What do you all think?
I really need some advice, this could be the end of a wonderful relationship before it even really starts.
listen to some Too $hort and smoke some weed
Depends on whether or not her annoyance is justified.
you're going to need to tell us what the rumors are if you want some specific advice
Well they're pretty serious. Some girl tried to cry rape because of me one stupid drunken night, and I obviously didn't do anything like that because I'm not in jail. My girlfriend knows it isn't true and she cares a lot for me, etc, but recently people found out that we've been seeing each other and now people are saying that she's dating a "creeper" and then bringing up the thing with the girl. It's really unfair considering this all happened back in like...November? Long story short, many people know the rumors are false and we know who's been talking about my gf but she can't stand up to them. I don't want her to break up with me because of this high school drama
I lived in a the 300 person dorm of a school that mostly focused on commuters. It was really close-knit and full of gossipy retards. I feel for you.
I lived in a the 300 person dorm of a school that mostly focused on commuters. It was really close-knit and full of gossipy retards. I feel for you.
That's how my school is. The year is almost over and when summer hits, I know things will get better because next year she'll be commuting and Ill be living off campus (we both live close to each other at home anyway) and people will just stop talking about it, but I just want us to last till the end without her just breaking up with me to save face. So what do I do? She doesn't even wanna hang out with me now cause people will say sh*t
Well they're pretty serious. Some girl tried to cry rape because of me one stupid drunken night, and I obviously didn't do anything like that because I'm not in jail. My girlfriend knows it isn't true and she cares a lot for me, etc, but recently people found out that we've been seeing each other and now people are saying that she's dating a "creeper" and then bringing up the thing with the girl. It's really unfair considering this all happened back in like...November? Long story short, many people know the rumors are false and we know who's been talking about my gf but she can't stand up to them. I don't want her to break up with me because of this high school dramaone stupid drunken night
See what I said about silly rites of passage?
one stupid drunken night
See what I said about silly rites of passage?
No one even likes the girl that tried to claim that, she didn't even know what happened until other people put it in her head that I tried to do something to her. We made out, that was it. That's besides the point--right now, I need to find a way to at least make my girlfriend feel better through all this sh*t
one mistake can really cost us.
if you got drunk and made a mistake, you might have to accept some consequences.
Look at it this way. No one is dead. Just stay true to yourself. If you made a mistake, you know... its ok.
Well they're pretty serious. Some girl tried to cry rape because of me one stupid drunken night, and I obviously didn't do anything like that because I'm not in jail. My girlfriend knows it isn't true and she cares a lot for me, etc, but recently people found out that we've been seeing each other and now people are saying that she's dating a "creeper" and then bringing up the thing with the girl. It's really unfair considering this all happened back in like...November? Long story short, many people know the rumors are false and we know who's been talking about my gf but she can't stand up to them. I don't want her to break up with me because of this high school drama
If was really rape she'd have reported it.
I bet the girl is beating other people over their heads with her "victim" status, too. Knew a girl like that, whenever you'd say anything she didn't like she'd be over at her Livejournal and Myspace crying about how you "triggered" her.
one mistake can really cost us.
if you got drunk and made a mistake, you might have to accept some consequences.
Look at it this way. No one is dead. Just stay true to yourself. If you made a mistake, you know... its ok.
I already suffered the consequences last semester, and this semester things were supposed to start fresh and they got a lot better up until now. I don't think its fair that this crap is going to ruin one of the best relationships I've had so far. I just dont know what to do anymore. I could easily just tell her to break up with me if she wants to save face, but I doubt that'd make things better at all. I just want things to work out...I'm beginning to think I love her, it sucks.
Thanks for the advice guys, but I just wanna know what I can do right NOW. We both know I'm innocent but I just need a way to stop the rumors about HER. I don't care if people talk sh*t about me, I just don't want her involved in that crap. I don't want her to be scared to be with me
I commute, I see none of this, feel sorry for you anon. I would probably just find out who is talking, track them down, and give them a solid f**king talking to.
I commute, I see none of this, feel sorry for you anon. I would probably just find out who is talking, track them down, and give them a solid f**king talking to.
We know who is talking about her. But, I can't stand up for her because I'm a dude and she's a chick and I'd just look like a douche trying to talk about her. She'd just play dumb and things would get worse. My gf can't do it cause then it'd just confirm the rumors and probably make them worse.
I already suffered the consequences last semester, and this semester things were supposed to start fresh and they got a lot better up until now. I don't think its fair that this crap is going to ruin one of the best relationships I've had so far. I just dont know what to do anymore. I could easily just tell her to break up with me if she wants to save face, but I doubt that'd make things better at all. I just want things to work out...I'm beginning to think I love her, it sucks.
>one of the best relationships I've had
if this is causing so much friction she can't be around you, then it's not a good relationship at all.
>one of the best relationships I've had
if this is causing so much friction she can't be around you, then it's not a good relationship at all.
I know, you're right...
>>I could easily just tell her to break up with me if she wants to save face, but I doubt that'd make things better at all
you might want to consider this. the girl may be great in every other respect but if she doesn't have your back then she ain't worth it. you'll want to do this nicely and even then it might blowup in your face but...try asking her why when people start calling you sh*t, she doesn't stand up for you. if someone started calling my man a rapist and a creeper I'd tell them to prove it or shut the f**k up.
I commute, I see none of this, feel sorry for you anon. I would probably just find out who is talking, track them down, and give them a solid f**king talking to.
And by solid f**king talking to, he means go beat their ass with a baseball bat.
>>I could easily just tell her to break up with me if she wants to save face, but I doubt that'd make things better at all
you might want to consider this. the girl may be great in every other respect but if she doesn't have your back then she ain't worth it. you'll want to do this nicely and even then it might blowup in your face but...try asking her why when people start calling you sh*t, she doesn't stand up for you. if someone started calling my man a rapist and a creeper I'd tell them to prove it or shut the f**k up.
I'll try this. We have only been dating for a week or two now. I don't expect her to like sacrifice herself like that for me, but we definitely like each other enough to know that it'd work out if we could just put this drama sh*t behind us. I don't know what to do anymore, I don't wanna lose her but it's like she's just slipping away now.
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