Thursday, September 2, 2010

Why did you cheat on your partner?

anonymous why do you cheat? I know not everyone is a cheater but I've seen a lot of post on web where people talk about how they cheat on their significant other. Some of them feel bad while others brag about how they've cheated multiple times and haven't been caught. So tell us why you cheat. What would you do if you were cheated on? People who have cheated or been cheated on feel free to post stories.




Come on anonymous you guys are usually always crying about this.

I know a girl that seems to cheat on her boyfriends just to have a reason to beat herself up.
I'd still date her. I couldn't trust her not to be a wh**re; but I COULD trust her to BE a wh**re, which is probably a terrible way to rationalize it.
But it'd be nice to have regular pu**y and companionship; and she'd still probably be taking less dick than whatever bottom-of-the-barrel club sluts I could con into bed.

I'd be inclined to cheat given an opportunity because my girlfriend although almost perfect in every sense doesn't have the same sex drive as I do.
Not sure if I would go through with it though.

Got cheated on. Asked her about it. She denied it. Told her I spoke to the guy and he told me everything (not true). She told me the truth and started to bawl about it. She told me that it was just once and it was months ago and it meant nothing and they didn't even like each other anymore and all this stuff. Broke up with her.
End of story. Don't cheat on anyone, don't put up with it. If you like to sleep around and do relationship stuff, keep a whole bunch of f**k-buddies that you are friends with.

I cheat for the thrill.
I get into relationships just to cheat.
The closer that person is to the person I'm dating, the hotter.

because i can't get enough pu**y. i would like to have one vagina on my mouth, one on my c**k, one on each hand and two more rubbing on each other in my field of vision at all times unless i am hungry, then just one bent over while i eat off her back will do fine.
i wanna screw till there's no screwin' left to do.
basically i'm addicted to new pu**y. getting into a new girl for the first time is always better than the second through 10,000th time with any other girl.

Got cheated on. Asked her about it. She denied it. Told her I spoke to the guy and he told me everything (not true). She told me the truth and started to bawl about it. She told me that it was just once and it was months ago and it meant nothing and they didn't even like each other anymore and all this stuff. Broke up with her.
End of story. Don't cheat on anyone, don't put up with it. If you like to sleep around and do relationship stuff, keep a whole bunch of f**k-buddies that you are friends with.


You did the right thing bro.

Got cheated on and the bitch acted distant after and then I asked her and she panicked and broke up with me, and wouldn't tell me why. Then she apologized like a month later, and I got even more annoyed. She said she got "caught in the moment" and all those lame excuses. Then I find out that it wasn't her idea to apologize, but it was because my friend convinced her to. F**king stupid bitch.

anonymous you never cease to amaze me. You complain how about how you can't find a nice girl who will love the lonely neckbeard you yet you guys talking about how you would cheat on your gf just cause you haven't had any.

Got cheated on and the bitch acted distant after and then I asked her and she panicked and broke up with me, and wouldn't tell me why. Then she apologized like a month later, and I got even more annoyed. She said she got "caught in the moment" and all those lame excuses. Then I find out that it wasn't her idea to apologize, but it was because my friend convinced her to. F**king stupid bitch.

HEY BUDDY
IF YOU WERE TO CHEAT YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT TOO
WHEN A GUY KNOWS JUST HOW TO PUSH A GIRL'S BUTTONS AND GET HER EXCITED AT HIS TOUCH AND MASCULINE VOICE SHE GETS CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT PRETTY EASILY
IT'S CALLED LUST FOR A MAN
NOTICE HOW SHE'S NOT F**KING YOU IN THIS SCENARIO
IF YOU WERE A BETTER MAN SHE WOULD BE RIDING YOUR DICK, BUT YOU CAN'T EXCITE HER SO SHE GOES AND F**KS SOMEONE WHO CAN

because i can't get enough pu**y. i would like to have one vagina on my mouth, one on my c**k, one on each hand and two more rubbing on each other in my field of vision at all times unless i am hungry, then just one bent over while i eat off her back will do fine.
i wanna screw till there's no screwin' left to do.
basically i'm addicted to new pu**y. getting into a new girl for the first time is always better than the second through 10,000th time with any other girl.

sex monkey addicted to mating
enjoy your outdated biological makeup that evolved in a time when there were fewer of us on this planet
your kind and those genes of yours are the reason this planet is overpopulated
pity that your kind can do very little but think of sex, so you will keep f**king until the world implodes

>caught up in the moment.
They all say this. It is proof of their inferiority.


