My girlfriend had her abortion today

My girlfriend had her abortion today. So I was going to make a thread a few days ago about how we had unprotected sex and she got pregnant, but I didn't want to cause a sh*tstorm that might have instilled doubt in my decision making of whether or not to get an abortion. Anyway, the abortion happened today and what a load off. It's like a get-out-of-jail-free card, so nice.

you know, there is no obligation to make a thread
and it's your girlfriend's life, you shouldn't think other people should have a say.

nice man. is she feeling all the ohmygodmybabysgone trauma yet or is she fine?

Go give her a hug or something. Probably needs it.

>I didn't want to cause a sh*tstorm
WELL GUESS WHAT A SH*TSTORM IS GONNA GO F**KING DOWN NOW THANKS A LOT ASSHAT

you know, there is no obligation to make a thread
and it's your girlfriend's life, you shouldn't think other people should have a say.

INSENSITIVE TWAT WHERE DO YOU THINK YOU ARE

YEAH WELL OPS GF JUST KILLED SOMEONE SO F**K YOU FOR NOT SPEAKING UP

PRETTY SURE IT'S anonymous ARE YOU ON THE RIGHT BOARD?
F**K YOU FA**OTS THIS SH*T IS SO CONTROVERSIAL I REALLY CARE ABOUT WHAT OPS GF DOES WITH HER SH*T

I am sorry you murdered your child

you know, there is no obligation to make a thread
and it's your girlfriend's life, you shouldn't think other people should have a say.

>and it's your girlfriend's life, you shouldn't think other people should have a say.
It's his baby though, he'd have to provide for his girlfriend and child... assuming he isn't a worthless pile of sh*t.

Shoulda kept it op, could have seriously changed your life for the better.

I am sorry you murdered your child

Do you eat chickens eggs? Well if abortion is so wrong why are you the sick f**k to eat the contents of an animal abortion?

Abortion to me is one of those things that is terrible, shouldn't happen, doesn't need to happen, but happens anyway. People either flip the sh*t when faced with this fact and act like evangelical retards or act like pro-choice morons and pretend this sort of thing is perfectly harmless and justifiable when in reality it isn't.
I don't believe in sacrificing life for comfort. But I don't believe in making a thirteen year old who was raped by her father have a baby either. I'm not going to judge a bunch of scared teenagers. But don't expect me to act like I think this sort of thing is good.
I'm sick of having to take sides in the inevitable. People will do what they want. I can't stop it and at this point I've stopped trying.

nice man. is she feeling all the ohmygodmybabysgone trauma yet or is she fine?

She's cried multiple times now, but I keep telling her that her emotions are getting in the way and that it was the right decision. She'll get over it, you know how women are.

I would hate to get a girl pregnant only to find she has an abortion. I just can't wait until I have a baby that is my own.
OP, you're missing out on so much.

Now make her get another one

just be prepared for a hormone roller coaster of a ride for a few weeks with your gf.

Do you eat chickens eggs? Well if abortion is so wrong why are you the sick f**k to eat the contents of an animal abortion?

The eggs you buy in the supermarket are more like a chickens period.

She's cried multiple times now, but I keep telling her that her emotions are getting in the way and that it was the right decision. She'll get over it, you know how women are.

Hate to break it to you, but it will haunt her for the rest of her life. This will never go away.

I would hate to get a girl pregnant only to find she has an abortion. I just can't wait until I have a baby that is my own.
OP, you're missing out on so much.

OP.
It was your fault that you were irresponsible with having unprotected sex.
Baby killer. >_>;

I wish stupid asswipes like you could be fined for being such stupid asswipes
Maybe some day.

OP she will think of this child that never will be for the rest of her life.
Women can't handle that bro. Leave her now or she will slowly go insane.

OP, honest question.
Who's idea was this? Because if it was yours then have fun dealing with the sh*tstorm your relationship will no doubt turn into.

She's cried multiple times now, but I keep telling her that her emotions are getting in the way and that it was the right decision. She'll get over it, you know how women are.

Go f**king comfort her.

Why are anonf**s offended by abortion, we all masturbate regularly. That's deprving babies of life too. Would you rather the kid live, and make life hard for the parents and the child. Grow dicks people

She's cried multiple times now, but I keep telling her that her emotions are getting in the way and that it was the right decision. She'll get over it, you know how women are.

No, that will haunt her for the rest of her life. Comfort her.

Why are anonf**s offended by abortion, we all masturbate regularly. That's deprving babies of life too. Would you rather the kid live, and make life hard for the parents and the child. Grow dicks people

Haha, no.
Gtfo
blox

Only America and other parts of super religious 1st world nations cry about abortions. What absolute sh*t drama you people create for yourselves. In Russia and China they give out abortions like no ones business and it isnt this sentimental 'bad thing'. There's just so much hype in america that the FUTURE CHILD is now ZOMG DEAD and f**king boohoo n sh*t.
I've had 4 abortions and not a ONE of them was traumatizing. If you think using abortions as birth control is a bad thing too, go f**k yourselves. You cant be pro choice but only for 1 hard considered and mourned abortion. Its either tissue (at best) or dead baby at worst and really who the f**k cares. You do? becuase it was YOURS? how gay...
anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month. I thought carrying a baby to term would make me mourn the ones i aborted, but it just doesnt. I still dont care.

