I'll start from the beginning. The first woman I slept with was a co-worker. I asked her if she wanted to meet up at a park near my house. We did, and we got drunk. The end result was a one night stand. This, whilst showing she is fairly a fairly loose woman isn't that condemnable as she was single at the time. This wasn't a particularly great experience and I most certainly performed badly. You could barely call it sex. I put that down to this happening after the onset of blueballs and the intake of a lot of alcohol. Moving on..
I've been here for years and despite generally lamenting the loss of quality on this board as it has given out to misogyny and aspie bullsh*t, I figure that as the mood strikes me, I might as well make a thread of my own, just this once.
Finding a girl you can trust is nearly an impossibility. This is not to say that men are that much better but the nature of their promiscuity differes significantly. This conclusion was not arrived at from being on this board but from life experiences I have acquired over the years. I'm 19, I've been having sex since I was 17 and in that time I have slept with 11 people. Whilst not a hugely significant number, I think it has given me a good selection of women for me to base an opinion on.
I'll start from the beginning. The first woman I slept with was a co-worker. I asked her if she wanted to meet up at a park near my house. We did, and we got drunk. The end result was a one night stand. This, whilst showing she is fairly a fairly loose woman isn't that condemnable as she was single at the time. This wasn't a particularly great experience and I most certainly performed badly. You could barely call it sex. I put that down to this happening after the onset of blueballs and the intake of a lot of alcohol. Moving on..
The second girl however, was a different story altogether. I started talking to her on myspace in 2008 and she invited me out to a party in town near where I was living at the time. I didn't know anybody there at the time although it turned out I was meeting some of my future best friends and worst enemies. I met her in town with her ex boyfriend. We get to the party, I meet people and have a good time. I meet her boyfriend. Then something I hadn't experienced yet happened, I was making out with the girl 2 feet behind her boyfriend. This was a strange experience indeed. Why would someone do this? I was very naive at the time.
During the course of this night, her ex suffered some kind of lung attack thing although this was apparently faked, probably for attention. The boyfriend had a panic attack over something and she decided she would cut herself to ribbons with a knife in the bathroom. I had to kick the door down with someone and carry her downstairs to an ambulance as the guy putting the party on did nothing. All in all this was a strange first experience.
I would see her again a few months later. My best friend had thrown a party and she was there. A girl I had seen for a while a few months earlier was there and things were tense so upset and drunk, I tried to leave. I tried several times but she kept coming out to get me. She was still with the same guy at this time. I decided to stay and things got decidely more intimate. We ended up comandeering the bathroom and f**king with everyone waiting outside to use the toilet. This was my first 'real' f**k.
At this point despite the only sexual encounters I had being a one night stand and a cheating girlfriend I hadn't thought much about the implications of it. I didn't think anything of it. A few months after this I had my frist girlfriend. I had moved to the town where I had gone to that party and suddenly these people were my social life. This was good, I liked them a lot.
She was a great girlfriend. Let's call her April. One of the only girls I could believe didn't cheat on me, or try to. Unfortunately I wasn't a good boyfriend. I had yet to develop any tact at all and I inadviceertently made things quite poor. About 2 months into the relationship we were on the verge of breaking up. This is when the next girl came in (let's call her Natalie). When I saw April she would get the train home (not a long distance relationship despite how that sounds). We did this maybe twice a week after she finished school. I would run into Natalie at the train station immediately afterwards by way of coincidence. We got on well.
I would see her again a few months later. My best friend had thrown a party and she was there. A girl I had seen for a while a few months earlier was there and things were tense so upset and drunk, I tried to leave. I tried several times but she kept coming out to get me. She was still with the same guy at this time. I decided to stay and things got decidely more intimate. We ended up comandeering the bathroom and f**king with everyone waiting outside to use the toilet. This was my first 'real' f**k.
At this point despite the only sexual encounters I had being a one night stand and a cheating girlfriend I hadn't thought much about the implications of it. I didn't think anything of it. A few months after this I had my frist girlfriend. I had moved to the town where I had gone to that party and suddenly these people were my social life. This was good, I liked them a lot.
