I didn't spend too much time on my profile, just put in some basic things and made quick lists of things I like. I have 3 pictures. I think I am a 6 (maybe a 7 if you're drunk) on the attractiveness scale. In one hour, ~20 people have viewed my profile and 2 have sent me messages.
One is a Latvian guy who is 10 years older than I am! The other is 2 years younger than me! Both of them write like high school kids. By the way, I am 24 years old.
Any other girls (or guys with fake girl accounts) want to share their experiences?
I got a ton of messages early on (like 10+ first day even though I live in a small town,) because when you create a new account it e-mails all local guys about it. Stopped using it because too many bros on it, not enough nerdy guys I'd be in to.
I am a male, and I send few messages here and there, and nearly invariably get replies because I'm not retarded. I also get a fair amount of my own traffic, girls sending me stuff. I'm full up right now so I am not pursuing very aggressively.
I usually get people who are gorgeous , go out with them for a day or two or a week or more, have some delicious sex, or end up becoming friends and hanging out for longer before drifting away/closer.
Life is good.
I put a bunch of nerdy sh*t in my profile and don't really care about winning anyone over with it.
I get about 3~ messages a month from girls, though I don't bother initiating any contact with girls, because I know I'd just be one of the dozens of messages they get every week.
One pretty damned good looking girl messaged me about 3 weeks or so ago, and we're going on a date this weekend. I'm surprised and nervous, but I figure I've got nothing to lose, so it can't go THAT badly.
Those sites drive me nuts. I think my standards are too high cause i always find some flaw I hate in the pics or profile.
I got a ton of messages early on (like 10+ first day even though I live in a small town,) because when you create a new account it e-mails all local guys about it. Stopped using it because too many bros on it, not enough nerdy guys I'd be in to.
>not enough nerdy guys I'd be in to
FGSGFFJHG!
What s with the guy being 2 years younger than you, bitch.
What s with the guy being 2 years younger than you, bitch.
OP is 16 obviously
>not enough nerdy guys I'd be in to
FGSGFFJHG!
She means 'nerdy' guys, who wear thick-framed hipster glasses, have a Nintendo wristband from Hot Topic, and read Ayn Rand. Not real nerds.
>not enough nerdy guys I'd be in to
FGSGFFJHG!
In my area. I ended up dating four guys. One was the most boring person I ever met (I think he was autistic or something because he could talk about nothing but anime,) one was really nice but was way too physically aggressive and bruised me up every time we met, one knew and badmouthed all my friends, and one had a diaper fetish. After exhausting all my potential prospects, I deleted my profile. I'm still friends with diaper fetish guy, though.
OP here
From what I've read from other girls, this is what I'm expecting.
Girls receive and quickly ignore messages from people out of their age range and with no writing skills. That discards about 70% of the messages.
The other 20% include guys that just aren't good looking. The other 10% are guys that are worthwhile for a date.
i dated a japanese american chick from okcupid once. she had hair on her arms. that sorta ended it for me.
OP here
From what I've read from other girls, this is what I'm expecting.
Girls receive and quickly ignore messages from people out of their age range and with no writing skills. That discards about 70% of the messages.
The other 20% include guys that just aren't good looking. The other 10% are guys that are worthwhile for a date.
>On a dating website
>Turning down 90% of your prospects due to being unattractive.
Beggars being choosers.
You're 24, and you're shocked that 22 year olds are writing to you, as if this is somehow taboo?
lol
In my area. I ended up dating four guys. One was the most boring person I ever met (I think he was autistic or something because he could talk about nothing but anime,) one was really nice but was way too physically aggressive and bruised me up every time we met, one knew and badmouthed all my friends, and one had a diaper fetish. After exhausting all my potential prospects, I deleted my profile. I'm still friends with diaper fetish guy, though.
In my area. I ended up dating four guys. One was the most boring person I ever met (I think he was autistic or something because he could talk about nothing but anime,) one was really nice but was way too physically aggressive and bruised me up every time we met, one knew and badmouthed all my friends, and one had a diaper fetish. After exhausting all my potential prospects, I deleted my profile. I'm still friends with diaper fetish guy, though.
>one was really nice but was way too physically aggressive and bruised me up every time we met
Do tell more about this guy. How can you bruise someone on a date?
>On a dating website
>Turning down 90% of your prospects due to being unattractive.
Beggars being choosers.
girls can be choosers.
>one was really nice but was way too physically aggressive and bruised me up every time we met
Do tell more about this guy. How can you bruise someone on a date?
He was really physical. Like, grabbing arms, tight hugs, and he was somewhat muscular even though he was thin. He didn't stop when I told him to stop and it was a deal-breaker for me, since if he was like that on a date, what would he be like in bed?
Met a sweet chubby girl on okcupid and gave her some dick. Her self esteem is restored and I got a sugar momma. Not ideal but it works until I have something better and she doesn't have any delusions about what it is as far as I can tell. Thanks okcupid
>On a dating website
>Turning down 90% of your prospects due to being unattractive.
Beggars being choosers.
Reread my post again. Most of them are 35 year old guys who can't spell.
Oh and as if guys don't turn down girls based on looks.
Met a sweet chubby girl on okcupid and gave her some dick. Her self esteem is restored and I got a sugar momma. Not ideal but it works until I have something better and she doesn't have any delusions about what it is as far as I can tell. Thanks okcupid
This is quite similar to my experience.
i dated a japanese american chick from okcupid once. she had hair on her arms. that sorta ended it for me.
You dumped her for being a mammal?
This is quite similar to my experience.
And mine as well. Except she was too fat and I couldn't bring myself to do it again.
Man, I used to get messages before and girls always replied to mine. I think I might have exhausted all girls in my area. The only girls I'd actually hit it off with are always far away...
I wanted to meet people who want to play video games with me, but I gave up cause its a hassle to go through mostly sh*t messages. Even when there's a rare gem, I'm too lazy to get to know them.
I wanted to meet people who want to play video games with me, but I gave up cause its a hassle to go through mostly sh*t messages. Even when there's a rare gem, I'm too lazy to get to know them.
I wish I could find a girl who plays the vidya. They're into f**king shopping instead
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