I'm really f**king worried and jelous. I'm a pu**y so I checked her IM's and to one of them she said she misses him etc.
Are they just friends, or is she sucking his / their c**ks? I'm getting paranoid, tell me what to do anons.
Ask her if she's cheating on you.
Ask her if she's cheating on you.
Yeah, because that works all the time.
Ask her if she's cheating on you.
I'd rather shoot myself in the foot. I also have to add. We broke up (read: she broke up with me) like 2 months ago, she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
she "misses" her male friend, who she's already regularly drinking and clubbing with without you there?
yea, she's f**king him.
Being paranoid and insecure makes a man unattractive.
She's probably not sucking their c**ks yet, but since you are becoming unattractive she will.
Best thing to do is to have female friends and go out to have fun with them.
Funny as it sounds - nothing else works.
I'd rather shoot myself in the foot. I also have to add. We broke up (read: she broke up with me) like 2 months ago, she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
>she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
You're an idiot.
A few questions to clarify:
1) Did she consult you about going out drinking with her male friends?
2) Did you raise any sort of concern? If so, how was her reaction?
3) What sort of relationship does she have with said friends? Has she dated any in the past? How do they behave when they're around eachother?
If you even have the faintest hint of suspicion then the trust is broken. If you continue to be with her then you get to enjoy all the benefits of being in a soul crushing relationship where every single thing she does makes you question her motives.
Move the f**k on dude. I know I'm just some anonymous stranger but I'm trying to look out for you here.
shouldnta checked her IM's bro
two months... sh*t thats not very long ago if you know what i mean.
hate to break it to ya. but i'd nip that bud early before she drags you along any longer.
I'd rather shoot myself in the foot. I also have to add. We broke up (read: she broke up with me) like 2 months ago, she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
who wanted you to be back together more?
you or her?
did you just act strong and happily take her back?
ditch the bitch
I'd rather shoot myself in the foot. I also have to add. We broke up (read: she broke up with me) like 2 months ago, she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
>she f**ked another guy, we got back together
OP, stop being a fa**ot and just dump her.
k, dont freak out yet.
When a guy says to a girl "i really miss u" shes always gonna reply "ya i miss u too".
so just chill, keep your perspective. Answer some of the questions the previous anons posted and we will try to help.
A pretentious quarter-french friend named Jared (who insists it be pronounced Jar-red) who told me something once, something I'm going to tell you;
"Most of our girlfriends cheat on us at one time or another, and most of us are aware of it. As long as we don't catch her in the act of cheating, and as long as we don't catch anything as a result of that cheating, what does it matter? Tis a foolish man who doesn't cheat in turn on that kind of girl."
I like this guy for his quotes... And that's about it.
If you can't even trust eachother you should probably just dump her anyway because it won't work out. Mutual trust is the key to success.
Sorry to say it but it's the truth, maybe you should be friends with benefits instead so you get some pu**y anyway.
she is sucking her c**k. get your self checked.
k, dont freak out yet.
When a guy says to a girl "i really miss u" shes always gonna reply "ya i miss u too".
so just chill, keep your perspective. Answer some of the questions the previous anons posted and we will try to help.
we dont know if she sent the message in response to him saying it or just because.
>My girlfriend is going out to clubs
That should be enough to dump her right there. It's better to date an obese/ugly girl who doesn't go to clubs, than to date an attractive girl who does. Enjoy being cheated on every night.
As long as she comes home at night i think its pretty safe shes not cheating. If she tells u shes staying at her girlfriends place because her friend is too drunk to drive or some bullsh*t then teach that bitch a lesson.
Quick question:
Why do you let her have male friends?
If a girl has male acquaintances that she adds on facebook or sees around school and just says hi to, i'm fine with that, but after the courting period is over, what the f**k should she be doing around other guys? Don't be a f**king cuckold, OP. Just ask her, tell her what you want out of a relationship. If she can't be that, doesn't respect what you want, then you're both wasting your time.
A pretentious quarter-french friend named Jared (who insists it be pronounced Jar-red) who told me something once, something I'm going to tell you;
"Most of our girlfriends cheat on us at one time or another, and most of us are aware of it. As long as we don't catch her in the act of cheating, and as long as we don't catch anything as a result of that cheating, what does it matter? Tis a foolish man who doesn't cheat in turn on that kind of girl."
I like this guy for his quotes... And that's about it.
Jar-red sounds like a complete asshat. Yes, most of us who are young and in relationships will be or be involved with cheating partners, but I say dump and move on.
I've never cheated. I never will. Part of the joy of sex and relationships for me is the process of getting to know one person intimately. Why would I sacrafice that for the fleeting pleasure of another woman? Why would I have average sex with a stranger when I could be having amazing sex with someone I know inside-out? God help me in looking for a woman of the same mindset.
