>she has a BF, but they aren't working out
>we hit it off, they break up
>she tells me not to fall for her because it won't work because of a secret she's keeping
>wreck my mind about what it is, but still fall for her and her for me
>finally reveals to me she has herpes and she got it a week before we fell for each other
>realize this is the second time this has happened to me
pic somewhat related, makes me think of her
you should of listened to her
you should of listened to her
this.
Also what are the chances of you falling for two girls both with herpes? OP is cursed, perhaps the next girl you fall for will have HIV
HS>?
you should of listened to her
It wasn't fair, she'd text/call me 24/7 and always ask me to hang out. I was hoping it was some BS "I'm not ready for a relationship just yet" type of thing.
this.
Also what are the chances of you falling for two girls both with herpes? OP is cursed, perhaps the next girl you fall for will have HIV
Both of the girls found out they have it just before we got into a relationship. At least I feel like I've dodged two bullets.
It wasn't fair, she'd text/call me 24/7 and always ask me to hang out. I was hoping it was some BS "I'm not ready for a relationship just yet" type of thing.
should of listened to her
It wasn't fair, she'd text/call me 24/7 and always ask me to hang out. I was hoping it was some BS "I'm not ready for a relationship just yet" type of thing.
well at least she can still give you a tit job, and you can finger her right?
Well she can treat the herpes whenever it comes up, or you could still be with the girl you have fallen for and just use a condom, douchebag.
well at least she can still give you a tit job, and you can finger her right?
Or I figured I could not be some fail beta that gets the leftovers some alpha infected imo. I dunno if I would finger her because I imagine it like fingering some puss filled crevice.
Well she can treat the herpes whenever it comes up, or you could still be with the girl you have fallen for and just use a condom, douchebag.
I read that condoms don't really help and I can still get it. I'm not about to get herpes for some fling. :| I talked to my friends, (of course not telling them who it was and such) and they told me this was the more mature option.
you should of listened to her
>implying 9/10 girls aren't retarded about "DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH ME, FOR I HAVE SECRETTSSSS"
wow, she really should have said something before it got this far.
something more than "i have a secret derp derp" because like another anon already said, every f**king girl says that, and it's almost always some stupid petty bullsh*t.
wow, she really should have said something before it got this far.
something more than "i have a secret derp derp" because like another anon already said, every f**king girl says that, and it's almost always some stupid petty bullsh*t.
I'm the only person she's told so far... You can see why I'd hold out hope though, right?
If you havin' herpes problems I feel bad for you, son
If you havin' herpes problems I feel bad for you, son
herpes is a pretty big wrench in the gears dude
herpes is a pretty big wrench in the gears dude
Hah, pun.
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herpes is a pretty big wrench in the gears dude
maybe if your a pu**y
My girlfriend has herpes, I don't.
Though her's is the kind that can't be transfered unless she has a coldsore (which is almost never)
It doesn't mean you can't date her, it just means value yourself (and your lack of herpes) or making out with her when it's active.
I read that condoms don't really help and I can still get it. I'm not about to get herpes for some fling. :| I talked to my friends, (of course not telling them who it was and such) and they told me this was the more mature option.
Or I figured I could not be some fail beta that gets the leftovers some alpha infected imo. I dunno if I would finger her because I imagine it like fingering some puss filled crevice.
well at least she can still give you a tit job, and you can finger her right?
follow up. I did some research (wikipedia-ed). Yeah... you can get it from just TOUCHING her even. Have her as an internet friend isn't so bad...
maybe if your a pu**y
you're a dumb f**k
that means you can't have kids with her
which i'm sure alot of people perfer in their long-term relationships
>> implying someone in the internet gives a sh*t a sh*t, other than feel jealous of a girl falling for OP.
I read that condoms don't really help and I can still get it. I'm not about to get herpes for some fling. :| I talked to my friends, (of course not telling them who it was and such) and they told me this was the more mature option.
If you're not serious about being in a relationship with her, then I can understand why you don't want to take the risk. If you're serious about her, then it would be worth working around.
Though of all the STIs to get, Herpes is a pretty bad one. Bitch should have been more careful who she f**ked before.
My girlfriend has herpes, I don't.
Though her's is the kind that can't be transfered unless she has a coldsore (which is almost never)
It doesn't mean you can't date her, it just means value yourself (and your lack of herpes) or making out with her when it's active.
This girl has genital herpes though. Not the cold sore kind. :/
I'm in your woman's situation OP. I was on birth control while dating the only man I've ever had sex with. He cheated on me with a one time fling and didn't use protection. Now I have HPV. Even though I've been treated by a doctor who says there is only a 10% chance I'll ever spread it to another partner, I've resigned myself never to date again because I'm a disgusting wh**re now. I hate my life.
speaking of HPV, I heard there was a vaccine or something they have for guys now?
sounds like a good idea to me considering f**king almost everyone has HPV these days.
speaking of HPV, I heard there was a vaccine or something they have for guys now?
sounds like a good idea to me considering f**king almost everyone has HPV these days.
