Friday, September 3, 2010

How are you sabotaging your relationships?

Hey anonymous, how do you sabotage your own relationships?
Hardmode: Sabotaging them before they even start.




Why would you even do that??
...women.. ahh right

Being unaccustomed to being treated nicely, I pick fights and act like a bitch to get him to treat me like crap. Comfort zone I guess.

Hardmode answer; I wear a mask.
Repel them before they have a chance to befriend me. If a person digs further than they're supposed to, its like a cat accident. They cant walk away, and stop staring.

Easymode; Act like a total web dumbsh*t.

Being unaccustomed to being treated nicely, I pick fights and act like a bitch to get him to treat me like crap. Comfort zone I guess.

Well played troll or a stereotypical woman.

Hardmode answer: I assume anyone showing any interest in me is just being a sarcastic bitch.

Hardmode answer: I assume anyone showing any interest in me is just being a sarcastic bitch.

Don't worry, they are, they do the same thing to me.

Pssh, simple. Do what I've been doing:
(in any particular order)
- Isolate self from friends
- Quit job for no reason
- Spend all your spare time on the internet until you become a mindless, boring f**k.
Without any means to entertain her, she will eventually grow tired of you. I wasn't like this until recently. Deep down, I desperately want to be the opposite, but God help me, I can't stop. I don't know why she hasn't decided to suddenly f**king everything, get drunk at a party, and go screw some random guy. I love her dearly.
Sh*t, I need help. ;__;

lie about something BIG.

How my ex did it:
>Thursday night, I get up the courage to tell a guy who's way out of my league that I like him.
>He tells me he likes me too.
>Spend the majority of the time at the party we're at holding hands, kissing, etc.
>He walks me home.
>Almost-kind-of sleep together.
>The almost-kind-of-sleeping-together continues until Sunday night.
>Blissfully good week.
>Yesterday, in the park, he breaks up with me because he's leaving for the west coast in two weeks.
>Both of us cry on each other's shoulders.
>Still break up.
>Feels like I just got trolled, man.

>Hardmode: Sabotaging them before they even start.
Take advice from web

Sometimes people do this subconsciously because they can't believe that someone would genuinely love them and want them after previously being so hurt and abused.

> Went to university at the other end of the country
> Lost contact with most/all friends from highschool
> No friends locally
> No job
> Live with parents
And to f**k up any budding relationship with a girl:
> told her I liked her before a date (I'd known her for a long time)

Pssh, simple. Do what I've been doing:
(in any particular order)
- Isolate self from friends
- Quit job for no reason
- Spend all your spare time on the internet until you become a mindless, boring f**k.
Without any means to entertain her, she will eventually grow tired of you. I wasn't like this until recently. Deep down, I desperately want to be the opposite, but God help me, I can't stop. I don't know why she hasn't decided to suddenly f**king everything, get drunk at a party, and go screw some random guy. I love her dearly.
Sh*t, I need help. ;__;

i know who this is. it is my boyfirend.

> Went to university at the other end of the country
> Lost contact with most/all friends from highschool
> No friends locally
> No job
> Live with parents
And to f**k up any budding relationship with a girl:
> told her I liked her before a date (I'd known her for a long time)

Oh and I forgot:
> Dont even try to get a girl because of being fat
> Expecting no one wants that fat blob
> Lost 100lbs over the last year but not good enough.
Barnes n Noble (sp?) is lucky enough to have someone and I'm nowhere near as awkward but I havent got to the get a chance phase.
Sucks.

Hang out with your ex more than your gf/bf and get pissy when they get concerned when you don't even spend christmas together but you'll spend all night drunk at your ex's.
(She did this to me ;_;)

i tend to pretend everything's alright even though im seething with anger at things he does that annoy me. then when i blow up, he's all wtf? and i feel justified. it works.

by not going to check up on my girlfriend after she had an abortion. i make her come to me like six weeks later. she has even lower self esteem than i do

Sometimes people do this subconsciously because they can't believe that someone would genuinely love them and want them after previously being so hurt and abused.

i suffer this and its a bitch. i get so arrogant sometimes when i truly just want to shoot the sh*t.

Convince myself that she'll be happier without me.
>Hardmode: Sabotaging them before they even start.
wait...I am doing this?

I stay in my room and never interact with anyone.

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