Why do girls love the word creepy and calling guys interested in them stalkers?
emotionally shallow, intellectually stagnant.
more importantly, these are synonymous with ugly.
Why do girls love the word creepy and calling guys interested in them stalkers?
Leave that poor girl alone OP, you rascal.
ya creepy means ugly
Leave that poor girl alone OP, you rascal.
troll harder
also girls love anything that makes them feel superior
some years ago i sent two (2) sms'es to this girl i liked. And i wrote along the lines of:
First one: Are you doing anything fun this weekend? Wanna hang?
Second one: Okey. Maybe another time! :)
for some reason i got some kind of a stalker reputation after this. People in that "click" still treat me weird.
some years ago i sent two (2) sms'es to this girl i liked. And i wrote along the lines of:
First one: Are you doing anything fun this weekend? Wanna hang?
Second one: Okey. Maybe another time! :)
for some reason i got some kind of a stalker reputation after this. People in that "click" still treat me weird.
YOU'RE NOT SPEAKING POLISH
THEY'RE CALLED TEXTS IN ENGLISH
YOU'RE NOT SPEAKING POLISH
THEY'RE CALLED TEXTS IN ENGLISH
You can give me that bullsh*t the day you write proper norwegian ignorant-f**.
You can give me that bullsh*t the day you write proper norwegian ignorant-f**.
I JUST ASSUMED YOU'RE POLISH
I THOUGHT WE'RE THE ONLY SH*TTY COUNTRY ACTUALLY USING SMS IN EVERYDAY LANGUAGE
GOD DAMN
ALSO HYPHENS ARE NO LONGER USED ANYWHERE IN ENGLISH
WELL NEARLY ANYWHERE
F**K
I JUST ASSUMED YOU'RE POLISH
I THOUGHT WE'RE THE ONLY SH*TTY COUNTRY ACTUALLY USING SMS IN EVERYDAY LANGUAGE
GOD DAMN
ALSO HYPHENS ARE NO LONGER USED ANYWHERE IN ENGLISH
WELL NEARLY ANYWHERE
F**K
NO PROBLEM MATE
IVE HEARD CAPS LOCK IS BACK!
GOOD JOB!
Because they aren't interested in that guy. Plain and simple
You like them, they don't like you = creepy stalker.
Because they aren't interested in that guy. Plain and simple
You like them, they don't like you = creepy stalker.
Why not just tell the guy you aren't interested instead of leading him on for weeks whilst telling your friends about him stalking you?
some years ago i sent two (2) sms'es to this girl i liked. And i wrote along the lines of:
First one: Are you doing anything fun this weekend? Wanna hang?
Second one: Okey. Maybe another time! :)
for some reason i got some kind of a stalker reputation after this. People in that "click" still treat me weird.
Also, it's called a "clique". It's just pronounced "clique".
Also, it's called a "clique". It's just pronounced "clique".
Oh god what did I just type.
lysdexia
You can give me that bullsh*t the day you write proper norwegian ignorant-f**.
F**k yeah norway!
It makes them feel wanted, yet at the same time they get to say to show that they're not interested. In one action, it makes them feel as if they're not sluts (because their standards are too high), yet at the same time they're desired and therefore must be attractive.
If my girlfriend is changing and I ogle her she calls it "creepy" or "stalkerish". What the f**k does that mean? Is that true or is it her hangup that she doesn't want to be ogled by her boyfriend 24/7? I mean, I wasn't secretly peering through a window or something, I was about two feet away from her chest
I say cause some girls have a ridiculous sense of entitlement and if you don't fit their standards or mold of what they want in a guy, they stick a label on you. OP, girls who use labels like that are stuck up and not usually worth talking to. what has worked for me: BE YOURSELF and eventually certain girls if you approach then as friends not as a potential mate will appreciate who you are and even if you're acting 'creepy' they won't give a f**k because they're your friend...and eventually you're little creepshell will wither and die when you have a prolonged friendly relationship with a girl, it's a natural thing
I don't think I've ever been stalked or anything, but I have met some creepy people, especially through my work. Mind you, I work in the food service as a cashier.
Men from 50 to 70 years old like to comment on how we should get married or ask me if I have any ~special~ placements for my tattoos. To be honest, it's more funny to me than actually creepy, because these guys have wives. But srsly, wtf?
Also, this one guy who works down the strip from me started coming in and ordering drinks all the time and eventually asked me if he could add me on facebook. I said that was fine and it seems pretty nice that he would ask before just finding me, y'know? Then he just started commenting on every single status update I made and while he hasn't said anything gross or in general, disturbing, I'm avoiding him like the plague because I'm afraid he might try to get with me. He's just awkward and seems to be extremely straightforward in discussions, and to be honest that could come off as creepy. Whatever, he hasn't stepped over any line yet and he seemed to back off.
exactly what the picture says
Goddamn mute block I didn't know the picture was already posted, got blocked for 13 minutes. Too lazy to reset router.
