Friday, October 1, 2010

Depressed and trouble with intimacy

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants




there are lots of lonely fat chicks out there. your problem is, in addition to all that stuff you have, you also have "standards".

You probably don't initiate any conversations yourself.

>I go to sport games
wat

Ashley is hot. f**k her for practice, get over your fear of sex.
Confidence boost will help you get more friends, girlfriends, etc.

You probably don't initiate any conversations yourself.

I do every once In awhile. I just always assume that they dont want to talk to me
>I go to sport games
wat

I was trying to group basketball/soccer/football etc together in a single term.

>I have the grades
Intelligence is the single least-attractive trait that a man can have.
No, I'm not trolling. Google that sh*t.

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

OP needs to be a man.
Also, to connect with people, talk with someone you like about yourself and your fears and your past.
If you're afraid of sex, what you need to do is want it. But if you don't want sex, then don't force yourself.

i don't get it, if you go to parties then why the hell don't you make friends there? Plus if you're taking drugs you just have to get to know people throught that

>i'm social
>i have few friends
wat
also
>what am i doing wrong?
>Being in contact with opposite sex makes me panic
you answered your own question buddy

i don't get it, if you go to parties then why the hell don't you make friends there? Plus if you're taking drugs you just have to get to know people throught that

thats the thing! youd think I would gain friends from things like that, but it just never works that way
>I have the grades
Intelligence is the single least-attractive trait that a man can have.
No, I'm not trolling. Google that sh*t.

are you suggesting I act stupid? Ive heard that before.. dunno if I could bring myself to do that.

>i'm social
>i have few friends
wat
also
>what am i doing wrong?
>Being in contact with opposite sex makes me panic
you answered your own question buddy

Being social doesnt equal friends, It seems. I can talk in public with people Ive never met. I can have a good time. people just seem to hate me more and more as they get to know me.

I've got the money
I've got the place
You've got the figure
You've got the face
Let's get together
We're jumping all over,
all over the world
I've got the music
I've got the lights
You've got the figure
Full of delights
Let's get together
We're jumping all over,
all over the world
I've got position
I've got the name
You've got the power
To drive me insane
Let's get together
We're jumping all over,
all over the world
>popped into my mind when I read I have the car, I have the job. I have the money, I have the drugs.

>I have the grades
Intelligence is the single least-attractive trait that a man can have.
No, I'm not trolling. Google that sh*t.

Women like to be smarter than the men they're with. Unfortunately, most women you meet outside of university are piss stupid (and even many at university).
You can't hide intelligence, either. If you're intelligent, people will recognize it quickly, if you're an idiot, people will recognize it quickly (unless they're an idiot as well, in which case I'd imagine the world is a confusing place filled with people they don't like but can't understand why).

You lack game. If you got game, you can be a crackhead on wellfare and it won't matter.
Learn some game, receive sex.

Afraid of sex?

Why?
;iomnhbgyuvfidct


Being social doesnt equal friends, It seems. I can talk in public with people Ive never met. I can have a good time. people just seem to hate me more and more as they get to know me.

well once they get to know you, your depression probably shines through and you know, that might scare them off?

Why would I want a boyfriend who's scared of me? It doesn't mean you're a bad person, but it's alot more effort to be friends with someone who's afraid of you or nervous around you.

>I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work.
There's your problem. You are obviously insecure as f**k. No one wants to hang out with the depressed little sh*t. Man the f**k up. I often can get into a serious, emotional mood, but you have to learn that being that 24/7 is for f**king fa**ots. F**king be happy. It's that simple. Don't tell me it isn't. Grow some f**king nuts.

OP is actually pretty cute. In that picture anyway.
Can I ask how much time you spend online? It really has f**ked up my ability to connect with people. I can talk to total strangers for hours, but actually communicating with them is different entirely
Also, does OP have IM? MSN preferably


Women like to be smarter than the men they're with. Unfortunately, most women you meet outside of university are piss stupid (and even many at university).
You can't hide intelligence, either. If you're intelligent, people will recognize it quickly, if you're an idiot, people will recognize it quickly (unless they're an idiot as well, in which case I'd imagine the world is a confusing place filled with people they don't like but can't understand why).

come on, that's bullsh*t. Most women are with men that are more intelligent than them. I honestly doubt his intelligence is the problem, i mean he seems average. No offense but i'd say this is only a problem if you're like a math prodigy or anything

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

Maybe you are an a**hole? have you tried to be nicier(sp?) with people?