She was a great girlfriend. Let's call her April. One of the only girls I could believe didn't cheat on me, or try to. Unfortunately I wasn't a good boyfriend. I had yet to develop any tact at all and I inadviceertently made things quite poor. About 2 months into the relationship we were on the verge of breaking up. This is when the next girl came in (let's call her Natalie). When I saw April she would get the train home (not a long distance relationship despite how that sounds). We did this maybe twice a week after she finished school. I would run into Natalie at the train station immediately afterwards by way of coincidence. We got on well.
Around this time my new friends would take me to a lot of gigs. It turned out Natalie was the girlfriend of someone in our circle so we spent even more time around each other. This was as things were getting extremely shaky with April. Then on the way back from a gig, Natalie found out I'm someone she half idolized.
See, I had played in a band that managed to get a small record deal, release an album and get some minor success. My old guitar teacher uses me as a source of great pride and he had taught Natalie guitar for a while. I was unaware of any of this. She owned our album, knew all our songs and after hearing someone sing my praises week in week out. She half had a panic attack when she figured out it was me. I got several texts from April saying things like 'Things aren't working out'. A few days later she was at mine getting some things she had left so she could go to a gig and we talked for a long time. We ended up kissing. I was very attracted to her.
She turned up the next day saying she'd dumped her boyfriend and wanted me to come over. I dumped April, told her what had happened and admitted to cheating on her. Kissing Natalie was my only indescretion to date. I went out with Natalie for a few days and we slept together but I felt too bad and remorseful about April so I broke it off.
>life experiences I have acquired over the years. I'm 19
lol
>the loss of quality on this board as it has given out to misogyny and aspie bullsh*t
>Makes a relationship thread
I f**king lol'd, classy sh*t. Why do you think moot made adviceice, and not misogny/ronery boards?
GUESS, FA**OT. TAKE YOUR SH*T TO advice
pot, kettle, etc
Around this time my new friends would take me to a lot of gigs. It turned out Natalie was the girlfriend of someone in our circle so we spent even more time around each other. This was as things were getting extremely shaky with April. Then on the way back from a gig, Natalie found out I'm someone she half idolized.
See, I had played in a band that managed to get a small record deal, release an album and get some minor success. My old guitar teacher uses me as a source of great pride and he had taught Natalie guitar for a while. I was unaware of any of this. She owned our album, knew all our songs and after hearing someone sing my praises week in week out. She half had a panic attack when she figured out it was me. I got several texts from April saying things like 'Things aren't working out'. A few days later she was at mine getting some things she had left so she could go to a gig and we talked for a long time. We ended up kissing. I was very attracted to her.
She turned up the next day saying she'd dumped her boyfriend and wanted me to come over. I dumped April, told her what had happened and admitted to cheating on her. Kissing Natalie was my only indescretion to date. I went out with Natalie for a few days and we slept together but I felt too bad and remorseful about April so I broke it off.
Over the Christmas period I saw a girl from college for a bit but that didn't work out. Natalie got back with her ex and April wanted nothing to do with me even though I was far from over her. Natalie ended up cheating on her ex with me for a few months before she dumped him and we went out. I should have known that this was a bad idea. I'm pretty sure she kept sleeping with him for a while after this. She ended up dumping me for the guy put on the party back in 2008. I got very attached to her over the time we saw each other (around 5 months) and it took a long time for me to get over her. I guess I'm still not really over either April or Natalie. Before Natalie I truly and naively believed that people would be faithful as long as a relationship was going well and would try and make things work if they weren't. I spent countless hours trying to fix my relationship with April and I felt awful for months about just kissing someone else. It was a tough lesson to learn.
Over the Christmas period I saw a girl from college for a bit but that didn't work out. Natalie got back with her ex and April wanted nothing to do with me even though I was far from over her. Natalie ended up cheating on her ex with me for a few months before she dumped him and we went out. I should have known that this was a bad idea. I'm pretty sure she kept sleeping with him for a while after this. She ended up dumping me for the guy put on the party back in 2008. I got very attached to her over the time we saw each other (around 5 months) and it took a long time for me to get over her. I guess I'm still not really over either April or Natalie. Before Natalie I truly and naively believed that people would be faithful as long as a relationship was going well and would try and make things work if they weren't. I spent countless hours trying to fix my relationship with April and I felt awful for months about just kissing someone else. It was a tough lesson to learn.