Because they've been taught to do so by feminists.
Here's what you do, do not react at all to any girl you know, almost to the point that they might think you are gay, then get lucky publicly so everyone knows. You look like a stud, the ladies start to wonder why they're not good enough for you to be into, then get bitches all over you.
Oh god what did I just type.
lysdexia
Clique isn't pronounced click either.
Here's what you do, do not react at all to any girl you know, almost to the point that they might think you are gay, then get lucky publicly so everyone knows. You look like a stud, the ladies start to wonder why they're not good enough for you to be into, then get bitches all over you.
Doesn't work.
I've tried.
Here's what you do, do not react at all to any girl you know, almost to the point that they might think you are gay, then get lucky publicly so everyone knows. You look like a stud, the ladies start to wonder why they're not good enough for you to be into, then get bitches all over you.
sad but unfortunately, true. I love watching some chick who thinks she is mega hot get pissed off when someone else ignores her and goes for someone who is, not less attractive, but isnt trying as hard
sad but unfortunately, true. I love watching some chick who thinks she is mega hot get pissed off when someone else ignores her and goes for someone who is, not less attractive, but isnt trying as hard
I have a friend who thinks she is really hot (she is ugly but has huge tits so gets lots of attention), her face was priceless when I rated another friend as being more attractive than her.
sad but unfortunately, true. I love watching some chick who thinks she is mega hot get pissed off when someone else ignores her and goes for someone who is, not less attractive, but isnt trying as hard
get a lot of that in glasgow, full of sluts
Whenever I hear someone say creeper it reminds me of Scooby Doo.
Whenever I hear girls say a guy is creepy (particularly if they say "creeper") it pisses me off. It proves how f**king haughty even average women are, compared to the average guy.
Women are proof that constant sycophancy from your peers will rot your soul in about six months.
aww op that pic is so f**kin HILARIOUS
I 'd date you
Let me explain to you the difference between a "creeper" and a regular guy. Two recent examples of guys that have approached me that I didn't want to date.
One nicely asked me if I wanted to study for a test with him, hang out, etc. I appreciated the offer, but declined, and he smiled and said "It was worth a try," and went on his way. (I wasn't turning him down to be a bitch, I'm already dating someone so I wouldn't say yes to anyone.) He was not a creeper.
Another guy stared at me all semester in a poly sci class, and followed close behind me and one of my friends every day when we walked back from class. He never once smiled or tried to engage me in any meaningful conversation. He followed us to Burger King once and watched me eating the whole time. He never explicitly asked me out, but he creeped the f**k out of me. That guy was a creeper.
If you act normal and nice around a girl - and take the hint if she turns you down - you're not "creepy" and most girls won't claim that you are. But if you act awkward or like a weirdo, she's going to notice and feel skeeved out. So learn to interact with normal humans and nobody will call you creepy.
Let me explain to you the difference between a "creeper" and a regular guy. Two recent examples of guys that have approached me that I didn't want to date.
One nicely asked me if I wanted to study for a test with him, hang out, etc. I appreciated the offer, but declined, and he smiled and said "It was worth a try," and went on his way. (I wasn't turning him down to be a bitch, I'm already dating someone so I wouldn't say yes to anyone.) He was not a creeper.
Another guy stared at me all semester in a poly sci class, and followed close behind me and one of my friends every day when we walked back from class. He never once smiled or tried to engage me in any meaningful conversation. He followed us to Burger King once and watched me eating the whole time. He never explicitly asked me out, but he creeped the f**k out of me. That guy was a creeper.
If you act normal and nice around a girl - and take the hint if she turns you down - you're not "creepy" and most girls won't claim that you are. But if you act awkward or like a weirdo, she's going to notice and feel skeeved out. So learn to interact with normal humans and nobody will call you creepy.
female here
this, sooooo f**king hard
Let me explain to you the difference between a "creeper" and a regular guy. Two recent examples of guys that have approached me that I didn't want to date.
One nicely asked me if I wanted to study for a test with him, hang out, etc. I appreciated the offer, but declined, and he smiled and said "It was worth a try," and went on his way. (I wasn't turning him down to be a bitch, I'm already dating someone so I wouldn't say yes to anyone.) He was not a creeper.
Another guy stared at me all semester in a poly sci class, and followed close behind me and one of my friends every day when we walked back from class. He never once smiled or tried to engage me in any meaningful conversation. He followed us to Burger King once and watched me eating the whole time. He never explicitly asked me out, but he creeped the f**k out of me. That guy was a creeper.
