She's very amazing in all other aspects

my girlfriend likes me to slap her around and beat her (not heavily). I can't do this, and whenever I decline I feel like a little pu**y but I was raised not to hit women. She means it in a complete sexual manner and also enjoys me calling her names but I can't help but feel like a moron when I do that. She's the first girl I've ever met who likes this sh*t, what the f**k?

whatever, not troll.

No, she's the first girl you've met that has ADMITTED to liking it.

No, she's the first girl you've met that has ADMITTED to liking it.

how the f**k can they like being humiliated.
Was I raised wrong or something?

She wants to charge you with assault then take all your money.
Are you a complete retard or are you just blinded by love?

She just wants stimulation. Try breaking down her old physical addictions. Creativity necessary
be touchy and soft wit hands :3 imo

She wants to charge you with assault then take all your money.
Are you a complete retard or are you just blinded by love?

She's very amazing in all other aspects, this is the only one that weirds me out. Sometimes she tries to physically "attack" me so I can hit her back, I know its all in jokes but she HONESTLY WANTS ME TO SLAP THE SH*T OUT OF HER WHAT THE F**K.
She won't charge me with assault, and I don't even know if I might.. I don't know, enjoy this?
I think it might feel good if I DO slap... I want to but my morals won't allow me but I F**KING WANT TO SLAP LOL

anonymous, my girlfriend likes me to slap her around and beat her (not heavily). I can't do this, and whenever I decline I feel like a little pu**y but I was raised not to hit women. She means it in a complete sexual manner and also enjoys me calling her names but I can't help but feel like a moron when I do that. She's the first girl I've ever met who likes this sh*t, what the f**k?

whatever, not troll.

Women like to feel dominated. Easy as pie.
Start slow, slap her around softly, let the rage fill you and start hitting harder.

thank you anonymous
now I have enough confidence to beat the sh*t out of her (slowly but gradually) and not feel remorse or guilt about it.

OP is internalizing the action. No activity is inherently good or evil. That said, if you want to keep this chick, slap the sh*t outta her.

Better make sure you can kick her ass otherwise you're in for a rough time.

I'd slap my girlfriend if she asked for it. Bitch that she is.

OP, perhaps your woman is secretly getting off at breaking you? You seem to repeat that you have morals and sh*t - perhaps you do this som much near her, that she simply wants to demoralize you.

OP, perhaps your woman is secretly getting off at breaking you? You seem to repeat that you have morals and sh*t - perhaps you do this som much near her, that she simply wants to demoralize you.

Sorry for my spelling. I'm a retard.

wow that would be so easy to do for me
i wouldn't do it out of myself, only the occasional playful throat hold.
but im sure u must get pissed at some sh*t she does, so if she says hit me, its like instant hit her :)
feels good man

There's nothing wrong with slapping your girl around during sex if she wants you to.
Doing that and "hitting a woman" are not strictly the same kinda thing. Getting mad and hitting your girl as a way of dealing with your anger... that sucks.
But a nice slap to the face while you're bangin' her will feels good man for both of you.

female hurr.
Women want you to care for them and be respectful in basically every way. But what she wants during sex has very little to do with that. Sometimes it's just exciting and fun to get rough, to be hit, it's like a rush. It's a sexual thrill, and it's not even humiliating, just fun. So it doesn't matter if you don't understand it, you are perfectly okay in doing it. When someone says you "don't hit women" they mean you don't start abusing your wife for putting dinner on the table five minutes late. When a woman asks for violence during sex, you're good to go. Stop worrying and enjoy yourself.

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mindless women...

female hurr.
Women want you to care for them and be respectful in basically every way. But what she wants during sex has very little to do with that. Sometimes it's just exciting and fun to get rough, to be hit, it's like a rush. It's a sexual thrill, and it's not even humiliating, just fun. So it doesn't matter if you don't understand it, you are perfectly okay in doing it. When someone says you "don't hit women" they mean you don't start abusing your wife for putting dinner on the table five minutes late. When a woman asks for violence during sex, you're good to go. Stop worrying and enjoy yourself.

What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

Have you ever fapped to something that wouldn't normally sound hot to you when you weren't already jerking up a storm? It's partly like that.
Another part of it is just fantasy. Real violence is dangerous and most women don't want a part of that. But many of us have a submissive side - and getting roughed up really gets the adrenaline flowing, it intensifies sex and makes it more exciting. All the while, you know you can trust your partner to not actually hurt you. You may not be into this, but it's really common among women.

What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

It's like someone procuring an excuse to experience the sensations one wants to experience and can, but without the stigma and guilt that it carries.
>He hit me because we were having "sex" - it's not a real beating that was conducted on me, i was only fishing for sensations.