I never get why males have a "load off" at abortion. For females, an abortion means not having to be pregnant. Its painful and costs $$$ but its our last resort of BC.
For men though, what difference is there between adoption vs. abortion?

Why are anonf**s offended by abortion, we all masturbate regularly. That's deprving babies of life too. Would you rather the kid live, and make life hard for the parents and the child. Grow dicks people

Sperm have a pretty short lifespan and have no minds to speak of.
A baby is a baby and a fetus begins developing a brain and heart pretty early on.
Masturbation is pretty natural behavior. Ripping an unborn child out of your womb is not.

Why are anonf**s offended by abortion, we all masturbate regularly. That's deprving babies of life too. Would you rather the kid live, and make life hard for the parents and the child. Grow dicks people

0/10 masterbaiting != abortion

Only America and other parts of super religious 1st world nations cry about abortions. What absolute sh*t drama you people create for yourselves. In Russia and China they give out abortions like no ones business and it isnt this sentimental 'bad thing'. There's just so much hype in america that the FUTURE CHILD is now ZOMG DEAD and f**king boohoo n sh*t.
I've had 4 abortions and not a ONE of them was traumatizing. If you think using abortions as birth control is a bad thing too, go f**k yourselves. You cant be pro choice but only for 1 hard considered and mourned abortion. Its either tissue (at best) or dead baby at worst and really who the f**k cares. You do? becuase it was YOURS? how gay...
anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month. I thought carrying a baby to term would make me mourn the ones i aborted, but it just doesnt. I still dont care.

>anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month

Protip; you're going to get hit by a bus and lose it anyway.
See if you care then.

Hate to break it to you, but it will haunt her for the rest of her life. This will never go away.

If she can't handle it she shouldn't have f**ked me.

It was my idea, she agreed to it. I'm not going to take sh*t from her for consenting to something. She's been pretty awesome about it but if she doesn't get over it then she's going to ruin the relationship. I know women will be women, I understand that and I'm ready for that, but eventually enough will be enough, you know?
People are so soft these days god damn

Only America and other parts of super religious 1st world nations cry about abortions. What absolute sh*t drama you people create for yourselves. In Russia and China they give out abortions like no ones business and it isnt this sentimental 'bad thing'. There's just so much hype in america that the FUTURE CHILD is now ZOMG DEAD and f**king boohoo n sh*t.
I've had 4 abortions and not a ONE of them was traumatizing. If you think using abortions as birth control is a bad thing too, go f**k yourselves. You cant be pro choice but only for 1 hard considered and mourned abortion. Its either tissue (at best) or dead baby at worst and really who the f**k cares. You do? becuase it was YOURS? how gay...
anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month. I thought carrying a baby to term would make me mourn the ones i aborted, but it just doesnt. I still dont care.

You are everything I hate about the modern world.
And what a Brave New World it is...

If she can't handle it she shouldn't have f**ked me.

It was my idea, she agreed to it. I'm not going to take sh*t from her for consenting to something. She's been pretty awesome about it but if she doesn't get over it then she's going to ruin the relationship. I know women will be women, I understand that and I'm ready for that, but eventually enough will be enough, you know?
People are so soft these days god damn

You're a douchebag. Really.

Only America and other parts of super religious 1st world nations cry about abortions. What absolute sh*t drama you people create for yourselves. In Russia and China they give out abortions like no ones business and it isnt this sentimental 'bad thing'. There's just so much hype in america that the FUTURE CHILD is now ZOMG DEAD and f**king boohoo n sh*t.
I've had 4 abortions and not a ONE of them was traumatizing. If you think using abortions as birth control is a bad thing too, go f**k yourselves. You cant be pro choice but only for 1 hard considered and mourned abortion. Its either tissue (at best) or dead baby at worst and really who the f**k cares. You do? becuase it was YOURS? how gay...
anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month. I thought carrying a baby to term would make me mourn the ones i aborted, but it just doesnt. I still dont care.

What a cool lady.

You're a douchebag. Really.

How do you think he got a girlfriend in the first place hurr durr

You're a douchebag. Really.

LOL at least I'm happy and can move on man.

My girlfriend is one month pregnant.
We'd never get an abortion. Not because 'lul jesus says it's wrong', but it just doesn't feel right. Sure, we're probably f**ked, but the least i can do is give the kid a chance.

How do you think he got a girlfriend in the first place hurr durr

Not how it works, you know.

My girlfriend had her abortion today. So I was going to make a thread a few days ago about how we had unprotected sex and she got pregnant, but I didn't want to cause a sh*tstorm that might have instilled doubt in my decision making of whether or not to get an abortion. Anyway, the abortion happened today and what a load off. It's like a get-out-of-jail-free card, so nice.

Are you a CEman by any chance?

If she can't handle it she shouldn't have f**ked me.

It was my idea, she agreed to it. I'm not going to take sh*t from her for consenting to something. She's been pretty awesome about it but if she doesn't get over it then she's going to ruin the relationship. I know women will be women, I understand that and I'm ready for that, but eventually enough will be enough, you know?
People are so soft these days god damn

You sound like an inconsiderate prick.
Honestly, if shes crying about it then she regrets it at least a little. It WILL NOT go away. Seriously, put yourself in her shoes. You might not give a sh*t about the thing, but she obviously did.

as always we are 4chan
this is related.

