Tuesday, August 17, 2010

What if you were suddenly unable to masturbate?

How important is your own sexual happiness? If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living? What if you were suddenly unable to masturbate, or woke up with no genitals (but still with the ability to feel sexual desire- no means of relieving it)? Would you be able to go through life completely celibate?
Obviously there are a lot of baw threads about relationships here, but how important in comparison to other things in life?




The unable to fap question is different from the former and much more serious. Because it seems like it could cause someone to actually go insane, whereas the former is only one aspect of life.

I don't think I'd want to live without sexuality. Seriously.

The unable to fap question is different from the former and much more serious. Because it seems like it could cause someone to actually go insane, whereas the former is only one aspect of life.

To continue, not being able to fap would be like semi-starvation all your life, it would mess with your mental faculties. Not having a relationship would be like never learning to drive or something, it's sad and socially looked down upon, but not as big a deal.

I am able to fap but probably won't ever be able to have sex.
I am depressed about it but not to the point of killing myself. Objectively I have a good life but due to this and a few other things I feel like my life is sh*t.

OP has just lost his penis in a terrible accident involving badgers and peanut butter.

It depends. Unless you're asexual or have a very low sex drive, most people need sex. You can have the other kinds of intimacy with friends and family, I guess. So it would depend on the person.
Me, I'd make the most of it but probably be pretty miserable.

I am able to fap but probably won't ever be able to have sex.
I am depressed about it but not to the point of killing myself. Objectively I have a good life but due to this and a few other things I feel like my life is sh*t.

Why won't you? Are you just assuming this based on bad luck so far?

I'd become an hero
Sexual frustration is one of my worst fears.

I figure this might be a good place to ask this question.
How important to you is your own sexual happiness? If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living? What if you were suddenly unable to masturbate, or woke up with no genitals (but still with the ability to feel sexual desire- no means of relieving it)? Would you be able to go through life completely celibate?
Obviously there are a lot of baw threads about relationships here, but how important in comparison to other things in life?

I would be fine. I don't need bitches and wh**res to be successful.

Able and have done both many times before, but I have premature ejaculation. So I never get much pleasure from it nor can give pleasure from straight sex. I've become great with my fingers and tongue to women, but I'll never know a really great orgasm.
Sh*t sucks.

Could you be in a relationship without sex?

>If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living
What do you mean 'if'? This describes my actual life.

I stopped SSRI's cold turkey because it was messing with my sex life (couldn't ejaculate).
So you could go out on a limb and say that I'd rather be depressed and sexually able then drugged and without good sex.

I'm pretty on purpose celibate as it is. It's really not important to me. I don't understand all the baw+ronery+virgin threads. Lost mine, had some amazing sex, howevs, I can live without it. I've plenty of things to do, people to see, people to cuddle, people to go on platonic dates with. It's lovely. I do like having the option of finding a special someone, but people/sex are valuable and not disposable and cheap to me, and I'm perfectly happy on my own.
pic related, my celibacy hero.

I figure this might be a good place to ask this question.
How important to you is your own sexual happiness? If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living? What if you were suddenly unable to masturbate, or woke up with no genitals (but still with the ability to feel sexual desire- no means of relieving it)? Would you be able to go through life completely celibate?
Obviously there are a lot of baw threads about relationships here, but how important in comparison to other things in life?

>good prospects concerning your career and education
Personally, this is what makes me happy. I try to achieve something every day working towards bigger goals, thus making me feel less needy for women. I think it's the attention I receive from doing what I do that pushes me forward and keeps me trying harder to better myself (I work as an animator/cartoonist).
Although I fap about, once a week, I don't think I could go with out sexual interaction for ever, be it with my hand or someone else.

>If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living
What do you mean 'if'? This describes my actual life.

Are you the elephant man or something? If not, shut up. Your situation is your own doing.

I figure this might be a good place to ask this question.
How important to you is your own sexual happiness? If you were to know by some stroke of magic that it would be impossible for you to ever have sex/a relationship, but you had good prospects concerning your career and education, a purpose defining what you want to do in life, and good family and friends, would you still want to go on living? What if you were suddenly unable to masturbate, or woke up with no genitals (but still with the ability to feel sexual desire- no means of relieving it)? Would you be able to go through life completely celibate?
Obviously there are a lot of baw threads about relationships here, but how important in comparison to other things in life?

I already live through this. I want to have sex almost constantly, hell just have an orgasm, but due to my medication that I need in order to not kill myself/wallow in my own perceived worthlessness, I can't orgasm.
I manage, but want to scream at a wall half the time.

Assuming the obvious biological complications didn't exist, I'd be fine.
In reaity I'm guessing the hormone buildup would seriously f**k you over, but in the absence of that sex is pretty far down my list of priorities.

Considering the fact that I never have sex, it obviously isn't important to me at all.

I used to think I needed sex but then I got older and uglier and realized I cannot afford to need sex.

>Life without penis
That'd make pissing really difficult.


I already live through this. I want to have sex almost constantly, hell just have an orgasm, but due to my medication that I need in order to not kill myself/wallow in my own perceived worthlessness, I can't orgasm.
I manage, but want to scream at a wall half the time.

I can't orgasm, and that's not due to any medication either :/ I've just never been able to, either through masturbation and sex.
In response to Op's question: It makes life really really frustrating because there is no release for any of that tension. So no, I don't think most people could be satisfied without that aspect of their life happening for them.

I plan on killing myself at 30 if I don't have kids or someone to screw every day.
Really no point to living if don't have either. Meaningful career pah why should I care about that, why should I give a f**k about other people when I have received nothing. Also possible, I will become one of the greatest murderers of all time.


I can't orgasm, and that's not due to any medication either :/ I've just never been able to, either through masturbation and sex.
In response to Op's question: It makes life really really frustrating because there is no release for any of that tension. So no, I don't think most people could be satisfied without that aspect of their life happening for them.

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>Life without penis
That'd make pissing really difficult.

it's called sitting down

I honestly don't know. It's too good to just stop having it (though I'm going through a dry spell at the moment) But then I don't think I'd end my life because of lack of it.


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There are no women on the internet.

I enjoy sex too much to give it up.
also, I'm a wh**re.


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There is truth in this statement.

Not really sure. I guess it just depends on how I'm feeling at the time. Sometimes I have my sexual desires totally in check, most other times I very much do not. If I was going through a time period during which I was very sexually charged and could not relieve it, I strongly suspect I would kill myself.

>stroke of magic
exactly

If I couldn't f**k, or did not know how to acquire females, I would f**king kill myself.
I am dead srs.

Well... I'm a virgin... so if that were the case, it would probably be better to happen sooner or later since I wouldn't know what I'm missing.

I didn't read the entire OP post, but I can honestly say that I would give up sexual pleasure in order to be in a relationship with a girl who I loved.

1 comment:

  1. Well as a 23 year old virgin, not by choice, yeah it would suck. The main reason I'm a virgin now is because I work alot, and have usually a day off every 3 weeks. I will go 3 weeks without any contact with women whatsoever. Honestly, I was addicted to heroin once and overcoming it wasn't as bad as being alone and ridiculously horny all the time. It's funny how different reactions to problems. I'm one of the unlucky few who need a relationship or sex to function.

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