Would you date someone with some sort of a physical handicap?
I'm legally blind and have had short and long term relationships. I can function almost completely normally except in the dark. Also I will never be able to drive.
Would the average women still go for someone like me? Would you go for someone completely blind? Or missing a limb? Or disfigured?
And side note: I'm not personally asking about myself. I just wanna know the general consensus of where you draw the line.
They won't. But they'll invent some BS reason rather than admit why.
Given that all disabilities affect people in unique ways, it's sort of impossible to say what the average woman would be cool with.
If you're self-sufficient that's a plus.
Personally, I think those fit guys in wheelchairs that don't need ramps are sexy.
I have no idea. I had a massive crush on a paraplegic guy once. So wheelchair, sure. Blind, probably. Missing limbs, maybe not... I'm superficial that way.
Given that all disabilities affect people in unique ways, it's sort of impossible to say what the average woman would be cool with.
If you're self-sufficient that's a plus.
Personally, I think those fit guys in wheelchairs that don't need ramps are sexy.
I agree with you there.
I'm good looking, a licensed pharmacy tech, live on my own, and am attending college. Except for the annoyance of always having to be the driver and the occasional "Oh god can't see plz help" moment I would consider myself pretty up there.
Hi OP. female here.
You know, as strange as it sounds, I haven't put much thought to this before. As much as it's great to say that I should love someone regardless of their handicaps, physical appearance, etc., on thinking about it, I have to say that this probably isn't the reality.
That isn't to say I wouldn't date someone who is blind, because I absolutely would. Dating someone who is deaf would be much harder, as I don't know ASL. As for other physical disabilities... I don't know. I think I'd probably have to draw the line if I was dating someone and they weren't at least 75% functioning on their own (ie. could bathe themselves, dress themselves, hold a job and the like). I'm not really a caregiver, so someone I had to nurture like a child would probably drive me around the bend. I don't mind lending a hand here and there, but I'm pretty independent so I need my partner to be that way, too.
Anyway, just my two cents.
I have no idea. I had a massive crush on a paraplegic guy once. So wheelchair, sure. Blind, probably. Missing limbs, maybe not... I'm superficial that way.
what made it remain a crush?
I agree with you there.
I'm good looking, a licensed pharmacy tech, live on my own, and am attending college. Except for the annoyance of always having to be the driver and the occasional "Oh god can't see plz help" moment I would consider myself pretty up there.
Only very shallow people would see a major problem with that.
Too bad so many people are really shallow. But it doesn't sound like you have too hard of a time skimming around them.
I could deal with legally blind(not completely blind). That's probably about it. I wouldn't date a deaf person,missing limbs, wheelchair etc. Call me shallow, but you probably wouldn't date a girl who is like that.
Hey. The guy I have a crush on is missing a leg. Personally, I think it only makes him look hotter. He lost it from cancer.
Physical handicaps do not matter if the guy is hot and sweet. Also, the fact that this guy has this makes me more attracted because he has touched me more than any other man. I knew my ex-bf since we were kids and he didn't even touch me inside as much as this man has in the short time we have known each other. ;)
Hi OP. female here.
You know, as strange as it sounds, I haven't put much thought to this before. As much as it's great to say that I should love someone regardless of their handicaps, physical appearance, etc., on thinking about it, I have to say that this probably isn't the reality.
That isn't to say I wouldn't date someone who is blind, because I absolutely would. Dating someone who is deaf would be much harder, as I don't know ASL. As for other physical disabilities... I don't know. I think I'd probably have to draw the line if I was dating someone and they weren't at least 75% functioning on their own (ie. could bathe themselves, dress themselves, hold a job and the like). I'm not really a caregiver, so someone I had to nurture like a child would probably drive me around the bend. I don't mind lending a hand here and there, but I'm pretty independent so I need my partner to be that way, too.
Anyway, just my two cents.
This.
It would be tough to say for sure unless you were in the situation, but as long as they can wipe themselves why not?
Hey guys. What are yall talkin about?
what made it remain a crush?
He was 25 (delayed college for a few years) and I was 18. I hung out with him and flirted with him a lot, but he never seemed to notice me. I think he prefered hanging out with women closer to his own age. Then he graduated.