LOL at least I'm happy and can move on man.

But is your significant other happy? No? THEN GO TRY TO MAKE HER HAPPY AS SHE JUST KILLED HER OWN FLESH AND BLOOD BECAUSE YOU WANTED HER TO.

You sound like an inconsiderate prick.
Honestly, if shes crying about it then she regrets it at least a little. It WILL NOT go away. Seriously, put yourself in her shoes. You might not give a sh*t about the thing, but she obviously did.

baww you spilled your semen life is over bawwww

Good job, dude but one more thing you should be doing soon, get rid of her. She is probably mentally and physically f**ked up right now. Don't waste your time with her.

Fembot here. I've had 5 abortions in the past 2 years. What happens is that when I have sex with my bf the condom breaks. That is what happened the first two times and I hate it. Getting an abortion is not a big deal and I do not know why people are makeing a big fuss about it because nobody is murdering anything and besides the child isn't even born yet.

baww you spilled your semen life is over bawwww

Uh...what? We aren't talking about me here.

Fembot here. I've had 5 abortions in the past 2 years. What happens is that when I have sex with my bf the condom breaks. That is what happened the first two times and I hate it. Getting an abortion is not a big deal and I do not know why people are makeing a big fuss about it because nobody is murdering anything and besides the child isn't even born yet.

See


I hope you're lying.

But is your significant other happy? No? THEN GO TRY TO MAKE HER HAPPY AS SHE JUST KILLED HER OWN FLESH AND BLOOD BECAUSE YOU WANTED HER TO.

She KILLED a PARASITE!?
We should MURDER the EVIL rat exterminators.

You sound like an inconsiderate prick.
Honestly, if shes crying about it then she regrets it at least a little. It WILL NOT go away. Seriously, put yourself in her shoes. You might not give a sh*t about the thing, but she obviously did.

yes it will go away when she realizes how she just saved her life froma snot mining little sh*t who will hate her when its a teenager. She'll have dedicated herself to some barf poop squirting monkey for no f**king reason, and it will have ruined her life. Any girl will be happy about that the next time she dines or clubs or does anything you cant f**king do with a kid.

See


I hope you're lying.

I like you, smilecat.

Fembot here. I've had 5 abortions in the past 2 years. What happens is that when I have sex with my bf the condom breaks. That is what happened the first two times and I hate it. Getting an abortion is not a big deal and I do not know why people are makeing a big fuss about it because nobody is murdering anything and besides the child isn't even born yet.

Looks like i'll be having my second abortion.
Since, catching it on early...it will be a simple taking pills affair...hoorah.
But i'm sick of this super fertile sh*t, have sex twice a month on the pill and this sh*t happens.

Good job, dude but one more thing you should be doing soon, get rid of her. She is probably mentally and physically f**ked up right now. Don't waste your time with her.

nah man she's really cool. Best girl I've had easily.
If this f**ks her up though I'm out. I need a girl with backbone.

You idiots fall for this troll every time
Every single time.

OP here. She just called me for the fifth time tonight telling me how bad she feels, as if she didn't express it to me the first 27 times. This is getting a bit ridiculous. My phone is going off for the night...

She KILLED a PARASITE!?
We should MURDER the EVIL rat exterminators.

>Implying you were not at one point a parasite
>Implying the future doesn't matter, only the present.
Seriously.
Parasite now=Parasite forever?
No. Parasite now, living breathing, thinking, human being in 9 months. Hell, I know a women who just had a premature birth at 7 months. Thing is tiny but otherwise pretty healthy.
So really, this thing is obviously more significant then a parasite.

You idiots fall for this troll every time
Every single time.

I love arguing about it though. I haven't had a chance to use my soapbox recently, you see.

>Implying you were not at one point a parasite
>Implying the future doesn't matter, only the present.
Seriously.
Parasite now=Parasite forever?
No. Parasite now, living breathing, thinking, human being in 9 months. Hell, I know a women who just had a premature birth at 7 months. Thing is tiny but otherwise pretty healthy.
So really, this thing is obviously more significant then a parasite.

because the world needs more unwanted children.

Sperm have a pretty short lifespan and have no minds to speak of.
A baby is a baby and a fetus begins developing a brain and heart pretty early on.
Masturbation is pretty natural behavior. Ripping an unborn child out of your womb is not.

I've always been rather indifferent about abortion. People are so upset by it because they value human (emphasis on human?) life so greatly, and the lives of babies/children, for that matter. If we were to ignore any issues of a 'soul', why is there such a value placed on fetuses that the parents do not want?
Actually, nevermind. People are against it because of their natural instincts and desire to protect children, and/or because their religion tells them it is wrong.

OP here. She just called me for the fifth time tonight telling me how bad she feels, as if she didn't express it to me the first 27 times. This is getting a bit ridiculous. My phone is going off for the night...

You're not me. stop that lol
In regards to the whole abortion argument, I don't give a f**k. We got an abortion. What are you going to do about it? Yell at me over the internet?

I've always been rather indifferent about abortion. People are so upset by it because they value human (emphasis on human?) life so greatly, and the lives of babies/children, for that matter. If we were to ignore any issues of a 'soul', why is there such a value placed on fetuses that the parents do not want?
Actually, nevermind. People are against it because of their natural instincts and desire to protect children, and/or because their religion tells them it is wrong.