Bad news, OP: she's letting dudes run trains on her in club bathrooms when she goes out with her friends. Bitches and wh**res, man. Porn accurately depicts female behavior and the feminine mindset, right guys?
Seriously though, space and separate activities are generally pretty healthy for relationships. But the fact that your GF is spending her non-you time in typical mate-finding activities and is IMing an ex about missing him is a legitimately bad sign.
My gf would sh*t bricks if I went clubbing with other chicks. As such she does not go out with other men or I would sh*t bricks accordingly.
Now, you OP, should go out with some chicks and hit the clubs.
Get some Viagra and f**k that bitch for 4 hours.
She wont need to go out to the clubs anymore.
Quick question:
Why do you let her have male friends?
If a girl has male acquaintances that she adds on facebook or sees around school and just says hi to, i'm fine with that, but after the courting period is over, what the f**k should she be doing around other guys? Don't be a f**king cuckold, OP. Just ask her, tell her what you want out of a relationship. If she can't be that, doesn't respect what you want, then you're both wasting your time.
My girlfriend of seven years has male friends who I trust absolutely. She has no romantic history with any of them and the two straight ones are good friends of mine as well.
Cloistering your partner. Feels controlling, counterproductive, and insecure man.
Well, the anonymous court has made it's decision OP. Dump her ass. Legitimate reasoning can be referred to throughout the thread.
she "misses" her male friend, who she's already regularly drinking and clubbing with without you there?
yea, she's f**king him.
Being paranoid and insecure makes a man unattractive.
She's probably not sucking their c**ks yet, but since you are becoming unattractive she will.
Best thing to do is to have female friends and go out to have fun with them.
Funny as it sounds - nothing else works.
>she f**ked another guy, we got back together.
You're an idiot.
If you even have the faintest hint of suspicion then the trust is broken. If you continue to be with her then you get to enjoy all the benefits of being in a soul crushing relationship where every single thing she does makes you question her motives.
Move the f**k on dude. I know I'm just some anonymous stranger but I'm trying to look out for you here.
shouldnta checked her IM's bro
two months... sh*t thats not very long ago if you know what i mean.
hate to break it to ya. but i'd nip that bud early before she drags you along any longer.
>she f**ked another guy, we got back together
OP, stop being a fa**ot and just dump her.
If you can't even trust eachother you should probably just dump her anyway because it won't work out. Mutual trust is the key to success.
Sorry to say it but it's the truth, maybe you should be friends with benefits instead so you get some pu**y anyway.
she is sucking her c**k. get your self checked.
>My girlfriend is going out to clubs
That should be enough to dump her right there. It's better to date an obese/ugly girl who doesn't go to clubs, than to date an attractive girl who does. Enjoy being cheated on every night.
Quick question:
Why do you let her have male friends?
If a girl has male acquaintances that she adds on facebook or sees around school and just says hi to, i'm fine with that, but after the courting period is over, what the f**k should she be doing around other guys? Don't be a f**king cuckold, OP. Just ask her, tell her what you want out of a relationship. If she can't be that, doesn't respect what you want, then you're both wasting your time.
Quick question:
Why do you let her have male friends?
If a girl has male acquaintances that she adds on facebook or sees around school and just says hi to, i'm fine with that, but after the courting period is over, what the f**k should she be doing around other guys? Don't be a f**king cuckold, OP. Just ask her, tell her what you want out of a relationship. If she can't be that, doesn't respect what you want, then you're both wasting your time.
man youre an a**hole. I dont see anything wrong with her having male friends. If youre making them choose between several and one needy douche then you deserve to be alone
you're right.
tonight, I'm going to cheat on her and keep on doing that until she finds out.
My girlfriend of seven years has male friends who I trust absolutely. She has no romantic history with any of them and the two straight ones are good friends of mine as well.
Cloistering your partner. Feels controlling, counterproductive, and insecure man.
enjoy living a lie/liberal fantasy. You are malfunctioning, brah.
What would I want with love? I'd rather have control. And when they push away from you, it's not like they are proving you wrong.
My girlfriend of seven years has male friends who I trust absolutely. She has no romantic history with any of them and the two straight ones are good friends of mine as well.
Cloistering your partner. Feels controlling, counterproductive, and insecure man.
My friend's girlfriend has several close male friends (myself included) whom my friend felt she had no romantic interest in.
They've been dating for three years.
I've been f**king her on the side for 8 months.
Checkmate, friend. Trust no one.
you're right.
tonight, I'm going to cheat on her and keep on doing that until she finds out.
BREAK UP AND THEN CHEAT ON HER YOU IDIOT. By doing that it will only collapse on yourself, you will both realize what you were doing, and then the relationship can possibly end up with both of you feeling sorry and resolving it. After this, she is free to continue with you being oblivious. (This can be assumed from your personality as far as posts tell.)
