How do I know if she likes rough sex?

females,
How do we get to know if you like it rough? Any hints that you drop us that we perhaps don't notice? I'm into choking, biting, hair pulling, scratching and I don't know how to tell, early in a relationship, if a girl is into this sort of things. Help me please.

why don't you just ask

Hmm.. female here who likes it rough, but I'm not sure how you would tell.
I guess what I did to cue my boyfriend into knowing that I wanted him to get rough with me were things like scratching him, biting him, encouraging him to go "faster, harder, deeper" and begging him to smack me and stuff like that. When turned on, it's surprisingly less awkward to communicate what you want.
But outside of sex, I'm not sure. I'm really quiet normally, I don't think anyone would be able to tell that I like it rough unless they were, you know, f**king me.

Start gently doing those things. Scratch, but don't like... draw blood. Bite, but don't leave marks. Hold her hair, but don't PULL it. Notice if she moans/moves sexily/otherwise indicates that she likes it.
I would save choking for last.

why don't you just ask

Because by the time I do that, I'm a month into a relationship. If I try to ask before, I just get weird looks and sh*t.

Everyone is different.

I know that but I'm not going to settle for boring sex.

Everyone is different.

Lol. I love the web mentality that women are like a game with a standard rule set where you can use certain strategies to unlock stuff like boyfriend status or rough sex.

Hmm.. female here who likes it rough, but I'm not sure how you would tell.
I guess what I did to cue my boyfriend into knowing that I wanted him to get rough with me were things like scratching him, biting him, encouraging him to go "faster, harder, deeper" and begging him to smack me and stuff like that. When turned on, it's surprisingly less awkward to communicate what you want.
But outside of sex, I'm not sure. I'm really quiet normally, I don't think anyone would be able to tell that I like it rough unless they were, you know, f**king me.

So pretty much I have to get at least a little intimate with the girl before I can know... Damn that sucks.

Just give it to them rough the first time. If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you afterwords.

Lol. I love the web mentality that women are like a game with a standard rule set where you can use certain strategies to unlock stuff like boyfriend status or rough sex.

I know it's not like that just asking for anything that might signal a preference for rough sex.

I love it rough.
I give my lover signals that I want it rough by biting his neck, scratching down his back.. Begging for him to choke me mid-f**k, to rape me; violate me, etc.

I love it rough.
I give my lover signals that I want it rough by biting his neck, scratching down his back.. Begging for him to choke me mid-f**k, to rape me; violate me, etc.

like nine inch nails while sexing?

So basically if I want to find out as quickly as possible, I'd have to get the girl into bed as quickly as possible?

So basically if I want to find out as quickly as possible, I'd have to get the girl into bed as quickly as possible?

very least yeh

very least yeh

Meh, fair enough. Makes sense.

Hmm, I guess if you don't want to be intimate first...
The only way to do it is bring it up. Don't ask her if she likes it, that might feel too personal, maybe. Keep it focused on you and what you like and try not to make it sound like a big deal.
Alternatively, try to do some of that when you're just making out. Holding onto her neck firmly, biting her lip, grabbing her hair.

like nine inch nails while sexing?

No, lmao. Never used music in our sessions.. May try it one day.

No, lmao. Never used music in our sessions.. May try it one day.

I so wanna sex /w Tool

No, lmao. Never used music in our sessions.. May try it one day.

F**k, lol'd. Nine inch nails would be a huge turn off.

we'll let you know

Hmm.. female here who likes it rough, but I'm not sure how you would tell.
I guess what I did to cue my boyfriend into knowing that I wanted him to get rough with me were things like scratching him, biting him, encouraging him to go "faster, harder, deeper" and begging him to smack me and stuff like that. When turned on, it's surprisingly less awkward to communicate what you want.
But outside of sex, I'm not sure. I'm really quiet normally, I don't think anyone would be able to tell that I like it rough unless they were, you know, f**king me.

>I guess what I did to cue my boyfriend into knowing that I wanted him to get rough with me were things like scratching him, biting him, encouraging him to go "faster, harder, deeper" and begging him to smack me and stuff like that. When turned on, it's surprisingly less awkward to communicate what you want.
This.
Easiest way I knew a girl wanted to be spanked and pinned down was when she screamed midf**k to be spanked and held down.
You want info, start f**king and roll with it.

F**k, lol'd. Nine inch nails would be a huge turn off.

sigur ros?

F**k, lol'd. Nine inch nails would be a huge turn off.

Yeah I know.. He may want to use Tool or somesh*t.

Yeah I know.. He may want to use Tool or somesh*t.

Nah, if he does that she'll break out a strap on and ass f**k him. That's the nature of Tool.

Nah, if he does that she'll break out a strap on and ass f**k him. That's the nature of Tool.

I'd rather it be Tool than ICP.

Alright. So just get girl in bed. Start doing sh*t. If she's not into it, move on? Sounds straight forward, I like it.

I am terribly afraid that I will hurt a woman if I try to have "rough sex"
What do I do?

I am terribly afraid that I will hurt a woman if I try to have "rough sex"
What do I do?

stop f**kig caring.

I am terribly afraid that I will hurt a woman if I try to have "rough sex"
What do I do?

Start with easy things. Grab, squeeze, pin her down. Gentle bites and nibbles. You start off slow, not by cutting her wrist and drinking her blood.