The funny thing is, I asked my doctor about the vaccine some months before I started dating the guy who ended up cheating and infecting me, and he said, "oh don't worry about it, I know you aren't a wh**re, so you are at low risk for catching HPV." I asked about getting vaccinated after he treated me for my current infection to prevent me from catching another strain, and you know what he told me? "Oh don't worry about it, I know you aren't a wh**re, so you are at low risk for catching HPV." I insisted he vaccinate me or else I'd switch doctors. I'm starting the vaccinations next month.
speaking of HPV, I heard there was a vaccine or something they have for guys now?
sounds like a good idea to me considering f**king almost everyone has HPV these days.
I don't :(
But I still can't get the vaccine for it because they introduced that sh*t the year after I turned 19. They said they're only giving it to under 18s. Coz no-one has sex after 18, amirite.
NEWS FLASH: In a systematic study, over 25% of women tested positive for HPV. HPV can be cleared by your immune system, and it has been estimated that the vast majority of sexually active people in the US have been exposed.
I don't :(
But I still can't get the vaccine for it because they introduced that sh*t the year after I turned 19. They said they're only giving it to under 18s. Coz no-one has sex after 18, amirite.
My insurance covers it for anyone under 26. Well, that is for females, anyway.
I'm in your woman's situation OP. I was on birth control while dating the only man I've ever had sex with. He cheated on me with a one time fling and didn't use protection. Now I have HPV. Even though I've been treated by a doctor who says there is only a 10% chance I'll ever spread it to another partner, I've resigned myself never to date again because I'm a disgusting wh**re now. I hate my life.
OP here, I think she feels the same. She has mentioned time and time again that she doesn't want to give it to me and such, but at the same time I feel like she's expecting me to say, "I don't care, I love you anyway." I don't see this happening considering I'm 19 and am not about to risk getting a disease which I will have to tell future partners about and be in the same boat as you guys now. I have a hard enough time with girls as it is...
NEWS FLASH: In a systematic study, over 25% of women tested positive for HPV. HPV can be cleared by your immune system, and it has been estimated that the vast majority of sexually active people in the US have been exposed.
Still doesn't change the fact that it causes unsightly blemishes that no one will f**k you if you have and can cause cancer.
This girl has genital herpes though. Not the cold sore kind. :/
oh. ouch. Condoms always, I suppose.
if you even want to risk it, the chances of her being your wife one day are slim. Save yourself from f**king up your future relationships, don't f**k her OP
OP here, I think she feels the same. She has mentioned time and time again that she doesn't want to give it to me and such, but at the same time I feel like she's expecting me to say, "I don't care, I love you anyway." I don't see this happening considering I'm 19 and am not about to risk getting a disease which I will have to tell future partners about and be in the same boat as you guys now. I have a hard enough time with girls as it is...
yeah definitely do not get into a sexual relationship with this girl, it would be absolutely f**king retarded to do that at 19 years old.
tell her you want to stay friends, and in the future if she tries to make any moves put your goddamn foot down and tell her it's not going to happen.
My insurance covers it for anyone under 26. Well, that is for females, anyway.
I'm in the UK, here they only give it free to 18s and under, which is ridiculous. Don't know if it's something I could get done privately.
Oh god that picture made me dawww way too much
oh. ouch. Condoms always, I suppose.
if you even want to risk it, the chances of her being your wife one day are slim. Save yourself from f**king up your future relationships, don't f**k her OP
Sounds like a plan. It's what all my friends have been telling me. I can't abandon her though and it will be painful, at least for a while being her friend...
OP here, I think she feels the same. She has mentioned time and time again that she doesn't want to give it to me and such, but at the same time I feel like she's expecting me to say, "I don't care, I love you anyway." I don't see this happening considering I'm 19 and am not about to risk getting a disease which I will have to tell future partners about and be in the same boat as you guys now. I have a hard enough time with girls as it is...
I was in no way telling you to be with her, OP. I was saying it is totally reasonable for no one to want to be with girls like us anymore. If the girl my ex slept with had bothered to tell him she had HPV before they f**ked (she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked), I doubt he would have done it and I wouldn't be in the position I am now (What do you know? The first time we were together after he cheated, he told me he had slept with a the girl who had HPV).
I'm in your woman's situation OP. I was on birth control while dating the only man I've ever had sex with. He cheated on me with a one time fling and didn't use protection. Now I have HPV. Even though I've been treated by a doctor who says there is only a 10% chance I'll ever spread it to another partner, I've resigned myself never to date again because I'm a disgusting wh**re now. I hate my life.