He was 25 (delayed college for a few years) and I was 18. I hung out with him and flirted with him a lot, but he never seemed to notice me. I think he prefered hanging out with women closer to his own age. Then he graduated.
I guess a relationship between you two....didn't stand a chance.
Alison Cameron syndrome?
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Alison Cameron syndrome?
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Another good question.
Would you date someone you know is going to die in a very short time?
Another good question.
Would you date someone you know is going to die in a very short time?
Again, this is highly personal and would vary among women, but I would not. I couldn't willingly put myself through something like that.
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Another good question.
Would you date someone you know is going to die in a very short time?
They probably would if they were a cool assassin
Alison Cameron syndrome?
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I guess a relationship between you two....didn't stand a chance.
I have to say, that was a pretty...lame pun
I have to say, that was a pretty...lame pun
anon you make the stupidest puns and I love them :3
Hey. The guy I have a crush on is missing a leg. Personally, I think it only makes him look hotter. He lost it from cancer.
Physical handicaps do not matter if the guy is hot and sweet. Also, the fact that this guy has this makes me more attracted because he has touched me more than any other man. I knew my ex-bf since we were kids and he didn't even touch me inside as much as this man has in the short time we have known each other. ;)
There you have it anons.
Our f**ked up noses and sh*t are worse than only having one leg. We'll all die as virgins.
female here.
If the dude was rad, and kind, I don't see why not. You can tell me I'm being dishonest all you want, but that sh*t doesn't really matter to me.
female here
I like money. If he's a cripple he can't stop me from spending it either :D
This is relevant to my life, as I am a dude missing my entire leg up to the hip. I use a prosthetic leg or crutches, am in excellent physical shape, decently good looking, and am entirely self sufficient, and am very active in my life.
females, would the leg issue really get in the way of us being together? What about other girls you know? What is the consensus on missing legs?
Sure OP, just dont tell girls about your legal blindness at first.
Then later casually mention it.
It'd likey sound preety cool too, dont mention it straight away, that'd be stupid.
I'm legally blind too. I function well in the dark and I can drive. it is no hindrance to my life.
gotta be specific bro
I could deal with legally blind(not completely blind). That's probably about it. I wouldn't date a deaf person,missing limbs, wheelchair etc. Call me shallow, but you probably wouldn't date a girl who is like that.
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KSf** here. You'd think that, wouldn't you?
But those kind of girls don't exist in the real world. Only in your fantasies.
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Question for the womenz:
Would you date someone with some sort of a physical handicap?
I'm legally blind and have had short and long term relationships. I can function almost completely normally except in the dark. Also I will never be able to drive.
Would the average women still go for someone like me? Would you go for someone completely blind? Or missing a limb? Or disfigured?
And side note: I'm not personally asking about myself. I just wanna know the general consensus of where you draw the line.
how can you write on anonymous without mistakes? do you see enough?
This is relevant to my life, as I am a dude missing my entire leg up to the hip. I use a prosthetic leg or crutches, am in excellent physical shape, decently good looking, and am entirely self sufficient, and am very active in my life.
females, would the leg issue really get in the way of us being together? What about other girls you know? What is the consensus on missing legs?
For me, the leg issue wouldn't be a deal breaker. If you're an all around good-natured, attractive guy, I don't think many women would let your disability get in the way of a solid relationship.
females, would you love Quazzimodo?
female who is a compensation specialist. I've never personally seen marriages in which a partner has a pre-existing condition get f**ked up, but I've always seen someone who used to be functional then go on to receive handicaps get f**ked up. It's not because the other partner (be it male or female) is being superficial, it's almost always because the person who has the handicap is too fixated on it to give any proper respect or regard for their life partner.
If from the beginning I was aware of whatever the person's issues were, I'd be fine with it unless the defect is hereditary and there's a chance my kids might get it. However, I myself can't say for sure I could stay in a relationship that turns to hell because of the bitterness a person can have for their perceived handicap.
females, would you love Quazzimodo?
Quasimodo was a f**ked up retard who had a madonna/wh**re syndrome going on, and confused his kindness and ability with the kindness and ability of the church.
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