The way I look at it, what right do people have to deprive another of any chance of happiness?
That, as well as the fact that I have a pretty big hardon for responsibility. I don't like the idea that mindless hedonism is getting easier and easier to indulge in. I already brought up Brave New World.

Rather be born and unwanted then dead.
The world is not overpopulated. We just consume to much, more then we will ever need. Babies aren't the problem, we are.

The way I look at it, what right do people have to deprive another of any chance of happiness?
That, as well as the fact that I have a pretty big hardon for responsibility. I don't like the idea that mindless hedonism is getting easier and easier to indulge in. I already brought up Brave New World.

Rather be born and unwanted then dead.
The world is not overpopulated. We just consume to much, more then we will ever need. Babies aren't the problem, we are.

Dear Dad,
Hey, that sounds kind of weird. Dad. You probably didn't think you'd be hearing that anytime soon...Well, no one really ever does. Although I suppose it's not actually relevant, because you aborted me. You know. Before I was born and all. Even paid to have it done, and felt relief, relief of all things when I was gone. Rejection feels bad enough when you're alive, you know. But anyway, Dad, yes, you aborted me, and for that, I have only one thing to say.
Thank you!

Dear Dad,
Hey, that sounds kind of weird. Dad. You probably didn't think you'd be hearing that anytime soon...Well, no one really ever does. Although I suppose it's not actually relevant, because you aborted me. You know. Before I was born and all. Even paid to have it done, and felt relief, relief of all things when I was gone. Rejection feels bad enough when you're alive, you know. But anyway, Dad, yes, you aborted me, and for that, I have only one thing to say.
Thank you!

Holy sh*t, you have no idea how f**ked-up I would have been. For real. But just to let you know, since I'm here in places that Schroedinger could only dream about, let me give you a brief rundown of the life I would have had, if you'd made the boneheaded mistake of keeping me.

Technically the baby wasn't alive. It was just a developing pile of goo. Good job OP.

Holy sh*t, you have no idea how f**ked-up I would have been. For real. But just to let you know, since I'm here in places that Schroedinger could only dream about, let me give you a brief rundown of the life I would have had, if you'd made the boneheaded mistake of keeping me.

I probably don't need to tell you that, while I was gestating, your girlfriend took a morning-after pill and dropped tabs, and did so with a false sense of security because the zoomtards at health services told her she wasn't pregnant. Yeah. And c'mon Dad, anyone who hits the sauce as much as you do shouldn't be fathering anyone, let alone me. But hell, you weren't trying to have me, so no worries.

sex havan
baby murderan

I probably don't need to tell you that, while I was gestating, your girlfriend took a morning-after pill and dropped tabs, and did so with a false sense of security because the zoomtards at health services told her she wasn't pregnant. Yeah. And c'mon Dad, anyone who hits the sauce as much as you do shouldn't be fathering anyone, let alone me. But hell, you weren't trying to have me, so no worries.

Anyway, my life. You can probably imagine that your sex life would have been ruined by her being pregnant, and you're right. Although you two love each other, it would be battered to pieces by her being pregnant, and you'd start to resent each other, you resenting her for getting pregnant, and she, you, for making her so. This would have gone on, but you'd have resolved to stay together.

I'm for abortion. Although I think we should take it farther most kids aren't sentient enough to be truly considered alive to me until 2 years old, so anything under should be okay to kill.

Anyway, my life. You can probably imagine that your sex life would have been ruined by her being pregnant, and you're right. Although you two love each other, it would be battered to pieces by her being pregnant, and you'd start to resent each other, you resenting her for getting pregnant, and she, you, for making her so. This would have gone on, but you'd have resolved to stay together.

Finding out I was a boy, you'd have named me before I was born, and incidentally a good-sized fight would have broken out over the last name. Eventually settling on hers (probably knowing what was going to happen), you named me Stephen after your dad, and then I was born, at which point your resentment of each other turned into a quiet sort of unspoken mutual distaste. It's really hard to care about someone when you half-blame them for ruining your life.
me?

hey you made this thread on CE too you fa**ot

Finding out I was a boy, you'd have named me before I was born, and incidentally a good-sized fight would have broken out over the last name. Eventually settling on hers (probably knowing what was going to happen), you named me Stephen after your dad, and then I was born, at which point your resentment of each other turned into a quiet sort of unspoken mutual distaste. It's really hard to care about someone when you half-blame them for ruining your life.
me?

I was all sorts of wack. For one thing I was born retarded, and pretty appalling to look at, and both problems only got worse as time went on. Keeping me alive put you in the poorhouse pretty much, and you wound up living at your parents' house with a baby. Sure, you loved me, but you stopped caring about my mom, and you two eventually broke up. As she could not possibly support a child, that went to you.

I was all sorts of wack. For one thing I was born retarded, and pretty appalling to look at, and both problems only got worse as time went on. Keeping me alive put you in the poorhouse pretty much, and you wound up living at your parents' house with a baby. Sure, you loved me, but you stopped caring about my mom, and you two eventually broke up. As she could not possibly support a child, that went to you.