OP is actually pretty cute. In that picture anyway.
Can I ask how much time you spend online? It really has f**ked up my ability to connect with people. I can talk to total strangers for hours, but actually communicating with them is different entirely
Also, does OP have IM? MSN preferably

I spend a couple hours online a day, doing my homework out of an online-college system.
msn?
[]@hotmail.com
Why would I want a boyfriend who's scared of me? It doesn't mean you're a bad person, but it's alot more effort to be friends with someone who's afraid of you or nervous around you.

Im not scared of women. Im scared of sex. Physical contact isnt as bad these days, If i truly trust somebody, its actually enjoyable.


I spend a couple hours online a day, doing my homework out of an online-college system.
msn?
[]@hotmail.com
Im not scared of women. Im scared of sex. Physical contact isnt as bad these days, If i truly trust somebody, its actually enjoyable.

Hurr durr, meant @live.com for the email.

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

I've seen this picture before.
Strange.


I've seen this picture before.
Strange.

I have posted it before as a thread starter. heres more if you dont believe me.

Here, have this. :3 <3

Sup OP, you sound a whole lot like me, which means yer f**ked.

It's probably because you drive an ass ugly gallant.

OP is a prime example of fake confidence and is proof that people can see right through it.

OP is a prime example of fake confidence and is proof that people can see right through it.

Ouch. Right where it hurts, dude.
Yeah, I know im insecure. But what can I do to get over it?

OP, you're cute as f**k, get of the Internet and go meet people.
You don't sound too f**ked up, which usually is a good thing, but don't try to hide half of your personality when getting to know people,
they'll become friends with you for who they think you are, and run away when they get to know you. If you are c**ky by nature, be c**ky. My first conversation with one of my best friends were about how much I hate people.
And that thing about females not liking intelligence, wrong.

OP, you're cute as f**k, get of the Internet and go meet people.
You don't sound too f**ked up, which usually is a good thing, but don't try to hide half of your personality when getting to know people,
they'll become friends with you for who they think you are, and run away when they get to know you. If you are c**ky by nature, be c**ky. My first conversation with one of my best friends were about how much I hate people.
And that thing about females not liking intelligence, wrong.

This sounds like good advice, thank you.
Whats the best way to meet people? I live in the mid-west USA.. pretty rural here.

It's probably because you drive an ass ugly gallant.

f**k off gallants are badazz, like spelling badass with z's


Ouch. Right where it hurts, dude.
Yeah, I know im insecure. But what can I do to get over it?

lol sorry didn't mean to insult you. I just was trying it to make it clear for other people on anonymous.
What is it about yourself that you don't like? I guess you should try to look at exactly what it is you are faking and why.


This sounds like good advice, thank you.
Whats the best way to meet people? I live in the mid-west USA.. pretty rural here.

Well, I'm from DK so I have no idea how people meet other people in the US.
How ever, at school can be a good place (if your school has parties, social gatherings and so on), at parties (private party = talking to people, getting to know others, at a club: get drunk, fool around with other drunk people), through friends (your friends friends and you could very well have a lot in common).
As for the social insecurity, you need to convince yourself that you don't give a f**k if people like you or not, stop trying to please everybody, it wont work anyway.

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

You are thinking. That is the problem. You'll find that most people who are confident about women are completely oblivious to everything.
I'm ronery too. It is due to self-awareness.


lol sorry didn't mean to insult you. I just was trying it to make it clear for other people on anonymous.
What is it about yourself that you don't like? I guess you should try to look at exactly what it is you are faking and why.

Im faking happiness. I truly hate who I've become, and my greatest fear is being successful in life. Being miserable is where I feel at peace.


Im faking happiness. I truly hate who I've become, and my greatest fear is being successful in life. Being miserable is where I feel at peace.

Then why leave? Revel in it...