What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

>Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?
Because those things are consensual, safe, and controlled during sex. Not so much during other situations.

yeah, do it. it was the best sex of my life when I totally abused this one girl. at the end, i had a fist in her vagina and 2 fingers in her ass. totally got that bitch good. she told me she heard music. she might just be crazy. i nutted in her mouth

>Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?
Because those things are consensual, safe, and controlled during sex. Not so much during other situations.

Have you ever fapped to something that wouldn't normally sound hot to you when you weren't already jerking up a storm? It's partly like that.
Another part of it is just fantasy. Real violence is dangerous and most women don't want a part of that. But many of us have a submissive side - and getting roughed up really gets the adrenaline flowing, it intensifies sex and makes it more exciting. All the while, you know you can trust your partner to not actually hurt you. You may not be into this, but it's really common among women.

I see.
Thanks.
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What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

It's because when outside the act of sex, women prefer a nurturing providing male. When during sex those rules go out the window and they can freely let themselves feel inferior to the male who is roughing her up. It's a way for them to release their urges.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadomasochism

This is pretty common, op. It's just not regularly spoken about. Do this for her and maybe she'll do something back that you like.

It's because when outside the act of sex, women prefer a nurturing providing male. When during sex those rules go out the window and they can freely let themselves feel inferior to the male who is roughing her up. It's a way for them to release their urges.

This is pretty much true, although it's a rush to fight back, it's always more fun when I lose.
It's strange how it works like that. I don't like to be called names, but I love when my man uses physical force. I'm not subservient to him in our day to day relationship. We're very much equal, though I do love to take care of him, I appreciates when he's caring with me. But god, in bed there's nothing hotter than an aggressive man.

I had an ex like that.. it was fun as a novelty at first, but I eventually got tired of having to practically choke her out every time we had sex. If you're not compatible in bed, find someone else who makes you happy.

Ditch her, fast. One day she'll tell everyone how you abused her, then you're f**ked.

I had an ex like that.. it was fun as a novelty at first, but I eventually got tired of having to practically choke her out every time we had sex. If you're not compatible in bed, find someone else who makes you happy.

If she needs it to get off, it's too extreme. But it's definitely fun from time to time.

What differentiates time of sex and non-sex then?
I never understood why is it ok to humiliate someone during a designated time labeled as "sex" which has almost nothing to do with gentials like spliting into ones face, hiting someone or other batsh*ttery.
Why the stimulation you described can be only flulfilled during an artifiacially seperated time?

I always saw it like something like this:
>A Malay will suddenly and apparently without reason rush into the street armed with a kris or other weapons, and slash and cut at everybody he meets till he is killed. These frenzies were formerly regarded as due to sudden insanity. It is now, however, certain that the typical amok is the result of circumstances, such as domestic jealousy or gambling losses, which render a Malay desperate and weary of his life. It is, in fact, the Malay equivalent of suicide. The act of running amuck is probably due to causes over which the culprit has some amount of control, as the custom has now died out in the British possessions in the peninsula, the offenders probably objecting to being caught and tried in cold blood.

Behaviour which has no (ready) rational explanation can be canalized by labeling it and leaving it at that.
>He had amok! He is not accountable for slashing 3 other men you insensitive prick!
>She had sex! She should not be judged because She let herself be beaten! It was sex you insensitive prick!
Ah, the power of labels.

what what slap

Sorry to hijack, but my gf is similar - though she wants me to tease her verbally to the point of tears (through use of derogatory terms, etc)... A bit of physical action during sex i can understand, but this kind of emotional banter - i'm not sure if it'd be healthy to indulge in.
Please tell if this sort of thing would be purely a 'fantasy' or could actually hurt her emotionally. Thanks =)

Sorry to hijack, but my gf is similar - though she wants me to tease her verbally to the point of tears (through use of derogatory terms, etc)... A bit of physical action during sex i can understand, but this kind of emotional banter - i'm not sure if it'd be healthy to indulge in.
Please tell if this sort of thing would be purely a 'fantasy' or could actually hurt her emotionally. Thanks =)

Isn't it the point to hurt her emotionally?

Sorry to hijack, but my gf is similar - though she wants me to tease her verbally to the point of tears (through use of derogatory terms, etc)... A bit of physical action during sex i can understand, but this kind of emotional banter - i'm not sure if it'd be healthy to indulge in.
Please tell if this sort of thing would be purely a 'fantasy' or could actually hurt her emotionally. Thanks =)

She'll encourage you to do it more and more for her pleasure. Then you'll say one insignificant thing that she takes very personally. She will never properly like you again leaving you to have a wtf moment.
De very careful!