Your life was wrecked, your career never happened, we lived with your parents until you were thirty, and school was hell for me, absolute hell. After my mom, you were single for the rest of your life because no one wanted to date the parent of a retarded, deformed kid. Speaking of, school was pretty much hell in every way. I was picked on constantly, had no friends, and even the teachers hated me. Although I was far too f**king stupid to catch all of the barbs thrown my way, I got enough of it, and though you were a really good father, I mean come on.

Your life was wrecked, your career never happened, we lived with your parents until you were thirty, and school was hell for me, absolute hell. After my mom, you were single for the rest of your life because no one wanted to date the parent of a retarded, deformed kid. Speaking of, school was pretty much hell in every way. I was picked on constantly, had no friends, and even the teachers hated me. Although I was far too f**king stupid to catch all of the barbs thrown my way, I got enough of it, and though you were a really good father, I mean come on.

It's not like I really understood anything you told me. Mom saw me a lot, and tried to be a parent, but you two couldn't stand each other because of all the bullsh*t that flew years ago. You missed her forever, and she missed you. Eventually it was off to high school for me, where the fact that we were one of the poorest families in town was certainly fodder for discussion, and quite a few beatings against which my palsied hands could offer no real defense. Unable to take a hint, I asked a lot of really pretty girls to the prom, and was met, mostly, with "I'd rather die, you freak." I went to prom anyway, and sat alone, once or twice being pelted with food.

It's not like I really understood anything you told me. Mom saw me a lot, and tried to be a parent, but you two couldn't stand each other because of all the bullsh*t that flew years ago. You missed her forever, and she missed you. Eventually it was off to high school for me, where the fact that we were one of the poorest families in town was certainly fodder for discussion, and quite a few beatings against which my palsied hands could offer no real defense. Unable to take a hint, I asked a lot of really pretty girls to the prom, and was met, mostly, with "I'd rather die, you freak." I went to prom anyway, and sat alone, once or twice being pelted with food.

You moved out at thirty, but I never could, because social security or none I was too much of a basket case to make the requisite loot, and I never moved out. The rest you can probably guess yourself.
So, here I am in potentia, and very, very happy to stay that way. Pro-lifers say that a baby, if it knew, would want to be born, but I can say in all honesty that if I knew in the womb what I know at the moment, if asked I'd say "f**k that, I'll chill in the realm of permanent possibility, hanging out with Metallica's credibility."

Your life was wrecked, your career never happened, we lived with your parents until you were thirty, and school was hell for me, absolute hell. After my mom, you were single for the rest of your life because no one wanted to date the parent of a retarded, deformed kid. Speaking of, school was pretty much hell in every way. I was picked on constantly, had no friends, and even the teachers hated me. Although I was far too f**king stupid to catch all of the barbs thrown my way, I got enough of it, and though you were a really good father, I mean come on.

Life is never easy. It has plenty of downs. But for every down there is an up. Little moments of beauty that make it all worthwhile are easy to come by if you know where to look. Life for many can be hard, but despite the misery and the hardship there is always good. Always laughter and beauty. No matter what horrible turns life can take, their is always something worth getting up for in the morning. I for one love the sound of birds chirping and sunbeams coming in from the window.
There is no such thing as a life of absolute misery. Although it might seem that way, there is not a single human being on earth who hasn't smiled at least once.
Don't give me this bullsh*t about how terrible your life will be. ADOPT MOTHERF**KER, IF IT IS SO DAMN HARD!

You moved out at thirty, but I never could, because social security or none I was too much of a basket case to make the requisite loot, and I never moved out. The rest you can probably guess yourself.
So, here I am in potentia, and very, very happy to stay that way. Pro-lifers say that a baby, if it knew, would want to be born, but I can say in all honesty that if I knew in the womb what I know at the moment, if asked I'd say "f**k that, I'll chill in the realm of permanent possibility, hanging out with Metallica's credibility."

So thank you, Dad. And Mom too. You cut the plant off at the seed, rather than let it grow sick and miserable and wishing it had never been born. Er, metaphorically. I never even became a person, mostly just a blood clot, but you were as close to a parent as anyone can be, and I was as close to your child as you've had so far, and in those terms, by letting me go rather than consigning me to a life of unrelenting hell on earth, I'd have to say that you and D. were the best parents anyone could ask for. Anyway, I'm out like your sex drive for a week after the abortion. Laters. -S
yay for abortions!

You moved out at thirty, but I never could, because social security or none I was too much of a basket case to make the requisite loot, and I never moved out. The rest you can probably guess yourself.
So, here I am in potentia, and very, very happy to stay that way. Pro-lifers say that a baby, if it knew, would want to be born, but I can say in all honesty that if I knew in the womb what I know at the moment, if asked I'd say "f**k that, I'll chill in the realm of permanent possibility, hanging out with Metallica's credibility."

For the record, the chances of a child being born generally healthy and living comfortably enough to get by are much greater in the first world then the chances of being born mentally retarded and deformed and into a life of absolute misery and despair.
What you are telling me is essentially the same as pro lifers saying "YOUR BABY COULD HAVE CURED CANCER!".