Well, I'm from DK so I have no idea how people meet other people in the US.
How ever, at school can be a good place (if your school has parties, social gatherings and so on), at parties (private party = talking to people, getting to know others, at a club: get drunk, fool around with other drunk people), through friends (your friends friends and you could very well have a lot in common).
As for the social insecurity, you need to convince yourself that you don't give a f**k if people like you or not, stop trying to please everybody, it wont work anyway.

Thank you

You are thinking. That is the problem. You'll find that most people who are confident about women are completely oblivious to everything.
I'm ronery too. It is due to self-awareness.

....does not compute. I dont want to be that typical poser fa**ot who wears converse and listens to eminem.


Then why leave? Revel in it...

Because making others happy pleases me.. somewhat contradictory, I know.

>i have the drugs
>i have the talent
Those 2 can't go together bro, you only got one of them.


Thank you
....does not compute. I dont want to be that typical poser fa**ot who wears converse and listens to eminem.

Then you are stuck. Either enjoy it, or beat yourself up about it. It really is entirely up to you.

You're thinking about the future too much. Just go with it, ask a chick you dont know out after 10 minutes of conversation.
Just. DO. EET.


Because making others happy pleases me.. somewhat contradictory, I know.

I realise now that I dont care for you. Your problems are in your own mind, and you are not the kind of person who appears to accept any opinion outside of your own boundaries of acceptance. You started this thread because you are in control, and you will leave in control.
This thread poses no objective other than to satisfy your own indulgence in somewhat primitive thought.
Threads should really end here, but I suppose they won't.


Im faking happiness. I truly hate who I've become, and my greatest fear is being successful in life. Being miserable is where I feel at peace.


Well, I'm from DK so I have no idea how people meet other people in the US.
How ever, at school can be a good place (if your school has parties, social gatherings and so on), at parties (private party = talking to people, getting to know others, at a club: get drunk, fool around with other drunk people), through friends (your friends friends and you could very well have a lot in common).
As for the social insecurity, you need to convince yourself that you don't give a f**k if people like you or not, stop trying to please everybody, it wont work anyway.
- again
Know that feeling. Start talking about it with people who will listen.
Tell people around you when something bothers you, I for one told my family, that I would appreciate if they would leave me alone when I say I don't want to talk, which helped me relax, and make an effort to do stuff that you find interesting.


I realise now that I dont care for you. Your problems are in your own mind, and you are not the kind of person who appears to accept any opinion outside of your own boundaries of acceptance. You started this thread because you are in control, and you will leave in control.
This thread poses no objective other than to satisfy your own indulgence in somewhat primitive thought.
Threads should really end here, but I suppose they won't.

I can see why you might think that. And, on some level, it may be true.


Im faking happiness. I truly hate who I've become, and my greatest fear is being successful in life. Being miserable is where I feel at peace.

>my greatest fear is being successful in life
Your real fear is a fear of failure. No one fears success.

What worked for me:
1) Talk to people you know, don't avoid conversation because you don't feel like it. I actually found it helpful to drink coffee or a red bull if I knew I was going somewhere where I wanted to be social. After a while, things will feel more natural and you can phase out the caffeine. Caffeine alone won't work, though.
2) Always try to make plans for weekends and holidays. This will force you to call up your friends to hang out whenever they're free, and call up acquaintances you want to hang out with more when they're not. You'll probably get some dates out of it, too.

What worked for me:
1) Talk to people you know, don't avoid conversation because you don't feel like it. I actually found it helpful to drink coffee or a red bull if I knew I was going somewhere where I wanted to be social. After a while, things will feel more natural and you can phase out the caffeine. Caffeine alone won't work, though.
2) Always try to make plans for weekends and holidays. This will force you to call up your friends to hang out whenever they're free, and call up acquaintances you want to hang out with more when they're not. You'll probably get some dates out of it, too.

Oh yeah, and
3) When you're bored, IM random people you know instead of just playing the vidya or browsing the webs.


>my greatest fear is being successful in life
Your real fear is a fear of failure. No one fears success.