HEY BUDDY
IF YOU WERE TO CHEAT YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT TOO
WHEN A GUY KNOWS JUST HOW TO PUSH A GIRL'S BUTTONS AND GET HER EXCITED AT HIS TOUCH AND MASCULINE VOICE SHE GETS CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT PRETTY EASILY
IT'S CALLED LUST FOR A MAN
NOTICE HOW SHE'S NOT F**KING YOU IN THIS SCENARIO
IF YOU WERE A BETTER MAN SHE WOULD BE RIDING YOUR DICK, BUT YOU CAN'T EXCITE HER SO SHE GOES AND F**KS SOMEONE WHO CAN

You're totally right. He should've manned up cause you're obviously a womyn who knows what she's talking about and definitely not a troll.

because i can't get enough pu**y. i would like to have one vagina on my mouth, one on my c**k, one on each hand and two more rubbing on each other in my field of vision at all times unless i am hungry, then just one bent over while i eat off her back will do fine.
i wanna screw till there's no screwin' left to do.
basically i'm addicted to new pu**y. getting into a new girl for the first time is always better than the second through 10,000th time with any other girl.

I know I like to f**k a lot more than other people but jesus the way you worded that makes you sound pathetic. I might f**k as much as possible but I'm not going to cheat on someone just for a quick lay.

anonymousers should post some stories where they were the other person being used to cheat.

>caught up in the moment.
They all say this. It is proof of their inferiority.

"Getting caught up in the moment" > premeditated cheating/jumping at any chance to cheat the way men do

People always want what they can't have, forbidden fruit syndrome. In a relationship, you can't cheat, so obviously weaker minded people are going to want to, and go through with it.


"Getting caught up in the moment" > premeditated cheating/jumping at any chance to cheat the way men do

Getting caught up in the moment. If a woman who considers herself to be loyal can be talked into cheating in a single encounter, she is not a reliable person. You can trust that she loves you, that she means it when she says there is no other, but you can never trust her to think that at any other moment than when it comes out of her lips, and you can't trust her when she is out of your sight.
The men who jump at any chance to cheat are obvious. The men who are loyal to a fault are also obvious. Women can learn to tell the difference, but they will rank loyalty far lower than other attributes. So, without saying it is their fault that they are cheated on, it is their choice to go out with men who are no good.

Why does anybody make love?

I was cheated on in a terrible way, but I'm smart enough not to talk to web about it

I was cheated on in a terrible way, but I'm smart enough not to talk to web about it

What could go wrong if you anonymously posted on an anonymous board, except informing and enriching the lives of other anonymous you'll never meet?


HEY BUDDY
IF YOU WERE TO CHEAT YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT TOO
WHEN A GUY KNOWS JUST HOW TO PUSH A GIRL'S BUTTONS AND GET HER EXCITED AT HIS TOUCH AND MASCULINE VOICE SHE GETS CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT PRETTY EASILY
IT'S CALLED LUST FOR A MAN
NOTICE HOW SHE'S NOT F**KING YOU IN THIS SCENARIO
IF YOU WERE A BETTER MAN SHE WOULD BE RIDING YOUR DICK, BUT YOU CAN'T EXCITE HER SO SHE GOES AND F**KS SOMEONE WHO CAN

Quite the opposite. I knew exactly how to push her buttons and make her horny, and I did it quite often, and she always fell for it.
She's just a slut. I've learned now that she's cheated on everyone she's been with.


What could go wrong if you anonymously posted on an anonymous board, except informing and enriching the lives of other anonymous you'll never meet?

Because the gory details could be recognized by friends I know who frequent this board.


