I'm breaking up with my boyfriend

Good chance I'm breaking up with my boyfriend soon. Really care about him, but the same sh*t keeps reoccurring. We keep trying to make things work, and we both have tried to compromise... But in the end, even awareness of the problems hasn't done very much.
Any Anonymous have similar stories to share, whether you were the one who broke up with them, or were the one who was let go?
For those without stories, or for those whose break-ups weren't just about personality incompatibilities, I'm sorry. : (

I guess there being no responses is a good thing.

If you suck my dick, it will make the break up more justified.

Don't have anything to add, but because you said sorry to the ones without a significant other I'm bumping the thread.

Breaking up with someone would require being able to establish a relationship. Sorry, can't help you.

If you suck my dick, it will make the break up more justified.

Nah

Breaking up with someone would require being able to establish a relationship. Sorry, can't help you.

Hope you find someone, and that experience makes it all worthwhile

Good chance I'm breaking up with my boyfriend soon. Really care about him, but the same sh*t keeps reoccurring. We keep trying to make things work, and we both have tried to compromise... But in the end, even awareness of the problems hasn't done very much.
Any Anonymous have similar stories to share, whether you were the one who broke up with them, or were the one who was let go?
For those without stories, or for those whose break-ups weren't just about personality incompatibilities, I'm sorry. : (

No relationship is going to be picture perfect, There is always going to be those things that drive you up the f**king wall and you cant help it.
Same sh*t happening over an over? well what is it?
Ask yourself. Is this compromising worth it, will all the trouble i've been through be worth anything later in life, ect
If you love him then why the f**k would you want to break up.

Just wanted to say good job with the Kaji pic. Very apropos.

Nah

Hope you find someone, and that experience makes it all worthwhile

Not in a hurry, but thanks.

I found the perfect girl. We had the most fun together and we became really close, until her other friend found out. He wanted her too so he spent 6 months convincing her that I was manipulative and controlling. When I told her what he was doing, she said, I can't believe you'd stoop so low to be with me. She's with him now. She believed him over me even though I was almost killed trying to protect him from a guy with a knife. I will always have the scar on my neck to remind me of her and how much I gave for her only to have her abandon me. I really loved her. Feels bad, man. T_T

I found the perfect girl. We had the most fun together and we became really close, until her other friend found out. He wanted her too so he spent 6 months convincing her that I was manipulative and controlling. When I told her what he was doing, she said, I can't believe you'd stoop so low to be with me. She's with him now. She believed him over me even though I was almost killed trying to protect him from a guy with a knife. I will always have the scar on my neck to remind me of her and how much I gave for her only to have her abandon me. I really loved her. Feels bad, man. T_T

You should have f**ked her first, that would have sealed the deal.

Just got done listening to a stupid c**t whine about how she broke up with her boyfriend... again... because he's a lazy, futureless pile of sh*t.
I swear to god, the girls who have this "problem" merely have a fetish for the worst kind of scum in the world.
And you know why you like them? Because they're exactly what you deserve.

No relationship is going to be picture perfect, There is always going to be those things that drive you up the f**king wall and you cant help it.
Same sh*t happening over an over? well what is it?
Ask yourself. Is this compromising worth it, will all the trouble i've been through be worth anything later in life, ect
If you love him then why the f**k would you want to break up.

He keeps running away when I need him emotionally, and isn't able to understand why I feel many of his actions are inconsiderate. It's not that he doesn't care, he's just not making the connection. It's been this way for four years.

Just got done listening to a stupid c**t whine about how she broke up with her boyfriend... again... because he's a lazy, futureless pile of sh*t.
I swear to god, the girls who have this "problem" merely have a fetish for the worst kind of scum in the world.
And you know why you like them? Because they're exactly what you deserve.

And why do you listen to these women whine? Because you don't deserve to be anything more than their emotional tampon, you pu**y.

I found the perfect girl. We had the most fun together and we became really close, until her other friend found out. He wanted her too so he spent 6 months convincing her that I was manipulative and controlling. When I told her what he was doing, she said, I can't believe you'd stoop so low to be with me. She's with him now. She believed him over me even though I was almost killed trying to protect him from a guy with a knife. I will always have the scar on my neck to remind me of her and how much I gave for her only to have her abandon me. I really loved her. Feels bad, man. T_T

Damn, that guy f**king owned you!

Just got done listening to a stupid c**t whine about how she broke up with her boyfriend... again... because he's a lazy, futureless pile of sh*t.
I swear to god, the girls who have this "problem" merely have a fetish for the worst kind of scum in the world.
And you know why you like them? Because they're exactly what you deserve.

Yep, but the women who would look past a guys looks are too shy to make a move on anyone, or the guy will think it's a joke.

He keeps running away when I need him emotionally, and isn't able to understand why I feel many of his actions are inconsiderate. It's not that he doesn't care, he's just not making the connection. It's been this way for four years.

"He an inconsiderate f**k and he doesn't understand me when I'm being a clingy wh**re!"

Yeah, I didn't really expect any sympathy from this site. There are things in this world more important than sex. I had a very special relationship with her. If we did have sex, that would've only made the experience more painful for me.

He keeps running away when I need him emotionally, and isn't able to understand why I feel many of his actions are inconsiderate. It's not that he doesn't care, he's just not making the connection. It's been this way for four years.

I totally have a close friend in the same situation. How do I convince her to dump his stupid ass? (I don't want to break them up so I can date her, I'm a girl and I hate seeing my best friend treated like sh*t.)