>YOU WILL ONLY BE HURTING YOURSELF. BREAK UP WITH HER.
BREAK UP AND THEN CHEAT ON HER YOU IDIOT. By doing that it will only collapse on yourself, you will both realize what you were doing, and then the relationship can possibly end up with both of you feeling sorry and resolving it. After this, she is free to continue with you being oblivious. (This can be assumed from your personality as far as posts tell.)
>YOU WILL ONLY BE HURTING YOURSELF. BREAK UP WITH HER.
It's not cheating if they break up.
BREAK UP AND THEN CHEAT ON HER YOU IDIOT. By doing that it will only collapse on yourself, you will both realize what you were doing, and then the relationship can possibly end up with both of you feeling sorry and resolving it. After this, she is free to continue with you being oblivious. (This can be assumed from your personality as far as posts tell.)
>YOU WILL ONLY BE HURTING YOURSELF. BREAK UP WITH HER.
>Break up with her and then cheat on her
Whoops. Meant to say
>Break up with her and then move on
enjoy living a lie/liberal fantasy. You are malfunctioning, brah.
What would I want with love? I'd rather have control. And when they push away from you, it's not like they are proving you wrong.
>seven years of mutual respect, happiness, great sex, and incorporation into one another's families
>posting angrily on a forum full of frustrated shut-in virgins
Yeah, bro. I'm totally malfunctioning and living an unsustainable lie.
My gf goes out clubbing/away visitng friends without me. I don't see the problem, if you trust her then it's cool, if you don't then chuck her. Plus its the same the other way around, i'm allowed to go on lads holidays without getting and earful.
I'd say if it's got to the point when you're checking her IM or phone then just f**king break up. Once you've got to that point, it's not like anything is going to placate you, even if you don't find anything you'l still be paranoid.
>seven years of mutual respect, happiness, great sex, and incorporation into one another's families
>posting angrily on a forum full of frustrated shut-in virgins
Yeah, bro. I'm totally malfunctioning and living an unsustainable lie.
Fine by me, but you're living in denial and suppressing rage, motherf**ker.
>Break up with her and then cheat on her
Whoops. Meant to say
>Break up with her and then move on
Ok I was just makin sure.
Women in long-term relationships show more flirtatious signals than their single counterparts. Have fun!
My gf goes out clubbing/away visitng friends without me. I don't see the problem, if you trust her then it's cool, if you don't then chuck her. Plus its the same the other way around, i'm allowed to go on lads holidays without getting and earful.
I'd say if it's got to the point when you're checking her IM or phone then just f**king break up. Once you've got to that point, it's not like anything is going to placate you, even if you don't find anything you'l still be paranoid.
this man speaks the truth
if you are so worried about her cheating on you then there is no trust there and there cant be a relationship without a sense of mutual trust.
My mate's girlfriend does the same, I often go with her and haven't seen any evidence of shenanigans, though he's unlikely to do anything when I'm there I suppose.
HEY OP!
Develop a cuckold fetish, and this will all work to your adviceantage!
Take a negative and turn it into a positive.
what you should really do is post your gfs tits some more, that sh*t will solve everything. I'm srs.
another one of life's simple problems that can easily be solved by not being a pu**y.
what you should really do is post your gfs tits some more, that sh*t will solve everything. I'm srs.
what you should really do is post your gfs tits some more, that sh*t will solve everything. I'm srs.
there you go :x
This is not easy to answer because we don't know the whole convo behind it.
Was it one of the friends she clubs with on regular basis? in that case you have reason to worry because it is weird to express missing someone other then your boyfriend if you have seen them within 24 hours.
Because you are worried i assume she doesn't say it to all of her friends because then she would just be someone who is just very friendly with all of her friends, male or female, maybe even a little bit too friendly but she probably doesn't see it herself as too friendly. So if she says it more then you have little to worry about.
But like i said i doubt this is the case because you are worried. So was it one of the clubbing friends? In that case yes you should be worried. In my opinion then she says missing as in i miss your sex or i miss being together with you (as in couple).
tldr: you are in trouble
all my gf's male friends are gay, so i am not threatened
your girlfriend is a wh**re she's probably f**king all of them
just kidding, my ex is/was a year older than me (she's legal drinking age, i'm not) so i had to deal with a lot of this. it's not really that bad as long as you trust her, and her friends seem cool enough that i know they'd be keeping an eye on her for me. it bugged me at first because i didn't know her that well, but she never did anything she shouldn't have.
all my gf's male friends are gay, so i am not threatened
this is bad. any girl who has a posse of gay guys is the worst kind, she's probably banging other guys. not her friends, just randoms.
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