If you act normal and nice around a girl - and take the hint if she turns you down - you're not "creepy" and most girls won't claim that you are. But if you act awkward or like a weirdo, she's going to notice and feel skeeved out. So learn to interact with normal humans and nobody will call you creepy.
This. It has little to do with appearance, though the ugly guys usually are more socially awkward.
This. It has little to do with appearance, though the ugly guys usually are more socially awkward.
I won't lie. The first guy seemed to take better care of his appearance and be more confident. But the second wasn't ugly or anything - he was just kind of scary because he never smiled.
This. It has little to do with appearance, though the ugly guys usually are more socially awkward.
It's all about the looks for me. Keep your f**k ugly face out of my line of sight, creepers
It's all about the looks for me. Keep your f**k ugly face out of my line of sight, creepers
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You'll have to try a lot harder than that.
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You'll have to try a lot harder than that.
I ain't trying sh*t, ugly.
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You'll have to try a lot harder than that.
No, they won't. You forget, this is anonymous, land of the easily trolled man-children.
Let me explain to you the difference between a "creeper" and a regular guy. Two recent examples of guys that have approached me that I didn't want to date.
One nicely asked me if I wanted to study for a test with him, hang out, etc. I appreciated the offer, but declined, and he smiled and said "It was worth a try," and went on his way. (I wasn't turning him down to be a bitch, I'm already dating someone so I wouldn't say yes to anyone.) He was not a creeper.
Another guy stared at me all semester in a poly sci class, and followed close behind me and one of my friends every day when we walked back from class. He never once smiled or tried to engage me in any meaningful conversation. He followed us to Burger King once and watched me eating the whole time. He never explicitly asked me out, but he creeped the f**k out of me. That guy was a creeper.
If you act normal and nice around a girl - and take the hint if she turns you down - you're not "creepy" and most girls won't claim that you are. But if you act awkward or like a weirdo, she's going to notice and feel skeeved out. So learn to interact with normal humans and nobody will call you creepy.
agreed.
but also, to this guy
some years ago i sent two (2) sms'es to this girl i liked. And i wrote along the lines of:
First one: Are you doing anything fun this weekend? Wanna hang?
Second one: Okey. Maybe another time! :)
for some reason i got some kind of a stalker reputation after this. People in that "click" still treat me weird.
you sending two texts in a row, maybe before she even had the chance to reply to the first one, makes us uneasy because it shows that you were anxiously awaiting her reply and then jumped to conclusion when she didn't text back in a day or so. Even if you weren't, the smiley face didn't really help and if you were going for the casual-date thing, it's still better if you would've said it irl, especially if you and her weren't close enough to regularly text eachother casually, as friends. She might've rejected you even if you said it irl, but it wont make you a creep as long as you're a good sport about it, and you might've even been able to be friends with her?
agreed.
but also, to this guy
you sending two texts in a row, maybe before she even had the chance to reply to the first one, makes us uneasy because it shows that you were anxiously awaiting her reply and then jumped to conclusion when she didn't text back in a day or so. Even if you weren't, the smiley face didn't really help and if you were going for the casual-date thing, it's still better if you would've said it irl, especially if you and her weren't close enough to regularly text eachother casually, as friends. She might've rejected you even if you said it irl, but it wont make you a creep as long as you're a good sport about it, and you might've even been able to be friends with her?
wow look a wall of text on sms strategy
he sent clear messages with clear intent and was friendly. the point of the thread isn't dissecting the absurd obstacle course girls want you to plod through, it's whining that we have to do so at all.
Let me explain to you the difference between a "creeper" and a regular guy. Two recent examples of guys that have approached me that I didn't want to date.
One nicely asked me if I wanted to study for a test with him, hang out, etc. I appreciated the offer, but declined, and he smiled and said "It was worth a try," and went on his way. (I wasn't turning him down to be a bitch, I'm already dating someone so I wouldn't say yes to anyone.) He was not a creeper.
Another guy stared at me all semester in a poly sci class, and followed close behind me and one of my friends every day when we walked back from class. He never once smiled or tried to engage me in any meaningful conversation. He followed us to Burger King once and watched me eating the whole time. He never explicitly asked me out, but he creeped the f**k out of me. That guy was a creeper.
If you act normal and nice around a girl - and take the hint if she turns you down - you're not "creepy" and most girls won't claim that you are. But if you act awkward or like a weirdo, she's going to notice and feel skeeved out. So learn to interact with normal humans and nobody will call you creepy.
This.
Being unattractive and socially awkward do not always go hand-in-hand. I have met several reasonably attractive guys that were creepy.
wow look a wall of text on sms strategy
he sent clear messages with clear intent and was friendly. the point of the thread isn't dissecting the absurd obstacle course girls want you to plod through, it's whining that we have to do so at all.
fine
tl;dr
he came off as a desperate tryhard with the second text
because you're on web and you are indeed creepy
OP's picture needs moar brushie.