I was in no way telling you to be with her, OP. I was saying it is totally reasonable for no one to want to be with girls like us anymore. If the girl my ex slept with had bothered to tell him she had HPV before they f**ked (she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked), I doubt he would have done it and I wouldn't be in the position I am now (What do you know? The first time we were together after he cheated, he told me he had slept with a the girl who had HPV).
Do you really think you are a disgusting wh**re now? Sh*t wasn't your fault.
I was in no way telling you to be with her, OP. I was saying it is totally reasonable for no one to want to be with girls like us anymore. If the girl my ex slept with had bothered to tell him she had HPV before they f**ked (she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked), I doubt he would have done it and I wouldn't be in the position I am now (What do you know? The first time we were together after he cheated, he told me he had slept with a the girl who had HPV).
Forgot to mention, the first time we were together after he cheated was the only time we together after he cheated. When he told me about the HPV immediately after we finished sexing, I told him to get the f**k out of my house. It was still too late though...
Forgot to mention, the first time we were together after he cheated was the only time we together after he cheated. When he told me about the HPV immediately after we finished sexing, I told him to get the f**k out of my house. It was still too late though...
What the f**k kind of a c**t doesn't tell someone beforehand. Good on you for your response.
Still doesn't change the fact that it causes unsightly blemishes that no one will f**k you if you have and can cause cancer.
NEWS FLASH: Approximately 0.5% of women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer sometime in their lifetimes. 70% of these will be associated with HPV. The rate of cervical cancer diagnoses is decreasing due to improved monitoring.
NEWS FLASH: Strains of HPV that cause cancer are also the most easily clearable.
NEWS FLASH: Approximately 70% of people with HPV never have an outbreak. Most people that have outbreaks have less than two in their lifetime.
Forgot to mention, the first time we were together after he cheated was the only time we together after he cheated. When he told me about the HPV immediately after we finished sexing, I told him to get the f**k out of my house. It was still too late though...
OP here, good reaction! Isn't it illegal to do sh*t like that btw? I think I heard something about that.
You should laugh in triumph and victory.
OP here, good reaction! Isn't it illegal to do sh*t like that btw? I think I heard something about that.
I think that was in relation to people who infect people with HIV intentionally only.
Do you really think you are a disgusting wh**re now? Sh*t wasn't your fault.
I know no one will ever believe that I've only been with one person in my entire life and that I was cheated on. It is commonly believed by guys that if a girl has an STD, it is obviously her fault and that she's been with tons of guys. Not only was the ex that gave me this the only person I've ever been with, but we only had actual penetrating sex fewer than ten times in the five months that we were dating.
I was in no way telling you to be with her, OP. I was saying it is totally reasonable for no one to want to be with girls like us anymore. If the girl my ex slept with had bothered to tell him she had HPV before they f**ked (she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked), I doubt he would have done it and I wouldn't be in the position I am now (What do you know? The first time we were together after he cheated, he told me he had slept with a the girl who had HPV).
>she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked
Wow. If a girl told me right AFTER sex that she had HPV or herpes or something, I'd bash her f**king skull in and bury her in the woods. What a c**t move.
Consider, OP, that there are STD dating sites now. For serious. I'm sure you can find a dude out there also with HPV to have a relationship with.
What the f**k kind of a c**t doesn't tell someone beforehand. Good on you for your response.
OP here, good reaction! Isn't it illegal to do sh*t like that btw? I think I heard something about that.
The depressing thing is, to this day, he still has no signs of infection. Chance are, he'll go around spreading it to other girls as it would be nearly impossible to trace it to him.
I know no one will ever believe that I've only been with one person in my entire life and that I was cheated on. It is commonly believed by guys that if a girl has an STD, it is obviously her fault and that she's been with tons of guys. Not only was the ex that gave me this the only person I've ever been with, but we only had actual penetrating sex fewer than ten times in the five months that we were dating.
See, you and her are different. When we started really talking she told me she was a sex addict, so naturally I though "F**k yeah." She later told me, and yes it is cliche as hell, but she was molested when she was little. She told me this the same day she told me she has herpes. It was weird because, she short, thin, and really innocent looking. Feels bad getting to know people man.
I know no one will ever believe that I've only been with one person in my entire life and that I was cheated on. It is commonly believed by guys that if a girl has an STD, it is obviously her fault and that she's been with tons of guys. Not only was the ex that gave me this the only person I've ever been with, but we only had actual penetrating sex fewer than ten times in the five months that we were dating.
It's a tough situation to be in :/ People have too many misconceptions about girls and guys who have sex..