Getting caught up in the moment. If a woman who considers herself to be loyal can be talked into cheating in a single encounter, she is not a reliable person. You can trust that she loves you, that she means it when she says there is no other, but you can never trust her to think that at any other moment than when it comes out of her lips, and you can't trust her when she is out of your sight.
The men who jump at any chance to cheat are obvious. The men who are loyal to a fault are also obvious. Women can learn to tell the difference, but they will rank loyalty far lower than other attributes. So, without saying it is their fault that they are cheated on, it is their choice to go out with men who are no good.

I wasn't saying it's worse for the person getting cheated on, I'm saying that actively choosing to cheat makes you a mean, cruel person. Getting caught up in the moment makes you a dumb slut.


Quite the opposite. I knew exactly how to push her buttons and make her horny, and I did it quite often, and she always fell for it.
She's just a slut. I've learned now that she's cheated on everyone she's been with.

HEY BUDDY
WAY TO DATE A SLUT BRO AND ADMITTING TO DATING A SLUT THATS GOOD FOR YOUR MAN REP BRO WOOOOO YEAAAAA
ALSO WAY TO RESPOND TO AN OBVIOUS TROLL


Getting caught up in the moment. If a woman who considers herself to be loyal can be talked into cheating in a single encounter, she is not a reliable person. You can trust that she loves you, that she means it when she says there is no other, but you can never trust her to think that at any other moment than when it comes out of her lips, and you can't trust her when she is out of your sight.
The men who jump at any chance to cheat are obvious. The men who are loyal to a fault are also obvious. Women can learn to tell the difference, but they will rank loyalty far lower than other attributes. So, without saying it is their fault that they are cheated on, it is their choice to go out with men who are no good.

Since loyalty is at the top of my list, mind telling me what signs to look out for? Women can always tell which women will cheat, and men can tell which men will cheat, but trying to tell in the opposite sex is much more difficult than assumed.

I cheated on a guy with his brother. Sounds bad, right? Well...
The relationship was already falling apart, and my ex's brother is pretty much a carbon copy with all of my exes good qualities squared and none of his bad qualities. Smarter, nicer, funnier, shares more of my interests, hotter, more successful, more attractive, taller, huge dick, better in bed, etc. It's no surprise that I fell for him, even though I had to practically rape him at first since he didn't want to horn in on his brother's "property" (actual word my ex used). We're coming up on our fourth anniversary soon and his brother is off being a drug addict somewhere now, so I've got no regrets.

Because monogamy is not in accordance to our instinctual drive.
We're supposed to find a mate, protect her, spread genes, and move on the next one.

Cheating is for people who play games.
If your relationship is a game i don't care if you cheat or get cheated on, honestly.

Because monogamy is not in accordance to our instinctual drive.
We're supposed to find a mate, protect her, spread genes, and move on the next one.

We're also supposed to murder people/animals that piss us off, and take whatever we want. I don't know why you're pointing out the obvious, are you trying to justify it? Or just pointing it out (as if it needs to be)?

anonymous why do you cheat? I know not everyone is a cheater but I've seen a lot of post on web where people talk about how they cheat on their significant other. Some of them feel bad while others brag about how they've cheated multiple times and haven't been caught. So tell us why you cheat. What would you do if you were cheated on? People who have cheated or been cheated on feel free to post stories.

I don't get why people do that. Just break up with the person first ffs. I know why people don't just do that because they, on a subconscious or conscious level, want to keep the other person as a back up in case it doesn't work out with the new fling. That's just so godamn selfish.
Have balls, don't cheat just make a decision--you want to be single and available, or be with someone and taken. There is no freakin' middle ground.

I'm tired of seeing Eminem from Wanted on the first page.

Because monogamy is not in accordance to our instinctual drive.
We're supposed to find a mate, protect her, spread genes, and move on the next one.

Unfortunately the "hurr durr Human Nature" argument is rather short-sighted. There are several millennia of societal norms, and constructs to which Humans adhere to; and personally I like to hold myself to a higher standard than that of a common beast.
Show some self-respect, you filthy mongoloid.


Since loyalty is at the top of my list, mind telling me what signs to look out for? Women can always tell which women will cheat, and men can tell which men will cheat, but trying to tell in the opposite sex is much more difficult than assumed.

