f**k? Did your balls never drop?
when my dog was having "a seizure", no idea what i really was, but i was 10 or so, thought he was going to die, had that dog all my life, so yeah..
Ni**er, I fell far as f**k on this playground when I was four and broke my right arm. I was hospitalized 1 hour later when my family and I were driving home because my parents noticed that my arm looked f**ked up. They picked me up when I fell, I just didn't cry. AT ALL.
REAL MEN DON'T CRY BITCHES
My leg was shattered into 200 pieces. I fell directly onto my shin from 35 feet in the air and I was f**king 4 you dipsh*t.
But when I was in kindergarden I broke my foot on the same leg kicking a pole and walked on it 2 days before telling my parents.
Around a month ago. Had three friends over, the were watching me play quake live. It was clan arena 5v5 and it was me vs the 4 left on the other team. I managed to kill 3 of them and was in the process of killing the last one, but my browser crashed. I cried out in rage, tears started flowing, i threw an old beer bottle against the wall and told my friends to get the f**k out. i spent the next hour on the couch, crying my eyes out.
F**K YEAH QUAKE LIVE
F**K NO BROWSER CRASH RAAAAAAAGE
On a related note, in one match on Almost Lost In CA, I was the only gut left against 4 enemies. My whole team was watching. I ran around like a f**king maniac and fought like an animal. I f**king beat 4 guys alone, and it was glorious.
We've had "when was the last time you cried" threads.
But when was the last time you cried where other people were nearby? Why?
For me, it was at my grandpa's funeral.
2 months and 7 days ago when i realized it was a year tonight that she died in the car crash and we would never have kids or a house or a future
I cry a lot in my sleep. Usually I wake myself up sobbing. It's really weird and disconcerting, I have no idea why I do it.
Otherwise, I'm completely not a crier. The last time I cried in front of someone was when my boyfriend's grandma died. I didn't like her very much, but he was really close to her, and he was completely shattered, and trying really hard to be strong. It was heartbreaking. Anyone who wouldn't cry in that situation is a cold, cold bastard.
Ni**er, I fell far as f**k on this playground when I was four and broke my right arm. I was hospitalized 1 hour later when my family and I were driving home because my parents noticed that my arm looked f**ked up. They picked me up when I fell, I just didn't cry. AT ALL.
REAL MEN DON'T CRY BITCHES
you can cry and still be tough. about a month ago i had a really awful flare-up of my chron's disease and spent two weeks in the hospital. the pain was awful, up until recently i had nightmares about it. i had tubes in my abdomen and through my nose into my throat, and in my penis, i couldn't eat or sleep.
i cried a lot in those two weeks, every day maybe.
while i realize those are more dire circumstances than the average emotional conflict, it still taught me two things.
1. i am f**king tough.
2. sometimes you just have to cry
neither of these statements are refutable in my opinion, and therefore my point stands.
I cry a lot in my sleep. Usually I wake myself up sobbing. It's really weird and disconcerting, I have no idea why I do it.
Otherwise, I'm completely not a crier. The last time I cried in front of someone was when my boyfriend's grandma died. I didn't like her very much, but he was really close to her, and he was completely shattered, and trying really hard to be strong. It was heartbreaking. Anyone who wouldn't cry in that situation is a cold, cold bastard.
oh shi-,
i've been pretty much dancing around the house ever since i heard my grandfather was going to die soon.
Last time when I cried in front of people was in the fifth grade when I got a "4" equivalent of and "F" at school. It was my first since I was a "10" equivalent of "A" pupil.
Actually I used to cry a lot when I was a kid, not because of painful events but I was a little oversensitive.
For me it started being a manifestation of weakness, so I manned up and became one of those guys that never cry.
I do not find it unacceptable for a man to cry, just not do it at a drop of a leaf. It is more likely that as a male, friends and family will look at you for strength and courage in those bad life moments, so its my opinion that you must keep it in until you cannot keep it in anymore, and then cry when you are alone.
I don`t tell my friends about my sensible nature, but my ex-girlfriend knew about it.
Also I teared up at "Titanic" ; "Jack Ketchum`s: The Girl Next Door (I was in a poor mental state when I saw it)"; "Grave of the Fireflies(sh*t is sad man)"
Last time when I cried in front of people was in the fifth grade when I got a "4" equivalent of and "F" at school. It was my first since I was a "10" equivalent of "A" pupil.
Actually I used to cry a lot when I was a kid, not because of painful events but I was a little oversensitive.
For me it started being a manifestation of weakness, so I manned up and became one of those guys that never cry.
I do not find it unacceptable for a man to cry, just not do it at a drop of a leaf. It is more likely that as a male, friends and family will look at you for strength and courage in those bad life moments, so its my opinion that you must keep it in until you cannot keep it in anymore, and then cry when you are alone.
I don`t tell my friends about my sensible nature, but my ex-girlfriend knew about it.
Also I teared up at "Titanic" ; "Jack Ketchum`s: The Girl Next Door (I was in a poor mental state when I saw it)"; "Grave of the Fireflies(sh*t is sad man)"
the only movies that ever made me cry were
1. The Color Purple (lol)
2. Porco Rosso
3. Princess Mononoke (when i'm in the right mood any scene can make me tear up a bit at least)
the only movies that ever made me cry were
1. The Color Purple (lol)
2. Porco Rosso
3. Princess Mononoke (when i'm in the right mood any scene can make me tear up a bit at least)
Princess Mononoke?! IT'S NOT EVEN A SAD FILM! Try Grave of the fireflies you preening little nancy.
When I was a little kid. If I`m going to cry, it`ll be late at night or when I`m alone.
Last summer. I'd gotten so wound up on loneliness and sexual frustration (emotions new to me, since I had just snapped out of a long anti-social phase) that I was acting funny. I met my mother one day, she mentioned my mood, and I broke down like a baby.