This.
Being unattractive and socially awkward do not always go hand-in-hand. I have met several reasonably attractive guys that were creepy.
>I have met several reasonably attractive guys that were creepy.
Were any of them sparkly vampires?
>I have met several reasonably attractive guys that were creepy.
Were any of them sparkly vampires?
No, they were guys that didn't take a hint.
'creepy stalker; is code for 'ugly or undesirable for some other superficial reason'.
They love call to call men 'shallow', but are incapable of admitting that they are also equally shallow, if not more so.
What 'creepy stalker' boils down to is a self-defense mechanism to protect their egos. It's an excuse reject and generally be a bitch to any man who they feel doesn't match up to what they think their boyfriend should be like. Its primary function isn't to scare the man way by accusing him of being some kind of criminal, but to save her from admitting to herself that she is shallow, and that she won't date a man who's not 6"2 and built.
creepy = unattractive, which is pretty much the most shallow reason to put down another person.
I don't think I've ever been stalked or anything, but I have met some creepy people, especially through my work. Mind you, I work in the food service as a cashier.
Men from 50 to 70 years old like to comment on how we should get married or ask me if I have any ~special~ placements for my tattoos. To be honest, it's more funny to me than actually creepy, because these guys have wives. But srsly, wtf?
Also, this one guy who works down the strip from me started coming in and ordering drinks all the time and eventually asked me if he could add me on facebook. I said that was fine and it seems pretty nice that he would ask before just finding me, y'know? Then he just started commenting on every single status update I made and while he hasn't said anything gross or in general, disturbing, I'm avoiding him like the plague because I'm afraid he might try to get with me. He's just awkward and seems to be extremely straightforward in discussions, and to be honest that could come off as creepy. Whatever, he hasn't stepped over any line yet and he seemed to back off.
>>dat second paragraph
pure genius, 9/10
Why do girls love the word creepy and calling guys interested in them stalkers?
Its literally just you because YOU are creepy and a weak homosexual with no credentials.
Its literally just you because YOU are creepy and a weak homosexual with no credentials.
ls this some projecting?
Creepy does not mean physically unattractive. Creepy means socially awkward, which is off-putting to most women. You can be fairly ugly, but confident and socially adept. Now to be fair, less girls are going to like you (just like less men like ugly girls, we all do it), but you're not going to be considered "creepy" even if she turns you down. "Creepy" means you don't know how to interact with women. That's it. Ugly doesn't help, but ugly does not make one creepy on its own.
Creepy does not mean physically unattractive. Creepy means socially awkward, which is off-putting to most women. You can be fairly ugly, but confident and socially adept. Now to be fair, less girls are going to like you (just like less men like ugly girls, we all do it), but you're not going to be considered "creepy" even if she turns you down. "Creepy" means you don't know how to interact with women. That's it. Ugly doesn't help, but ugly does not make one creepy on its own.
socially awkward as hell but attractive guy here, never been called creepy. Because you CAN get away with sh*t if you look good.
It's neither being ugly or social awkwardness alone that makes girls call a guy "creepy," its the following things ALL TOGETHER
1) Unattractive, or girl is uninterested for some other reason
2) Shows signs of interest in girl
3) Either misses girl's message that she doesn't reciprocate or doesn't care about it
4) Continues showing signs of interest in girl
exactly what the picture says
Goddamn mute block I didn't know the picture was already posted, got blocked for 13 minutes. Too lazy to reset router.
>13 minutes
My god, do you just regurgitate copypasta all day and repost images?
I don't think I've ever seen my mute timer go over 32 seconds.
socially awkward as hell but attractive guy here, never been called creepy. Because you CAN get away with sh*t if you look good.
It's neither being ugly or social awkwardness alone that makes girls call a guy "creepy," its the following things ALL TOGETHER
1) Unattractive, or girl is uninterested for some other reason
2) Shows signs of interest in girl
3) Either misses girl's message that she doesn't reciprocate or doesn't care about it
4) Continues showing signs of interest in girl
I'm willing to bet you're not socially awkward. You're "shy but in a cute way" to them. You don't follow girls around and send them multiple desperate texts. You're just like "Umm, I think I like you..." (shuffle your feet) and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
I know your type.
'creepy stalker; is code for 'ugly or undesirable for some other superficial reason'.
They love call to call men 'shallow', but are incapable of admitting that they are also equally shallow, if not more so.
What 'creepy stalker' boils down to is a self-defense mechanism to protect their egos. It's an excuse reject and generally be a bitch to any man who they feel doesn't match up to what they think their boyfriend should be like. Its primary function isn't to scare the man way by accusing him of being some kind of criminal, but to save her from admitting to herself that she is shallow, and that she won't date a man who's not 6"2 and built.