The next person I slept with was at a big party I threw. She also had a boyfriend. There isn't much to say there.
After her I had a girlfriend that was extremely clingy and obsessive who I didn't like that much in the first place. I dumped her as mercifully as I could. She is relevant because she would ring up when we weren't doing well saying how she was dressed really sluttily and would always tell me how easy she was when she was drunk. Mainly as threats but I could never trust her.
Since then I've not seen the point in relationships. I can't see any girls that I could trust to be with me. Relationships just seem futile. I've seen various girls since then and slept with four of them but all that has done is proven how they can't be trusted. I wasn't in a relationship with any of them and they all put out. Evidently this proves that men are equally as bad when single but I just haven't seen and experienced treachery from men like I have with women. For every man I know that cheats, I know (and have facilitated said cheating with) several women.
The next person I slept with was at a big party I threw. She also had a boyfriend. There isn't much to say there.
After her I had a girlfriend that was extremely clingy and obsessive who I didn't like that much in the first place. I dumped her as mercifully as I could. She is relevant because she would ring up when we weren't doing well saying how she was dressed really sluttily and would always tell me how easy she was when she was drunk. Mainly as threats but I could never trust her.
Since then I've not seen the point in relationships. I can't see any girls that I could trust to be with me. Relationships just seem futile. I've seen various girls since then and slept with four of them but all that has done is proven how they can't be trusted. I wasn't in a relationship with any of them and they all put out. Evidently this proves that men are equally as bad when single but I just haven't seen and experienced treachery from men like I have with women. For every man I know that cheats, I know (and have facilitated said cheating with) several women.
I've made mistakes, some big ones. I know that I try my hardest to be a good boyfriend, even when my social tact lets me down or my awareness of actions and consequence is insufficient to puruse a healthy relationship. I'm that that as I've developed these skills, my view of women has been soured and I now feel that being in a loving relationship is something I'll never experience and that the love and security I've felt before was just an illusion.
Felt pretty good getting all that out. I don't really care if anyone reads it or not.
Around this time my new friends would take me to a lot of gigs. It turned out Natalie was the girlfriend of someone in our circle so we spent even more time around each other. This was as things were getting extremely shaky with April. Then on the way back from a gig, Natalie found out I'm someone she half idolized.
See, I had played in a band that managed to get a small record deal, release an album and get some minor success. My old guitar teacher uses me as a source of great pride and he had taught Natalie guitar for a while. I was unaware of any of this. She owned our album, knew all our songs and after hearing someone sing my praises week in week out. She half had a panic attack when she figured out it was me. I got several texts from April saying things like 'Things aren't working out'. A few days later she was at mine getting some things she had left so she could go to a gig and we talked for a long time. We ended up kissing. I was very attracted to her.
She turned up the next day saying she'd dumped her boyfriend and wanted me to come over. I dumped April, told her what had happened and admitted to cheating on her. Kissing Natalie was my only indescretion to date. I went out with Natalie for a few days and we slept together but I felt too bad and remorseful about April so I broke it off.
>See, I had played in a band that managed to get a small record deal, release an album and get some minor success
I don't believe you.
so you f**ked around with 11 people in three years and you call girls slutty. it's not because you hang around scene girls and groupie fans or anything, it's just the female gene that makes the girls wh**res. goddamn
so you f**ked around with 11 people in three years and you call girls slutty. it's not because you hang around scene girls and groupie fans or anything, it's just the female gene that makes the girls wh**res. goddamn
i think hes trying to say that girls will be promiscuous even when they're seeing someone
i think hes trying to say that girls will be promiscuous even when they're seeing someone
but they're scene girls and groupie wannabe's, wtf is OP thinking with?
but they're scene girls and groupie wannabe's, wtf is OP thinking with?