Life is never easy. It has plenty of downs. But for every down there is an up. Little moments of beauty that make it all worthwhile are easy to come by if you know where to look. Life for many can be hard, but despite the misery and the hardship there is always good. Always laughter and beauty. No matter what horrible turns life can take, their is always something worth getting up for in the morning. I for one love the sound of birds chirping and sunbeams coming in from the window.
There is no such thing as a life of absolute misery. Although it might seem that way, there is not a single human being on earth who hasn't smiled at least once.
Don't give me this bullsh*t about how terrible your life will be. ADOPT MOTHERF**KER, IF IT IS SO DAMN HARD!

if anything adoption is far more cruel then abortion.

For the record, the chances of a child being born generally healthy and living comfortably enough to get by are much greater in the first world then the chances of being born mentally retarded and deformed and into a life of absolute misery and despair.
What you are telling me is essentially the same as pro lifers saying "YOUR BABY COULD HAVE CURED CANCER!".

yay for more lower middle class runts!
you make me feel like I need to scream at the 20 year old women I know who have 3 or more semen demons.

if anything adoption is far more cruel then abortion.

No, it isn't.
My uncle has adopted two children. They are all very happy. I like how you guys assume a life can be 100% miserable with no chance of happiness. It's so stupid...
If a kid in a war torn African country can smile and laugh then so can a kid in a foster home.

No, it isn't.
My uncle has adopted two children. They are all very happy. I like how you guys assume a life can be 100% miserable with no chance of happiness. It's so stupid...
If a kid in a war torn African country can smile and laugh then so can a kid in a foster home.

but you were the one you got to adopt a child...yay for you.
Most children waiting for adoption are unwanted mentally handicapped children...or are foriegn children that will cost nearly 20grand to "buy".
Now for the people forced to give their child to adoption.
You must care and carry that child for 9 months and bond, go through labour and bring that child into the world. And say good bye, because you can't keep it.
Or choose to keep it, and live in poverty...that's cool too.
I'd rather have an abortion then make you religioua f**s happy.
if men had the children, abortions would be a rule enforced at all times.

Most kids will live a horrible life. Perhaps they might be lucky and escape the misery. Most likely they will not.
Why send them through the torture of life just to satisfy your morals?

People who are pro-abortion are f**king retards. One word:
>Adoption
Adoption gives two pros
1. You are not killing your baby
2. You are letting a couple who can't get pregnant a way to have a baby.
you know, abortion is like circumcision. The parents think it's the right thing but at the end of the day you've taken away the choice of the person you're doing it to, you don't own that child, that child is a unique person.
Just think about it.
>Oh noes, but that means I have to suffer 9 months of pregnancy, I don't want that!
Don't f**king have sex then

My girlfriend had her abortion today. So I was going to make a thread a few days ago about how we had unprotected sex and she got pregnant, but I didn't want to cause a sh*tstorm that might have instilled doubt in my decision making of whether or not to get an abortion. Anyway, the abortion happened today and what a load off. It's like a get-out-of-jail-free card, so nice.

mathew?

My girlfriend of over a year was the child of two confused teenagers who had sex at 16. They were morally against abortion and wanted to raise the child themselves, but realized that it wouldn't be possible without giving up their lives. They ended up putting her in foster care, where she was put into a kind, loving family in a very good town, and she has since then had a successful life and is one of the most purely kind people i know.
Before she told me this story about her, I was for abortion and thought anyone against it was just a jesus-loving, extremist christian fa**ot.
We're moving in together next week. Would it kill you to put the kid up for adoption? Think about the life that you're creating, think about how that life will affect the lives of others.

but you were the one you got to adopt a child...yay for you.
Most children waiting for adoption are unwanted mentally handicapped children...or are foriegn children that will cost nearly 20grand to "buy".
Now for the people forced to give their child to adoption.
You must care and carry that child for 9 months and bond, go through labour and bring that child into the world. And say good bye, because you can't keep it.
Or choose to keep it, and live in poverty...that's cool too.
I'd rather have an abortion then make you religioua f**s happy.
if men had the children, abortions would be a rule enforced at all times.

So what I got out of this is
>Killing somebody over a possibility of misery makes more sense then letting them live because of a possibility of happiness.
What?
I believe abortion is justified in the case of something being seriously wrong with the baby or a serious medical condition. But if it has the ability to function independently in society then you should avoid aborting as much as humanly possible.
I don't believe in using this as birth control.
By coincidence I know another guy who "bought" a child from Russia. Her names Svetlana, she came over when she was 3. I don't think she is planning suicide anytime soon.

I don't think people should be in the business of telling other people how to live.

but you were the one you got to adopt a child...yay for you.
Most children waiting for adoption are unwanted mentally handicapped children...or are foriegn children that will cost nearly 20grand to "buy".
Now for the people forced to give their child to adoption.
You must care and carry that child for 9 months and bond, go through labour and bring that child into the world. And say good bye, because you can't keep it.
Or choose to keep it, and live in poverty...that's cool too.
I'd rather have an abortion then make you religioua f**s happy.
if men had the children, abortions would be a rule enforced at all times.