Yeah, there's this picture floating around on the Internet that says, "Bitches love smileyfaces"
I've found this to not be true, well at least for the type of girl I like, they pretty much loathe them.
I'm willing to bet you're not socially awkward. You're "shy but in a cute way" to them. You don't follow girls around and send them multiple desperate texts. You're just like "Umm, I think I like you..." (shuffle your feet) and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
I know your type.
>and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
And then they ignore him and f**k a wifebeating a**hole with more muscle than brains.
>and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
And then they ignore him and f**k a wifebeating a**hole with more muscle than brains.
But they never call him creepy.
I'm willing to bet you're not socially awkward. You're "shy but in a cute way" to them. You don't follow girls around and send them multiple desperate texts. You're just like "Umm, I think I like you..." (shuffle your feet) and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
I know your type.
oh lawd no "um I think I like you" would be way too direct and thus possibly awkward.
>and they're like "Awww he's so adorable."
And then they ignore him and f**k a wifebeating a**hole with more muscle than brains.
girls like smart guys and nice job assuming I'm not in good shape. If you were too you'd be less bitter (or perhaps more bitter because of the contrast).
oh lawd no "um I think I like you" would be way too direct and thus possibly awkward.
girls like smart guys and nice job assuming I'm not in good shape. If you were too you'd be less bitter (or perhaps more bitter because of the contrast).
It's not that "um I think I like you" is too direct, it's just that it's not something you should say while asking someone out unless you're still in gradeschool. Ask her if she wants to get lunch/coffee.
oh lawd no "um I think I like you" would be way too direct and thus possibly awkward.
girls like smart guys and nice job assuming I'm not in good shape. If you were too you'd be less bitter (or perhaps more bitter because of the contrast).
f**k your stupid OMG AWKWARD bullsh*t
accept the fact that you f**king monkeys can't go 20 minutes without feeling awkward about something and PLOW THROUGH YOU F**KING WOMEN
There's a lot of bullsh*t generalizations going on here. Most descriptions I see that negatively impact the view of women on anonymous involve typical symptoms of drama-mongers, in this case, women who find it creepy that someone is making extremely mature passes at them. These women who seem to be around the same (adult) age as you obviously have the brain development of a middle schooler. When they over-dramatize ugly males hitting on them or call you a stalker simply because they don't find you attractive, they are exhibiting their maturity level. Similarly, when you have a bad experience with a shallow bitch who calls you stalker for buying her a cup of coffee and you never get over it, this exhibits your maturity level. You are just as immature, shallow, and dumb as everything you hate in a woman. You are holding the same sort of ridiculous judgment against them. Sh*t, you might as well get f**king married.
Any type of anecdote you can add to this conversation really does nothing but prove that you have an opinion based on past experiences which may or may not have involved women or men who are over-dramatic 6th graders (see also: possible sociopaths.) Stop f**king backpedaling.
I won't lie. The first guy seemed to take better care of his appearance and be more confident. But the second wasn't ugly or anything - he was just kind of scary because he never smiled.
no, f**k you.
it has nothing to do with "not smiling"
god. you f**king bitches give this excuse every goddamn day. an attractive person doesn't have to smile (they don't have to sulk either), but an unattractive guy has to walk around with a smile on his face all the live-long day in order for people to not think he's scary or creepy.
no, f**k you.
it has nothing to do with "not smiling"
god. you f**king bitches give this excuse every goddamn day. an attractive person doesn't have to smile (they don't have to sulk either), but an unattractive guy has to walk around with a smile on his face all the live-long day in order for people to not think he's scary or creepy.
Creepy guys aren't very good at smiling, usually it is pretty unnerving.
Creepy is when guys show too much interest in someone they don't know very well, "overestimating the relationship" maybe.
Here's an example of a guy I would consider creepy (Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous). He adds girls on facebook/myspace constantly. I mean, any girl in his area, he adds. He hits on ALL of them. He added me on facebook, and invited me to a party without having ever spoken to me (actually, he had added me on myspace several years ago and tried to chat me up on there, but I doubt he remembers). His profile has no one commenting his pictures or statuses, but is full of him commenting other girls and on their pics. One girl I know must have had a conversation with him, or spoken to him at some sh*tty bar, because now he's constantly commenting her about how he misses her, posting on everything she says. It's just creepy when you consider she never replies. It's even creepier when you realise he's only paying attention to her because she's one of the few women who will talk to him.
Creepiness is generally broadcasted over the net and over texting (I've been to a party he was at, he didn't strike me as creepy, just someone who tried too hard to be cool). But, generally, if you treat a girl like you're in a closer relationship than you are and if you're constantly talking to girls who don't even reply and obviously aren't interested, you're creepy.
Just don't always approach her first. If you seem like you have better things to do than pester her with texts and ims because you're that desperate for female contact, you wont seem creepy.