OP here
i think hes trying to say that girls will be promiscuous even when they're seeing someone
Is sort of right. And I did say that men are just as bad and are worse for other things.
For the record, none of them were scene girls. One was a metal chick, the rest were normal.
I liked this and can relate, OP.
Ignore the trolls.
What the sh*t am I reading?
>Had sex with 11 "women" in two years.
>Most of them had boyfriends at the time.
>Then they cheated on me, can you believe it!?
>Bitches and wh**res.
It's most likely because of the type of people who are surrounding yourself with, OP.
It's most likely because of the type of people who are surrounding yourself with, OP.
I did think that for a while but when you see the same behaviour from a bunch of people from different backgrounds it makes you wonder.
Two years is not enough life experience to know anything about women. The only thing this demonstrates, OP, is that you have terrible taste and are a poor judge of character, in yourself included.
Don't worry though, someday you'll grow up, and then look back on yourself at 19 and laugh. Or hopefully feel very, very embarrassed.
>I have slept with 11 people. Whilst not a hugely significant number
Except it is.
You're a goddamn wh**re.
Two years is not enough life experience to know anything about women. The only thing this demonstrates, OP, is that you have terrible taste and are a poor judge of character, in yourself included.
Don't worry though, someday you'll grow up, and then look back on yourself at 19 and laugh. Or hopefully feel very, very embarrassed.
It's enough to know about women my general age, which is the only knowledge I really need anyway.
>I have slept with 11 people. Whilst not a hugely significant number
Except it is.
You're a goddamn wh**re.
That's only one every two months. Hardly whorish.
It's enough to know about women my general age, which is the only knowledge I really need anyway.
That's only one every two months. Hardly whorish.
2 years, 11 people. Thats is whorish.
Non wh**re would be 2 per year tops
It's enough to know about women my general age, which is the only knowledge I really need anyway.
That's only one every two months. Hardly whorish.
>only
Yeah, and that's what female sluts say too.
You're just a wh**re. Gender doesn't matter. You are still a wh**re.
We're not misogynists like you'd want to believe, but simply anti-wh**re.
I've been here for years and despite generally lamenting the loss of quality on this board as it has given out to misogyny and aspie bullsh*t, I figure that as the mood strikes me, I might as well make a thread of my own, just this once.
Finding a girl you can trust is nearly an impossibility. This is not to say that men are that much better but the nature of their promiscuity differes significantly. This conclusion was not arrived at from being on this board but from life experiences I have acquired over the years. I'm 19, I've been having sex since I was 17 and in that time I have slept with 11 people. Whilst not a hugely significant number, I think it has given me a good selection of women for me to base an opinion on.
I'll start from the beginning. The first woman I slept with was a co-worker. I asked her if she wanted to meet up at a park near my house. We did, and we got drunk. The end result was a one night stand. This, whilst showing she is fairly a fairly loose woman isn't that condemnable as she was single at the time. This wasn't a particularly great experience and I most certainly performed badly. You could barely call it sex. I put that down to this happening after the onset of blueballs and the intake of a lot of alcohol. Moving on..
Hey OP your experiences are from the type of gals you meet at f**king gigs, parties, and sh*t.
Im a nerd, and my nerdy girlfrind is loyal.
It's enough to know about women my general age, which is the only knowledge I really need anyway.
That's only one every two months. Hardly whorish.
No, it isn't. It's not even enough time to know about yourself. If it were, you would have realized how your own behavior is determining what types of relationships you're having with other people, and wouldn't be blaming women for it.
Hey OP your experiences are from the type of gals you meet at f**king gigs, parties, and sh*t.
Im a nerd, and my nerdy girlfrind is loyal.
Wrong again, I met most of them in normal circumstances.
Your nerdy girlfriend would cheat on you if she had the chance to with someone better than you and nobody would find out. If he said he wanted a relationship, she'd dump you.
Don't kid yourself, everyone sees this all the time.