Women I have spoken to about this have told me that, apart from a few obvious sluts, it is very difficult to tell when and if a woman will cheat.
In my experience, women want the caveman and the gentleman. They want the jealous, tough guy who will punch the guy who hits on her and go home and f**k her to unconsciousness; AND; They want the caring, sensitive guy who doesn't care how much they hang out with their guy friends and who will make love to her until she cries. And they want both in one guy, and it changes at random. If you are a normal guy, you lean in one direction or the other, if you are really good with women you will know which guy to be more like at which time, and if you are unfortunate, you will give her the opposite of what she needs. When you give her the wrong guy, you will get cheated on. If she wants the caveman and you are a gentleman, she will sleep with the next caveman who makes an offer. If she wants a gentleman and you are a caveman, she will sleep with the gentleman who has, up to now, been friend-zoned.
For a guy, it is obvious to other men who is going to cheat at the first opportunity and who would stay loyal even if away for a year. I don't know how to describe it properly, you just get a feeling from the guy.


HEY BUDDY
IF YOU WERE TO CHEAT YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT TOO
WHEN A GUY KNOWS JUST HOW TO PUSH A GIRL'S BUTTONS AND GET HER EXCITED AT HIS TOUCH AND MASCULINE VOICE SHE GETS CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT PRETTY EASILY
IT'S CALLED LUST FOR A MAN
NOTICE HOW SHE'S NOT F**KING YOU IN THIS SCENARIO
IF YOU WERE A BETTER MAN SHE WOULD BE RIDING YOUR DICK, BUT YOU CAN'T EXCITE HER SO SHE GOES AND F**KS SOMEONE WHO CAN


HEY BUDDY
WAY TO DATE A SLUT BRO AND ADMITTING TO DATING A SLUT THATS GOOD FOR YOUR MAN REP BRO WOOOOO YEAAAAA
ALSO WAY TO RESPOND TO AN OBVIOUS TROLL

THE CAPSLOCK IS SATISFY..

I cheated on a guy with his brother. Sounds bad, right? Well...
The relationship was already falling apart, and my ex's brother is pretty much a carbon copy with all of my exes good qualities squared and none of his bad qualities. Smarter, nicer, funnier, shares more of my interests, hotter, more successful, more attractive, taller, huge dick, better in bed, etc. It's no surprise that I fell for him, even though I had to practically rape him at first since he didn't want to horn in on his brother's "property" (actual word my ex used). We're coming up on our fourth anniversary soon and his brother is off being a drug addict somewhere now, so I've got no regrets.

Oh my f**k. You are the worst person ever.
You say the relationship was almost over, and you couldn't wait until just after instead of just before the end?
You forced him to break the bro-code? On his own, literal brother?
I have no problem with you going out with the guys brother. I have a problem with the fact that all of the things you say are excuses for your infidelity are not good excuses at all.
tl;dr, you should have broken up with the first brother before you got with the second. From the limited information you have provided, you are partially responsible for the first brothers life falling apart.

I once slept with a girl who's boyfriend was in prison for shaking a baby.
Felt god man.

Selfish people cheat. /thread

Posting because I cannot allow a post ending with '/thread' to actually end the thread.

Posting because I cannot allow a post ending with '/thread' to actually end the thread.

This. Moot. /thread


This. Moot. /thread

God damn it, anon, you aren't going to make this easy, are you?
Fine. This thread is now about anon rape.

cheaters never prosper. /thread

I dont cheat, I just facilitate cheating in others.
I dont do it and dont tolerate it in my partners, but if someone in a relationship wants to have sex with me while im not commited then, hell yea.

I dont cheat, I just facilitate cheating in others.
I dont do it and dont tolerate it in my partners, but if someone in a relationship wants to have sex with me while im not commited then, hell yea.

Not wrong.
You never made a commitment to anyone. You aren't breaking your word. No problem.
I wouldn't pull that with a friends girl, but just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean I won't try it on.