Feels weird man.
i almost got a 100 dollar ticket when i hopped on the bus without paying to go 6 blocks to go to the bank to get some money for further transportation. I'm a poor f** so $100 is really a lot
last fall, when i watched the movie Big Fish
i cried some when my last girlfriend broke up with me. it kind of caught me off guard and i was pretty broken up.
other than that, i haven't cried in years. i come just close enough to shedding a single manly tear at the end of really emotional movies (recent examples including the bucket list and the blind side).
Last time I cried was last night.
I had to have my 13 year old dog put down, he had a stroke.
rip Guinness
Last time I cried was last night.
I had to have my 13 year old dog put down, he had a stroke.
rip Guinness
I know how you feel, Anon. I hope things get better for you - no one likes to lose a best friend. <3
Last time I cried was last night.
I had to have my 13 year old dog put down, he had a stroke.
rip Guinness
also happened to me recently, i feel for ya
Last time I cried was last night.
I had to have my 13 year old dog put down, he had a stroke.
rip Guinness
Aaww :(
Pets dying feels bad man
Grandma died. I kinda knew it was gonna happen in that year. Was never really close. Promised myself to get a first class honours because she was always telling me to study (not that I had any trouble with it).
Just sad u know, even though we're not close. Being family and all.
Cried alone, in my room, for 10 minutes and I went back to writing my paper.
Last time when I cried in front of people was in the fifth grade when I got a "4" equivalent of and "F" at school. It was my first since I was a "10" equivalent of "A" pupil.
Actually I used to cry a lot when I was a kid, not because of painful events but I was a little oversensitive.
For me it started being a manifestation of weakness, so I manned up and became one of those guys that never cry.
I do not find it unacceptable for a man to cry, just not do it at a drop of a leaf. It is more likely that as a male, friends and family will look at you for strength and courage in those bad life moments, so its my opinion that you must keep it in until you cannot keep it in anymore, and then cry when you are alone.
I don`t tell my friends about my sensible nature, but my ex-girlfriend knew about it.
Also I teared up at "Titanic" ; "Jack Ketchum`s: The Girl Next Door (I was in a poor mental state when I saw it)"; "Grave of the Fireflies(sh*t is sad man)"
Also I hate myself for laughing at my grandmother`s funeral, well it was more like a cynic chuckle.
When my grandmother died, I had to go with my mom and her two sister, and meet a third sister at my grandmother`s place.
On the 20 hour train ride there, all were in complete denial, and I was like wtf. We got there, and when we entered the room where my grandma was lying in a coffin. They all broke up into tears... and I laughed without realizing.
I think I did it because funerals are full of bullsh*t, in my family they only meet at funerals. My grandma was sick and alone in the house, she always said that she needs someone next to her, my mom would go take care of her for a month or two, but she could not do that more than two months because she could have lost her job. And my aunts never went to take care of her.
So a nephew with her wife and kids stayed with grandma, but they abused her, so my mom and aunts kicked them out and got a lady from the village to take care of her.
I know how you feel, Anon. I hope things get better for you - no one likes to lose a best friend. <3
also happened to me recently, i feel for ya
Aaww :(
Pets dying feels bad man
thanks anons, in this instance time heals most of the wound.
Uh.. Last time I cried with a lot of people nearby was at my grandpa's viewing (he was cremated after, no funeral/standing by grave/etc).
preemptive
Also I hate myself for laughing at my grandmother`s funeral, well it was more like a cynic chuckle.
When my grandmother died, I had to go with my mom and her two sister, and meet a third sister at my grandmother`s place.
On the 20 hour train ride there, all were in complete denial, and I was like wtf. We got there, and when we entered the room where my grandma was lying in a coffin. They all broke up into tears... and I laughed without realizing.
I think I did it because funerals are full of bullsh*t, in my family they only meet at funerals. My grandma was sick and alone in the house, she always said that she needs someone next to her, my mom would go take care of her for a month or two, but she could not do that more than two months because she could have lost her job. And my aunts never went to take care of her.
So a nephew with her wife and kids stayed with grandma, but they abused her, so my mom and aunts kicked them out and got a lady from the village to take care of her.
When I found out that she died I was relieved because the amount of pain and sorrow that my grandmother went through and the pure tragedy of her life, she was better of dead. That is why I laughed when I saw my aunts crying, because they could have helped her, could have taken care of her, but they did not, they all ran after money and fortune.
We should cry when someones is born not when they are dead. Death is like retirement. When you cry over someones death, you cry because that person was a part of your life which made you happy, WHICH MADE YOU HAPPY. People rarely cry for the thought life that person had, their thoughts, their suffering. They cry because it affects THEM.
When It was time to take my grandma to the graveyard, after the wake (it takes 3 days here). When they prepared to get her out, I touched her hand and let go a tear, nobody did not see, because they were ALL BUSY WITH RELIGIOUS PREPARATIONS.
I just told her in my head. "Grandma, most of you life was work and pain, you were abused by your husband, you did everything for your kids but for them it was not good enough. All you ever wanted is that to never be alone at the end, but fate made it so. I am sorry because you had such a life, but you are a person that I look up too." And that was that, that was my goodbye.
People are bad persons, each and one of us, some are oblivious to that. Some go through life thinking that they are good, some see themselves for what they really are, and never be the same again.
Last time I cried was during my stupor of living my life as a total social pariah. Home now and I feel much better and more confident. I would cry like a girly little bitch just randomly while I tried to go to sleep. Last time I cried in front of someone was my gf who is pretty much the only person I see during said pariah times. It was catharsis of finally seeing and being with someone who cared for me, like I was no longer alone.
F**king pathetic. Haters have just cause to hatin'.
When my dog died over a year ago.
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