I'll share what I'm looking for
these reason are not why I haven't yet found her, only what 19 years of nothing have taught me. (i mean to say im not picky... or something =_-
if she's ignorant, i can only hope not blindingly
if she thinks she has a disorder, i can only hope the remedy includes me
if she likes the same things as me, i can only hope its not for the same reason. love should be to learn new things, neh?
Wrong again, I met most of them in normal circumstances.
Your nerdy girlfriend would cheat on you if she had the chance to with someone better than you and nobody would find out. If he said he wanted a relationship, she'd dump you.
Don't kid yourself, everyone sees this all the time.
Been with my nerdy gf for eight years, brosephine. Neither one of us have cheated.
You fail at the opposite sex/relationships.
It's posts like these that make me want to never get in another relationship, but rather f**k every girl I ever come into contact with. Like every girlfriend will cheat on me. Then it's those HIV threads that make me NOT want to f**k every girl I meet.
WHAT THE F**K ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO!?
A lot of sage/butthurt in this thread. The OP isn't condescending in any way. Take the thread like a man.
2 years, 11 people. Thats is whorish.
Non wh**re would be 2 per year tops
>virgin detected
hedoesntknowhowtherealworldworks
A lot of sage/butthurt in this thread. The OP isn't condescending in any way. Take the thread like a man.
>>Evidently this proves that men are equally as bad
>>This is not to say that men are that much better
This.
>virgin detected
hedoesntknowhowtherealworldworks
Are you f**king kidding me? I would NEVER sleep with a guy who has a new sexual partner every two months. You are a skank.
Your body is probably running rampant with diseases.
Are you f**king kidding me? I would NEVER sleep with a guy who has a new sexual partner every two months. You are a skank.
Your body is probably running rampant with diseases.
>Virgin doubledetected
>he doesn't know how condoms work
>he thinks that you just pick the first person to throw a vagina your way
It's posts like these that make me want to never get in another relationship, but rather f**k every girl I ever come into contact with. Like every girlfriend will cheat on me. Then it's those HIV threads that make me NOT want to f**k every girl I meet.
WHAT THE F**K ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO!?
You can find young, loyal girls and don't give up hope that you will, just don't be a fool. Very few relationships are based on a man and a woman loving each other equally. Try not to be the one who loves more because that puts them in a position of power.
>See, I had played in a band that managed to get a small record deal, release an album and get some minor success
I don't believe you.
My friend has a small record deal and album, they're not very good, but they still got it, its not that hard to believe
Are you f**king kidding me? I would NEVER sleep with a guy who has a new sexual partner every two months. You are a skank.
Your body is probably running rampant with diseases.
You aren't very representative of the female population then.
>Virgin doubledetected
>he doesn't know how condoms work
>he thinks that you just pick the first person to throw a vagina your way
Um, apparently *you* don't know how condoms work, i.e. how they don't protect you from everything. It's only a matter of time, bro.
Considering the level of stupidity in your posts, I highly doubt you get enough "vagina thrown your way" that you could sleep with 11 people in two years and still say you were being choosy about your partners.
OP you are a total bro, chillen in a band, slaying bitches having crazy life experiences. You need some serious perspective if you are upset about this though. You are young and free and at 19 thats a great way to be but youare clearly hanging around with some horrible and wh**rey girls, you are putting out a vibe that they are into.
OP here. That guy saying that guy isnt me, isnt me.
OP here. That guy saying that guy isnt me, isnt me, isn't me.
Most girls cheat in their teens. There are more factors, that cause this. Curiosity. Excitement. Need for validation. Low self esteem.
Many stop cheating when they get older. Curiosity has been satisfied, no need for that much excitement any more, confident enough so they don't need constant validations.
OP you are a total bro, chillen in a band, slaying bitches having crazy life experiences. You need some serious perspective if you are upset about this though. You are young and free and at 19 thats a great way to be but youare clearly hanging around with some horrible and wh**rey girls, you are putting out a vibe that they are into.
yup and thus the general verdict of anonymous is for OP to An Hero himself.
yup and thus the general verdict of anonymous is for OP to An Hero himself.
what because hes enjoying his teenage years?
what because hes enjoying his teenage years?
Precisely because of that
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