Not wrong.
You never made a commitment to anyone. You aren't breaking your word. No problem.
I wouldn't pull that with a friends girl, but just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean I won't try it on.

rationalization

I once cheated on my dad /thread

tiger woods was an idiot

cover your tracks and do it cheating is the only way to satisfy your needs


Oh my f**k. You are the worst person ever.
You say the relationship was almost over, and you couldn't wait until just after instead of just before the end?
You forced him to break the bro-code? On his own, literal brother?
I have no problem with you going out with the guys brother. I have a problem with the fact that all of the things you say are excuses for your infidelity are not good excuses at all.
tl;dr, you should have broken up with the first brother before you got with the second. From the limited information you have provided, you are partially responsible for the first brothers life falling apart.

I cheated on X because Y was better than him.
It really sucks though because now X is a f**king millionaire! Boy do I feel stupid!
(f**king women!)


rationalization

Do you think the blame is held equally by the cheater and the other man or woman?
Because I think the blame is almost entirely, like 95%, the cheaters.

Anyone who cheats is pretty f**king useless, as far as I'm concerned. Whether it be women with their "ooopsie doodles :3c" attitude or men with their "YEAH BRO. GET SUM" macho ego-stroking bullsh*t.


Do you think the blame is held equally by the cheater and the other man or woman?
Because I think the blame is almost entirely, like 95%, the cheaters.

I think it takes two to tango, I can't really say it's 50/50 but I wouldn't do something that I wouldn't want done to me. I wouldn't care if she was perfect, if she had a boyfriend I'd say NAY simply out of principle.

I'd cheat on my significant other if given a decent opening by a halfway decent chick. I'm also not the type of guy to actually go out of my way to do it; more of an opportunist.
Almost got the opportunity with the last bitch, but then I just ended up dumping her because I didn't need anymore crazy in my life. For me it's mainly about the sex; if I could get regular sex without crazy from my partner, I'd never cheat. The minute the sex drops off, my eyes start wandering and I up the porn consumption to compensate, which in turn feeds the monster.

I'd cheat on my significant other if given a decent opening by a halfway decent chick. I'm also not the type of guy to actually go out of my way to do it; more of an opportunist.
Almost got the opportunity with the last bitch, but then I just ended up dumping her because I didn't need anymore crazy in my life. For me it's mainly about the sex; if I could get regular sex without crazy from my partner, I'd never cheat. The minute the sex drops off, my eyes start wandering and I up the porn consumption to compensate, which in turn feeds the monster.

You should probably tell all your future prospective girlfriends that all you care about is sex


Women I have spoken to about this have told me that, apart from a few obvious sluts, it is very difficult to tell when and if a woman will cheat.
In my experience, women want the caveman and the gentleman. They want the jealous, tough guy who will punch the guy who hits on her and go home and f**k her to unconsciousness; AND; They want the caring, sensitive guy who doesn't care how much they hang out with their guy friends and who will make love to her until she cries. And they want both in one guy, and it changes at random. If you are a normal guy, you lean in one direction or the other, if you are really good with women you will know which guy to be more like at which time, and if you are unfortunate, you will give her the opposite of what she needs. When you give her the wrong guy, you will get cheated on. If she wants the caveman and you are a gentleman, she will sleep with the next caveman who makes an offer. If she wants a gentleman and you are a caveman, she will sleep with the gentleman who has, up to now, been friend-zoned.
For a guy, it is obvious to other men who is going to cheat at the first opportunity and who would stay loyal even if away for a year. I don't know how to describe it properly, you just get a feeling from the guy.

That absolutely did not answer my question. Also, no woman I've ever met has acted the way you described. A girl cheats for the same rush of excitement and novelty as a man, but just rationalizes it differently to her friends/boyfriend/self.
I'm female and asking what signs you can look for in a man that signal he is likely to cheat. "Just a feeling"? Seriously? You can't blame someone for picking a cheater because they should've "just had a feeling".


That absolutely did not answer my question. Also, no woman I've ever met has acted the way you described. A girl cheats for the same rush of excitement and novelty as a man, but just rationalizes it differently to her friends/boyfriend/self.
I'm female and asking what signs you can look for in a man that signal he is likely to cheat. "Just a feeling"? Seriously? You can't blame someone for picking a cheater because they should've "just had a feeling".

Depends on how he talks about cheaters, to his bros

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