..I suppose. My fear is of being successful, then having it all taken away again. Why try?

some people have bad personalities that cause others not to like them
needy, annoying, passive, lacky, these are things that I think might be you, OP

some people have bad personalities that cause others not to like them
needy, annoying, passive, lacky, these are things that I think might be you, OP

Passive may be the word that best fits.

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

Considering people who post their pictures on web inevitably post the most attractive picture they have we can comfortably assume that this is the best you have to offer.
Massive mouth, massive nose, unpronounced cheekbones and wonky eyebrows.
Skinny to the point of weediness, and a ghostly white complexion. Bad, unless you are a girl.
Unless you are 15, good luck is all I can say.


Considering people who post their pictures on web inevitably post the most attractive picture they have we can comfortably assume that this is the best you have to offer.
Massive mouth, massive nose, unpronounced cheekbones and wonky eyebrows.
Skinny to the point of weediness, and a ghostly white complexion. Bad, unless you are a girl.
Unless you are 15, good luck is all I can say.

Watch out, internet tough guy here.
I know Im not a f**king model.

>So, my question is, why am I still so ronery?
because you`re not yourself.

IF YOU GOT BAD NEWS
YOU WANNA KICK THE BLUES
COCAINE
WHEN THE DAY IS DONE
AND YOU WANNA RUN
COCAINE


Watch out, internet tough guy here.
I know Im not a f**king model.

I'm a girl, teehee...
Secondly, I am not hoping to insult you, I just hope to bring you down to earth. You are not special in appearance. Appearance gets you a lot in life, so you likely have little to show for yourself in all other ways.
You sound superficial - You have a car, a job, money, drugs, grades, music, talent and intelligence.

OP, it sounds a bit like you're surrounding yourself with superficial and/or shallow relationships, who won't make you feel any less ronery.
Can any of the few friends you have be considered very close friends? People you often and truthfully enjoy being together with?
Also, since I think it's deemed necessary to ask, are you a virgin?

Start using apostrophes and your life will improve approximately 150%.


I'm a girl, teehee...
Secondly, I am not hoping to insult you, I just hope to bring you down to earth. You are not special in appearance. Appearance gets you a lot in life, so you likely have little to show for yourself in all other ways.
You sound superficial - You have a car, a job, money, drugs, grades, music, talent and intelligence.

I see.. no offence taken.
And I truly do have all those things.. In varying degrees, ill admit.
OP, it sounds a bit like you're surrounding yourself with superficial and/or shallow relationships, who won't make you feel any less ronery.
Can any of the few friends you have be considered very close friends? People you often and truthfully enjoy being together with?
Also, since I think it's deemed necessary to ask, are you a virgin?

Ashley, the girl in the picture. I truly enjoy being around her. Been friends for a very long time.
and yes, I am a virgin.

Sure is condescending c**ts in here.
OP, you say you have the drugs?
2mg of Xanax before you go out with a girl. Solves the panic problem.

you have love shyness

Okay. What am I doing wrong?
I have the car, I have the job.
I have the money, I have the drugs.
I have the grades, I have the music.
I have the talent, I have the intelligence.
Im not terrible looking. Im a very sociable person, I enjoy having a good time. Im not too bad at talking to wimmenz. I try my hardest to not be c**ky or conceited, and people tell me that they dont see me as either.
So, my question is, why am I still so ronery? I have maybe two friends. I get out and go to partys, I go to sport games. I try not to come on too strong, and I dont "dog" or annoy people.. I think.
What could I be missing? What am I doing wrong?
I tried the generic "hurr durr how to be cool" checklist and it didnt work. Myth: Busted
Everyone has problems, me included. Sex scares me. Being in physical contact with the opposite sex usually triggers panic attacks due to suppressed memories.. Im a very depressed person, but Id like to think that the mask of happiness I put on opaque. Is it that obvious?
pic is me and one of my few friends, Ashley.
tl;dr
roneryf** rants

this post really reminded me of a person i used to know irl. he's decent looking and sociable, has the drugs and the grades and knows a lot of the same music and scifi that i do.
the problem is, he's... creepy. uncanny. awkward. icky. idk how to explain it. he talks obsessively and i don't really want to talk to him. i feel like every conversation i have with the guy is an hour and a half wasted. and he doesn't take a hint when i try to avoid him. talks about sh*t i don't care about, like his bike and the terrible novel he wrote. he feels soulless.
i really wish i could quantify or pinpoint what's wrong with the guy... i really feel bad for him, especially since i used to be a roneryf** myself, but i can't stand to be around him. he's easily the most annoying person i've ever met.
/blah

Developing a dominant sense of reality is not something that necessarily happens overnight. It comes with experiences that prove to you that you can get what you want if you reach out and take it.