OPs pic always makes me smile.
Also, i don't know.
>>dat second paragraph
pure genius, 9/10
I noticed that too.
Subtle, too much so methinks, since no one else caught on to it.
I applaud thee, troll.
Creepy is when guys show too much interest in someone they don't know very well, "overestimating the relationship" maybe.
Here's an example of a guy I would consider creepy (Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous). He adds girls on facebook/myspace constantly. I mean, any girl in his area, he adds. He hits on ALL of them. He added me on facebook, and invited me to a party without having ever spoken to me (actually, he had added me on myspace several years ago and tried to chat me up on there, but I doubt he remembers). His profile has no one commenting his pictures or statuses, but is full of him commenting other girls and on their pics. One girl I know must have had a conversation with him, or spoken to him at some sh*tty bar, because now he's constantly commenting her about how he misses her, posting on everything she says. It's just creepy when you consider she never replies. It's even creepier when you realise he's only paying attention to her because she's one of the few women who will talk to him.
Creepiness is generally broadcasted over the net and over texting (I've been to a party he was at, he didn't strike me as creepy, just someone who tried too hard to be cool). But, generally, if you treat a girl like you're in a closer relationship than you are and if you're constantly talking to girls who don't even reply and obviously aren't interested, you're creepy.
Just don't always approach her first. If you seem like you have better things to do than pester her with texts and ims because you're that desperate for female contact, you wont seem creepy.
there's a guy like this at my school and trust me guys, THIS is the type of guy you do not want to be. he was one of the people who went through the first year university facebook group and added all of the girls, then regularly talked to and hit on girls he's never met over facebook. that, and texting girls he's never met, or just met once. i hear girls complaining about him ALL the time.
also, a little while ago people found out that he had a video of himself jerking off on his computer. that's pretty much social suicide right there.
I saw this thread immediately after thoroughly googlestalking a girl from anonymous who added me a few weeks ago and wondering what she'd think if she knew I was doing it. I figured she'd call me a stalker and I'd just something I do that's relatively harmless. Oh well.
I saw this thread immediately after thoroughly googlestalking a girl from anonymous who added me a few weeks ago and wondering what she'd think if she knew I was doing it. I figured she'd call me a stalker and I'd just something I do that's relatively harmless. Oh well.
*I'd just say it's
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Creepy is when guys show too much interest in someone they don't know very well, "overestimating the relationship" maybe.
Here's an example of a guy I would consider creepy (Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous). He adds girls on facebook/myspace constantly. I mean, any girl in his area, he adds. He hits on ALL of them. He added me on facebook, and invited me to a party without having ever spoken to me (actually, he had added me on myspace several years ago and tried to chat me up on there, but I doubt he remembers). His profile has no one commenting his pictures or statuses, but is full of him commenting other girls and on their pics. One girl I know must have had a conversation with him, or spoken to him at some sh*tty bar, because now he's constantly commenting her about how he misses her, posting on everything she says. It's just creepy when you consider she never replies. It's even creepier when you realise he's only paying attention to her because she's one of the few women who will talk to him.
Creepiness is generally broadcasted over the net and over texting (I've been to a party he was at, he didn't strike me as creepy, just someone who tried too hard to be cool). But, generally, if you treat a girl like you're in a closer relationship than you are and if you're constantly talking to girls who don't even reply and obviously aren't interested, you're creepy.
Just don't always approach her first. If you seem like you have better things to do than pester her with texts and ims because you're that desperate for female contact, you wont seem creepy.
>Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous
Nice touch. While admittedly I'm not like that, we both know that you'd still think guys from anonymous ARE creepy. That's just what you facebook people think when people say they don't have one.
>Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous
Nice touch. While admittedly I'm not like that, we both know that you'd still think guys from anonymous ARE creepy. That's just what you facebook people think when people say they don't have one.
Most people who don't get a facebook only do so because they'd only have about 3 friends to add.
Most people who don't get a facebook only do so because they'd only have about 3 friends to add.
Oh hi, that would be me, but to get to three friends I'd have to add mom and then make profiles for both our cats.
I haven't read the thread but basically it means he's unattractive.
Attractive guy flirts with her: "Yay!"
Ugly guy flirts with her: "Ugh, creep..."
Attractive guy behaves a little differently than most people: "Ooh he's so eccentric!"
Ugly guy behaves a little differently than most people: "Ugh, he's weird..."
It's like the old saying goes, it's only sexual harassment if he's ugly.
>Don't rage, he's stupid and nothing like the intelligent, vidya playing nerdy men on anonymous
Nice touch. While admittedly I'm not like that, we both know that you'd still think guys from anonymous ARE creepy. That's just what you facebook people think when people say they don't have one.