>Most children waiting for adoption are unwanted mentally handicapped children
What makes you think OP's baby would have been handicapped...?
Actually nvm

Only America and other parts of super religious 1st world nations cry about abortions. What absolute sh*t drama you people create for yourselves. In Russia and China they give out abortions like no ones business and it isnt this sentimental 'bad thing'. There's just so much hype in america that the FUTURE CHILD is now ZOMG DEAD and f**king boohoo n sh*t.
I've had 4 abortions and not a ONE of them was traumatizing. If you think using abortions as birth control is a bad thing too, go f**k yourselves. You cant be pro choice but only for 1 hard considered and mourned abortion. Its either tissue (at best) or dead baby at worst and really who the f**k cares. You do? becuase it was YOURS? how gay...
anyway, I'm finally settled down and going to give birth to a baby in one month. I thought carrying a baby to term would make me mourn the ones i aborted, but it just doesnt. I still dont care.

This post is f**king awesome.

My girlfriend of over a year was the child of two confused teenagers who had sex at 16. They were morally against abortion and wanted to raise the child themselves, but realized that it wouldn't be possible without giving up their lives. They ended up putting her in foster care, where she was put into a kind, loving family in a very good town, and she has since then had a successful life and is one of the most purely kind people i know.
Before she told me this story about her, I was for abortion and thought anyone against it was just a jesus-loving, extremist christian fa**ot.
We're moving in together next week. Would it kill you to put the kid up for adoption? Think about the life that you're creating, think about how that life will affect the lives of others.

I know how this is as I love someone who is adopted but just because the ones we love had good lives doesn't mean they all will. If every single baby that was aborted was put up for adoption instead.. who's to say they'd all find homes?
Adoption is not flawless. That said, I don't think I could ever abort.

I know how this is as I love someone who is adopted but just because the ones we love had good lives doesn't mean they all will. If every single baby that was aborted was put up for adoption instead.. who's to say they'd all find homes?
Adoption is not flawless. That said, I don't think I could ever abort.

It's not flawless, but it's sure as hell better then death.

OP here. She just called me for the fifth time tonight telling me how bad she feels, as if she didn't express it to me the first 27 times. This is getting a bit ridiculous. My phone is going off for the night...

hey, op being pregnant and then having an abortion isn't like getting your wisdom tooth pulled. it f**king sucks. the hormonal upsurge, the pregnancy, the actual f**king abortion and then the hormonal roller coaster right after the procedure. it takes time for her body to adjust. its rough, man. she just telling you how she feels and right now she feels like sh*t. abortions arent something you forget about. its painful and scary and doing it alone without any emotional support from your partner is f**king tough. stop being a f**king pansy and man up and listen to your gf, shes having a rough time. just listen and be there for her and tell her how much you care about her and how much you admire her for being strong enough to deal with all this. you crybaby bullsh*t is seriously lame and immature. ugh.

She KILLED a PARASITE!?
We should MURDER the EVIL rat exterminators.

You f**king braindead dumbass, nobody should be murdering anybody, that is exactly what the issue is here.
You can give the argument "Oh a sperm is just as much a baby as a fetus", but a sperm, left alone, won't become a baby. A fetus, left alone, will. That is the f**king difference, anonymous.
You do know that in almost every state in America there are places where you can drop a baby off within days after birth, no questions asked, and it will be taken care of and found a home?
It isn't a religious issue, and it's not that people nowadays are "too soft", it is the taking of inevitable human life. If you see NO PROBLEM with killing something that would be a living baby in a year, I really think you have to verge on being a sociopath.
I know my moral compass is in no way perfect, and I generally live by the Golden Rule, and live and let live and that's about it. But what you happen to be partaking in is refusal to let live. And that crosses the line.
OP, you're a bad person.
A horrible person.
It has nothing to do with religion.
It has nothing to do with being soft.
It has nothing to do with "when life happens"
It has nothing to do with "fetus=parasite"
You are a horrible f**king person.

hey, op being pregnant and then having an abortion isn't like getting your wisdom tooth pulled. it f**king sucks. the hormonal upsurge, the pregnancy, the actual f**king abortion and then the hormonal roller coaster right after the procedure. it takes time for her body to adjust. its rough, man. she just telling you how she feels and right now she feels like sh*t. abortions arent something you forget about. its painful and scary and doing it alone without any emotional support from your partner is f**king tough. stop being a f**king pansy and man up and listen to your gf, shes having a rough time. just listen and be there for her and tell her how much you care about her and how much you admire her for being strong enough to deal with all this. you crybaby bullsh*t is seriously lame and immature. ugh.

You realize that the side effects only affect the girl, so it is not like something important

You f**king braindead dumbass, nobody should be murdering anybody, that is exactly what the issue is here.
You can give the argument "Oh a sperm is just as much a baby as a fetus", but a sperm, left alone, won't become a baby. A fetus, left alone, will. That is the f**king difference, anonymous.
You do know that in almost every state in America there are places where you can drop a baby off within days after birth, no questions asked, and it will be taken care of and found a home?
It isn't a religious issue, and it's not that people nowadays are "too soft", it is the taking of inevitable human life. If you see NO PROBLEM with killing something that would be a living baby in a year, I really think you have to verge on being a sociopath.
I know my moral compass is in no way perfect, and I generally live by the Golden Rule, and live and let live and that's about it. But what you happen to be partaking in is refusal to let live. And that crosses the line.
OP, you're a bad person.
A horrible person.
It has nothing to do with religion.
It has nothing to do with being soft.
It has nothing to do with "when life happens"
It has nothing to do with "fetus=parasite"
You are a horrible f**king person.