Yeah, I didn't really expect any sympathy from this site. There are things in this world more important than sex. I had a very special relationship with her. If we did have sex, that would've only made the experience more painful for me.

For you maybe, she sounds like a dumb c**t to me.

We had just had a bad night out visiting with friends and we were arguing a lot. that night after sex she felt little connection to me, so she looked at me and asked, "are we going to make it?" I looked back and said, "no, I dont think so."
at least I got laid a few more times, with her, after that.

He keeps running away when I need him emotionally, and isn't able to understand why I feel many of his actions are inconsiderate. It's not that he doesn't care, he's just not making the connection. It's been this way for four years.

Maybe he is scared of knowing about your emotions.
It would be a lot easier if you helped him understand that you find sharing emotions to be important.

And why do you listen to these women whine? Because you don't deserve to be anything more than their emotional tampon, you pu**y.

Hurr durr I have a girlfriend. All women bitch about their boyfriends, asspieanon.

Hurr durr I have a girlfriend. All women bitch about their boyfriends, asspieanon.

Hurr durr, I'm a girl and I don't because I didn't choose to date an a**hole. You're not required to listen to any dumb wh**re rant about her bad choices. Just tell her to shut up and stop wasting your time.

Yeah, I didn't really expect any sympathy from this site. There are things in this world more important than sex. I had a very special relationship with her. If we did have sex, that would've only made the experience more painful for me.

Oh god. I am laughing at how pathetic you are. Jesus, man. Come on. She f**ked you over, he f**ked you--the only one not doing any f**king was you!

Maybe he is scared of knowing about your emotions.
It would be a lot easier if you helped him understand that you find sharing emotions to be important.

We've talked about it... I try to not overdo it, but he's definitely heard me talk about what I feel I need. He keeps saying he will try, and I keep saying I will try. It just keeps cycling on, and both of our shortcomings only make it worse.

Yeah, I didn't really expect any sympathy from this site. There are things in this world more important than sex. I had a very special relationship with her. If we did have sex, that would've only made the experience more painful for me.

Yeah sex makes things a lot more complicated when you really care about someone.

Yeah sex makes things a lot more complicated when you really care about someone.

Like you would know.

We've talked about it... I try to not overdo it, but he's definitely heard me talk about what I feel I need. He keeps saying he will try, and I keep saying I will try. It just keeps cycling on, and both of our shortcomings only make it worse.

Anecdotes please?

Yep, but the women who would look past a guys looks are too shy to make a move on anyone, or the guy will think it's a joke.

Do people really think this way? When a girl asks you out, do you really think it's a joke? Why would you even think this in the first place. Give people the benefit of the doubt.

Yeah sex makes things a lot more complicated when you really care about someone.

Yeah. I can't bring myself to keep going when she starts whimpering, even though it turns me on.

Oh god. I am laughing at how pathetic you are. Jesus, man. Come on. She f**ked you over, he f**ked you--the only one not doing any f**king was you!

Well, yeah, thanks for pointing out the obvious. The problem is that I still care about her and he's already cheated on her and she doesn't want to believe it. Ridiculing me won't get you anywhere, anon, you only prove how pathetic your own existence is. If you can't feel sympathy or pain, you aren't immortal, just heartless. You will die alone.

Your boyfriend isn't called 'Joe' is he?

Well, yeah, thanks for pointing out the obvious. The problem is that I still care about her and he's already cheated on her and she doesn't want to believe it. Ridiculing me won't get you anywhere, anon, you only prove how pathetic your own existence is. If you can't feel sympathy or pain, you aren't immortal, just heartless. You will die alone.

You really are a pathetic f**k, trying to flame the Internet majority party.

Well, yeah, thanks for pointing out the obvious. The problem is that I still care about her and he's already cheated on her and she doesn't want to believe it. Ridiculing me won't get you anywhere, anon, you only prove how pathetic your own existence is. If you can't feel sympathy or pain, you aren't immortal, just heartless. You will die alone.

We all die alone. Also, lol@him cheating on her. Serves that c**t right.

You really are a pathetic f**k, trying to flame the Internet majority party.

Aww, did I make u mad? Like I care about you anyway, stupid anon.

Anecdotes please?

Here's an example.
I found out my mom got laid off from work, this happening after a nasty financial hit from medical bills. She had filed bankruptcy, but didn't tell me because she didn't want to stress me out because I was finishing up my dissertation. I still find out, nearly break down both from physical and psychological stress from overwork and from finding out that my mother is nearly starving, and that I could not do much for her from Seattle. He did not understand why I wanted him to leave the bar for a little while to be with me.

Here's an example.
I found out my mom got laid off from work, this happening after a nasty financial hit from medical bills. She had filed bankruptcy, but didn't tell me because she didn't want to stress me out because I was finishing up my dissertation. I still find out, nearly break down both from physical and psychological stress from overwork and from finding out that my mother is nearly starving, and that I could not do much for her from Seattle. He did not understand why I wanted him to leave the bar for a little while to be with me.

Break up with him.

Here's an example.
I found out my mom got laid off from work, this happening after a nasty financial hit from medical bills. She had filed bankruptcy, but didn't tell me because she didn't want to stress me out because I was finishing up my dissertation. I still find out, nearly break down both from physical and psychological stress from overwork and from finding out that my mother is nearly starving, and that I could not do much for her from Seattle. He did not understand why I wanted him to leave the bar for a little while to be with me.

That's just a dick move.