I wouldn't think it's creepy, I'd think he was a pretentious, misanthropic, 'non-conformist' fa**ot who's trying to be better than everyone with facebook. I don't even like facebook, it pisses me off, but it's the most convenient way to keep in contact with people with minimal effort.
Though, I've seen many threads of anonymous people being decidedly creepy (if you're going off my definition- sending too many texts without replies, being desperate, latching onto the first girl who gives you the time of day). Does anyone remember the 'please respond' copypasta? That's what I mean.
I think it was described well in
It makes them feel wanted, yet at the same time they get to say to show that they're not interested. In one action, it makes them feel as if they're not sluts (because their standards are too high), yet at the same time they're desired and therefore must be attractive.
It's basically just something a chick says when a guy is being lustful and the feelings aren't reciprocated. The girl is probably flattered by it but doesn't want to admit it because it would lead the poor sap on and also make her look slutty, so she calls him a creep and moves on.
Sometimes it's used fecetiously ("oh man you're such a creep, stop that teehee~") or literally "(oh god you're such a creep, please stop") but it means essentially the same thing either way.
I wouldn't think it's creepy, I'd think he was a pretentious, misanthropic, 'non-conformist' fa**ot who's trying to be better than everyone with facebook. I don't even like facebook, it pisses me off, but it's the most convenient way to keep in contact with people with minimal effort.
Though, I've seen many threads of anonymous people being decidedly creepy (if you're going off my definition- sending too many texts without replies, being desperate, latching onto the first girl who gives you the time of day). Does anyone remember the 'please respond' copypasta? That's what I mean.
I wasn't going to touch this thread but i feel compelled to educate you on why smart people don't use facebook:
ALL YOUR FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE PRIVY TO YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH ALL YOUR OTHER FRIENDS
If you ever talk about anything more serious than american idol, which i realize not all facebook users do, then you'll be into major sh*t. Anyone who does will know this is true.
I wasn't going to touch this thread but i feel compelled to educate you on why smart people don't use facebook:
ALL YOUR FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE PRIVY TO YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH ALL YOUR OTHER FRIENDS
If you ever talk about anything more serious than american idol, which i realize not all facebook users do, then you'll be into major sh*t. Anyone who does will know this is true.
If I'm close enough to someone to have in depth, private conversations, I'll call/text/IM/see them in real life. Facebook is for casual friends you don't want to make time for but don't want to be rude and cut them out of your life either. I also like being able to see what people I don't talk to that often are up to.
If there was a less crap alternative to this, I would take it.
I wasn't going to touch this thread but i feel compelled to educate you on why smart people don't use facebook:
ALL YOUR FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE PRIVY TO YOUR CONVERSATIONS WITH ALL YOUR OTHER FRIENDS
If you ever talk about anything more serious than american idol, which i realize not all facebook users do, then you'll be into major sh*t. Anyone who does will know this is true.
>i feel compelled to educate you on why smart people don't post personal sh*t facebook
FTFY.
You can use facebook and not act like a complete idiot. Plus, it is fun watching other people act like idiots.
I know a creepy guy who was kind of a stalker. Let me explain.
I worked with him and we got on well. He told me he was gay. Continue to get on well. Fast-forward to a work night out. He insisted on getting all the drinks for our table (not paying, taking the money from us). I know I should have got my own drinks but I would have felt bad insisting on doing so when here was this apparently kind person who wanted to carry everyone's drinks. I had 4 drinks, and I thought they tasted strong but he told me it was just cheap vodka they had at the bar. Anyway, I have 4 drinks, and while I usually wouldn't feel even tipsy, I feel pretty out of it, so I told him I just wanted coke/pepsi. As the night goes on I keep feeling worse and worse. He keeps putting his arm around me and asking if I'm ok, then suggests that because I'm "ill" and need someone to look after me we should get a taxi back to his, and he can make sure I'm ok. He goes to the bathroom before getting ready to leave and as he goes a friend pulls me up and drags me outside into a taxi. Turns out the guy from work had been getting doubles in my drinks, including the ones I asked to have no alcohol in. My friend saw and didn't know what to do, but after he saw the guy slip a pill into my drink he decided he had to get me out of there.
So, I leg it, my friend gets me home and I pass out, wake up roughly FIFTEEN hours later, but I'm otherwise ok.
My friend from work says nothing about it, but starts coming into my town and following me around, and sending me texts asking about people I speak to.
That is creepy.
I know a creepy guy who was kind of a stalker. Let me explain.