OP, you sound exactly like my friend.
He's pretty much good at everything and he told me he was scared of sex because he didn't want to be bad at it.
So pretty much I coaxed him into it and took his virginity.
Am I bad person for using his weakness to satisfy my own needs?
Oh well, it was worth it.


this post really reminded me of a person i used to know irl. he's decent looking and sociable, has the drugs and the grades and knows a lot of the same music and scifi that i do.
the problem is, he's... creepy. uncanny. awkward. icky. idk how to explain it. he talks obsessively and i don't really want to talk to him. i feel like every conversation i have with the guy is an hour and a half wasted. and he doesn't take a hint when i try to avoid him. talks about sh*t i don't care about, like his bike and the terrible novel he wrote. he feels soulless.
i really wish i could quantify or pinpoint what's wrong with the guy... i really feel bad for him, especially since i used to be a roneryf** myself, but i can't stand to be around him. he's easily the most annoying person i've ever met.
/blah

Sometimes I wonder if I'm that guy. It sure seems that I am, sometimes.
OP, you sound exactly like my friend.
He's pretty much good at everything and he told me he was scared of sex because he didn't want to be bad at it.
So pretty much I coaxed him into it and took his virginity.
Am I bad person for using his weakness to satisfy my own needs?
Oh well, it was worth it.

Ashley has tried to coax me into sex many times. Turned it down every time.

OP, you sound exactly like my friend.
He's pretty much good at everything and he told me he was scared of sex because he didn't want to be bad at it.
So pretty much I coaxed him into it and took his virginity.
Am I bad person for using his weakness to satisfy my own needs?
Oh well, it was worth it.

Was he any good? It's really not that hard to be good at sex. The biggest challenge for a man is not cumming too soon imo.


I see.. no offence taken.
And I truly do have all those things.. In varying degrees, ill admit.
Ashley, the girl in the picture. I truly enjoy being around her. Been friends for a very long time.
and yes, I am a virgin.

Alright, for starters, get yourself laid.
You claim you are do fine chatting with girls and you go to parties, combine the two and get yourself some booty.
How will this solve any of your problems?
- Getting rid of virginity = Greatly increased confidence and you'll never lie in bed again worrying about dieing a virgin.
- Said increase in confidence will shine through and people will notice.
- Virgin sex is generally always sh*t and uncomfortable and will most likely be so in your case as well. Having said sh*tty sex with a potential girlfriend might ruin it or give your relation a bumpy start.
Experience speaking.


Alright, for starters, get yourself laid.
You claim you are do fine chatting with girls and you go to parties, combine the two and get yourself some booty.
How will this solve any of your problems?
- Getting rid of virginity = Greatly increased confidence and you'll never lie in bed again worrying about dieing a virgin.
- Said increase in confidence will shine through and people will notice.
- Virgin sex is generally always sh*t and uncomfortable and will most likely be so in your case as well. Having said sh*tty sex with a potential girlfriend might ruin it or give your relation a bumpy start.
Experience speaking.

That.. makes sense.
Thank you for some genuinely good advice.


Was he any good? It's really not that hard to be good at sex. The biggest challenge for a man is not cumming too soon imo.

He wasn't horrible but yeah, that was the problem. He was scared he wasn't going to last long and honestly, I'd rather short and sweet. Sex gets boring and starts hurting if you're f**king for ages.


That.. makes sense.
Thank you for some genuinely good advice.

You probably think of sex as pretty big deal, but it is not, which is why you ought to get it over with
After getting laid you'll probably beat yourself up for having wasted so much time being worried about it.

OP is quite handsome.

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