I told a doctor once I didn't use condoms when I had sex (was with one guy, I'd only ever been with him, he'd only ever been with one other girl who both lost their virginities to each other. Figured that was a pretty closed enough circle) at which point, after I told her I had pain during sex, she said my problem was that I was "just having sex with someone I wasn't too keen on. When I found the right guy it'd be okay." This was my boyfriend of a year. I was not impressed.
you should of listened to her
>should of
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>should of
you should of listened to her
should of listened to her
*have
should HAVE listened to her.
Stop being retarded, fa**ots.
>she ended up telling him immediately after they f**ked
Wow. If a girl told me right AFTER sex that she had HPV or herpes or something, I'd bash her f**king skull in and bury her in the woods. What a c**t move.
Consider, OP, that there are STD dating sites now. For serious. I'm sure you can find a dude out there also with HPV to have a relationship with.
Well, the girl he cheated with ended up rejecting him because he was "too skinny and not manly enough." But, he was good enough for her to f**k? I'm guess the girl had to be batsh*t insane, which cause me to go out and get tested for any and everything under the sun. I guess I got luck getting away with just HPV.
>I'm sure you can find a dude out there also with HPV to have a relationship with.
NEWS FLASH: Some studies indicate that approximately 90% of sexually active people in the United States have been exposed to HPV.
NEWS FLASH: 90% of HPV infections are cleared in two years or less.
should of listened to her
you should of listened to her
moron
>you should of listened to her
SHOULD'VE OR SHOULD HAVE, YOU IDIOTS!
I know no one will ever believe that I've only been with one person in my entire life and that I was cheated on. It is commonly believed by guys that if a girl has an STD, it is obviously her fault and that she's been with tons of guys. Not only was the ex that gave me this the only person I've ever been with, but we only had actual penetrating sex fewer than ten times in the five months that we were dating.
That sucks. Really, I can't say anything apart from that because that REALLY sucks.
It's a tough situation to be in :/ People have too many misconceptions about girls and guys who have sex..
I told a doctor once I didn't use condoms when I had sex (was with one guy, I'd only ever been with him, he'd only ever been with one other girl who both lost their virginities to each other. Figured that was a pretty closed enough circle) at which point, after I told her I had pain during sex, she said my problem was that I was "just having sex with someone I wasn't too keen on. When I found the right guy it'd be okay." This was my boyfriend of a year. I was not impressed.
Yeah, my ex had only been with one girl before me and they were both virgins, and that had ended three years before we were together. There is no accounting for cheating though.
Yeah, my ex had only been with one girl before me and they were both virgins, and that had ended three years before we were together. There is no accounting for cheating though.
I realise everyone says this, but he wouldn't have cheatd on me. He found it hard enough to get a girlfriend that he didn't f**k up the relationships that did happen by sleeping around.
>I'm sure you can find a dude out there also with HPV to have a relationship with.
NEWS FLASH: Some studies indicate that approximately 90% of sexually active people in the United States have been exposed to HPV.
NEWS FLASH: 90% of HPV infections are cleared in two years or less.
I have a friend who caught it from a guy who had been treated 10 years earlier and hadn't shown signs since his treatment. That sh*t can stick, don't let the statistics fool you.
90 % of people in the world have herpes and/or some HPVs. However, some of them are unaware of it as they have no symptoms. There are also a lot of people who are aware but don't give a sh*t and try to contaminate as much people as they can.
If you don't want to get herpes and HPV, you'll have to find a virgin woman. And since there are none, you either stay alone for life like me or accept a wh**re with all her diseases and pray that you won't get cold sores and genital warts.
Use a condom if you really wanna have sex but just wait till she gets treated.
I'm in your woman's situation OP. I was on birth control while dating the only man I've ever had sex with. He cheated on me with a one time fling and didn't use protection. Now I have HPV. Even though I've been treated by a doctor who says there is only a 10% chance I'll ever spread it to another partner, I've resigned myself never to date again because I'm a disgusting wh**re now. I hate my life.
This makes me sad. I hate people.
I either don't have HPV or at least I don't develop any symptoms. I'm fine with both options tbh.
OP here, thanks to all for reaffirming that I should in fact keep away. Wanted some opinions on this and you guys delivered.
>I'm sure you can find a dude out there also with HPV to have a relationship with.
NEWS FLASH: Some studies indicate that approximately 90% of sexually active people in the United States have been exposed to HPV.
NEWS FLASH: 90% of HPV infections are cleared in two years or less.
In this post: HPV infectee.
Only ~50% of people get HPV at some point in their lives (If it isn't you it's your girlfriend amirite), and that sh*t is permanent. It might never show symptoms, or it might show symptoms once and be suppressed by your immune system for months or years, but that sh*t is with you forever.
50% of the population has herpes.
What she means is "I am showing visible signs of herpes".
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