I worked with him and we got on well. He told me he was gay. Continue to get on well. Fast-forward to a work night out. He insisted on getting all the drinks for our table (not paying, taking the money from us). I know I should have got my own drinks but I would have felt bad insisting on doing so when here was this apparently kind person who wanted to carry everyone's drinks. I had 4 drinks, and I thought they tasted strong but he told me it was just cheap vodka they had at the bar. Anyway, I have 4 drinks, and while I usually wouldn't feel even tipsy, I feel pretty out of it, so I told him I just wanted coke/pepsi. As the night goes on I keep feeling worse and worse. He keeps putting his arm around me and asking if I'm ok, then suggests that because I'm "ill" and need someone to look after me we should get a taxi back to his, and he can make sure I'm ok. He goes to the bathroom before getting ready to leave and as he goes a friend pulls me up and drags me outside into a taxi. Turns out the guy from work had been getting doubles in my drinks, including the ones I asked to have no alcohol in. My friend saw and didn't know what to do, but after he saw the guy slip a pill into my drink he decided he had to get me out of there.
So, I leg it, my friend gets me home and I pass out, wake up roughly FIFTEEN hours later, but I'm otherwise ok.
My friend from work says nothing about it, but starts coming into my town and following me around, and sending me texts asking about people I speak to.
That is creepy.
Your friend was lying to you. He was the one who put those roofies in your drink. He had his sick, twisted way with you while you were passed out and you never even suspected. Your homophobia blinded you.
I know a creepy guy who was kind of a stalker. Let me explain.
I worked with him and we got on well. He told me he was gay. Continue to get on well. Fast-forward to a work night out. He insisted on getting all the drinks for our table (not paying, taking the money from us). I know I should have got my own drinks but I would have felt bad insisting on doing so when here was this apparently kind person who wanted to carry everyone's drinks. I had 4 drinks, and I thought they tasted strong but he told me it was just cheap vodka they had at the bar. Anyway, I have 4 drinks, and while I usually wouldn't feel even tipsy, I feel pretty out of it, so I told him I just wanted coke/pepsi. As the night goes on I keep feeling worse and worse. He keeps putting his arm around me and asking if I'm ok, then suggests that because I'm "ill" and need someone to look after me we should get a taxi back to his, and he can make sure I'm ok. He goes to the bathroom before getting ready to leave and as he goes a friend pulls me up and drags me outside into a taxi. Turns out the guy from work had been getting doubles in my drinks, including the ones I asked to have no alcohol in. My friend saw and didn't know what to do, but after he saw the guy slip a pill into my drink he decided he had to get me out of there.
So, I leg it, my friend gets me home and I pass out, wake up roughly FIFTEEN hours later, but I'm otherwise ok.
My friend from work says nothing about it, but starts coming into my town and following me around, and sending me texts asking about people I speak to.
That is creepy.
You've done nothing about him spiking your drink? If he does it to another girl and rapes her then it is your fault for not saying anything.
Your friend was lying to you. He was the one who put those roofies in your drink. He had his sick, twisted way with you while you were passed out and you never even suspected. Your homophobia blinded you.
There I go assuming everyone on the internet is male, just because it's true.
Anywho, most of what's being said here is OMG GIRLS CALL ME CREEPY WHEN I DONT DESERVE IT BAWWWWW and the responses are OMG THIS GUY attempted to rape me SO THEREFORE HE IS CREEPY.
NO SH*T SHERLOCK. THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE WHICH WAS BROUGHT FORTH FOR DISCUSSION. CREEPY IS NOT A WORD WHICH EVEN BEGINS TO DESCRIBE A RAPIST. GODDAMN.
If I'm close enough to someone to have in depth, private conversations, I'll call/text/IM/see them in real life. Facebook is for casual friends you don't want to make time for but don't want to be rude and cut them out of your life either. I also like being able to see what people I don't talk to that often are up to.
If there was a less crap alternative to this, I would take it.
>Facebook is for casual friends you don't want to make time for but don't want to be rude and cut them out of your life either.
Respectable people don't have friends like that. If you don't want to make time for a friend then they're not really your friend and you should do them the courtesy of being honest about that instead of pretending to be too busy. And that's once again why anyone who needs facebook is a bitch.
You've done nothing about him spiking your drink? If he does it to another girl and rapes her then it is your fault for not saying anything.
ALSO THIS. MOTHERF**K. I AM ASHAMED THAT THIS WAS NOT MY FIRST THOUGHT. DONT BE A COWARD. SAVE SOME OTHER GIRL.
ALSO THIS. MOTHERF**K. I AM ASHAMED THAT THIS WAS NOT MY FIRST THOUGHT. DONT BE A COWARD. SAVE SOME OTHER GIRL.
Woah, CAPS. You must be serial peed off.
You've done nothing about him spiking your drink? If he does it to another girl and rapes her then it is your fault for not saying anything.
Reported it to the police, they said that because there were no cameras in the place they have no proof of anything. There was an appeal in the local newspaper for anyone who had seen something to tell them, but in the end they just said there wasn't enough evidence to arrest him. They might have spoke to him, I don't know.
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