But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Destroying it only benefits the former carrier, both mental and physical health-wise and financially. It does not have a personality, memories, and depending on what stage it is at it doesn't even have a functioning brain, it's just a lump of biological matter with the potential to become a person someday, it has no real value.

OP WAS STUPID he should have just broke all contact with the girl: be a father with out all the work and responsibility; spread your genes, but let the one who spread her legs bear the burden.
Thats a ans privilege.

OP WAS STUPID he should have just broke all contact with the girl: be a father with out all the work and responsibility; spread your genes, but let the one who spread her legs bear the burden.
Thats a ans privilege.

Thats a mans privilege.

But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Destroying it only benefits the former carrier, both mental and physical health-wise and financially. It does not have a personality, memories, and depending on what stage it is at it doesn't even have a functioning brain, it's just a lump of biological matter with the potential to become a person someday, it has no real value.

>But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Comparing an unborn baby to a parasite is sick. Saying a mother's relationship with her unborn baby is totally one-sided and that a baby is a negative force is sick. Everything about that paragraph is sick.

OP WAS STUPID he should have just broke all contact with the girl: be a father with out all the work and responsibility; spread your genes, but let the one who spread her legs bear the burden.
Thats a ans privilege.

Except for when she brings your ass to court for child support.
My friend's babydaddy is going to jail for not paying his for over a year. Ha, bitch.

But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Destroying it only benefits the former carrier, both mental and physical health-wise and financially. It does not have a personality, memories, and depending on what stage it is at it doesn't even have a functioning brain, it's just a lump of biological matter with the potential to become a person someday, it has no real value.

Actually, every parasite gives something beneficial in return.

Except for when she brings your ass to court for child support.
My friend's babydaddy is going to jail for not paying his for over a year. Ha, bitch.

Law's unfair. IT is her who got pregnant, so she should pa. Its not like his reproductive system carried to term.
Bitches and wh**res!

>But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Comparing an unborn baby to a parasite is sick. Saying a mother's relationship with her unborn baby is totally one-sided and that a baby is a negative force is sick. Everything about that paragraph is sick.

I think that post is pretty sick, too. Booyakasha.

Getting pregnant is sick, how could man possibly reproduce before the invention of axolotl tanks?

Law's unfair. IT is her who got pregnant, so she should pa. Its not like his reproductive system carried to term.
Bitches and wh**res!

Yes, but he helped create the child. If he didn't want the baby, he should have helped pay for the abortion, which she would have gotten if she could have afforded it.
Who cares, anyway? The law's on her side, not his. And it's never going to change, no matter what some guy on 4chan says.

>But a fetus is a parasite, it feeds from the mothers body and does nothing beneficial in return, it can even kill the host when it's born and can be a massive burden on the hosts personal, sex and work life, as well as her and her partners wallet.
Comparing an unborn baby to a parasite is sick. Saying a mother's relationship with her unborn baby is totally one-sided and that a baby is a negative force is sick. Everything about that paragraph is sick.

Why is it sick?

Yes, but he helped create the child. If he didn't want the baby, he should have helped pay for the abortion, which she would have gotten if she could have afforded it.
Who cares, anyway? The law's on her side, not his. And it's never going to change, no matter what some guy on 4chan says.

Well if she couldnt afford an aboprtion, she should have used credit, now because she is o jew to get her stuff in order, he has to pa for her failures.
well it IS legal, but according to current and previous administration, torturing people is legal is long as noone finds out, so meh.

Well if she couldnt afford an aboprtion, she should have used credit, now because she is o jew to get her stuff in order, he has to pa for her failures.
well it IS legal, but according to current and previous administration, torturing people is legal is long as noone finds out, so meh.

Like I said, who cares?
Most men are only good for two things. One of them is sperm, and the other is money. It's time for him to pay up.

I always figured that for the aborted baby, being aborted is like being in Heaven's airport, bags all packed, ready to embark on the ultimate adventure of Life, when suddenly your flight is canceled, and you have to wait for another couple of days before you get to leave.

I always figured that for the aborted baby, being aborted is like being in Heaven's airport, bags all packed, ready to embark on the ultimate adventure of Life, when suddenly your flight is canceled, and you have to wait for another couple of days before you get to leave.

Truer words have never been spoken
THats why the say bitches and wh**res

Truer words have never been spoken
THats why the say bitches and wh**res

(cont'D)
on the other hand, she's stuck with a child. What do you think, will she ever find a caring husband?

ITT: girls against boys

Do you eat chickens eggs? Well if abortion is so wrong why are you the sick f**k to eat the contents of an animal abortion?

... umm do you eat chickens? do you eat people?
Seriously that's got to be about the worst analogy I've ever seen. Not stating any views pro-abortion or against... just your doinitwrong

Do you eat chickens eggs? Well if abortion is so wrong why are you the sick f**k to eat the contents of an animal abortion?

Eggs don't work that way you fool.

Biologically, having a child is the only purpose to our otherwise empty and miserable lives. Congrats OP, you're a f**king horrible piece of trash.

>implying aborting is the same as killing someone

Good for you, OP. No child should be brought into the world by accident.
Also, use a f**king condom next time, or make sure your girlfriend's on the pill. Unprotected sex is for retards.

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